Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

2006-09-28 18:09:04 · 13 answers · asked by klay43701 1 in Singles & Dating

hey guys, i know a few girls who say they finished with guys cos they were bad in bed (not selfish - just not very good).
Just wondering if the opposite applies - would a guy ever dump a girl for being bad in bed?

personally i wouldnt dump a guy for that, unless he was a selfish lover

2006-09-28 18:08:41 · 15 answers · asked by ash1 4 in Singles & Dating

Our ship just docked in San Diego and a whole bunch us got a contest going on. Who ever brings the uglyest girl to a designated club. Let the judges look at her and kiss her in front of the judges and dance nasty with her. Wins 5000 dollars. I need some help where can I find the uglyest girl in S.D.

2006-09-28 18:08:07 · 12 answers · asked by Robertus911 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 18:08:01 · 8 answers · asked by sunn 1 in Friends

2006-09-28 18:07:05 · 12 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey, sometimes i think about it really.. Is it alright to say that u love one of ur male buddies?? I mean to describe that u feel some platonic love with him?? + U're sure that u 2 aren't gay or so...

Is it alright?? and why??
Would u mention that to him?? and why??
Do u know anybody who does it??

2006-09-28 18:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by Kwassa Kwassa 3 in Friends

We have been together for over three years and he moved in with me two years ago. We had talked about living together but then he and his roomate had a falling out and he lost his place to live. I did't hesitate when he showed up on my doorstep with his bags and our dog (was first his dog} I think things went south a couple of months ago but he was telling everyone else how unhappy he was but not me! I had broken my foot and wasn't working and it became like he resented me and that I was the one making him so unhapppy. I became the villian without even knowing why. At Christmas his mom and I were discussing where our rehearsal dinner would be and now I am this horrible person....what the?%#*
So I decided that financially and sanity wise I needed to move out. He said he thought I was being responsible in saving more money and that he also thought we needed SPACE so he is now going to stay in our rented house alone, "finallly have his own place that felt like home" What is happening???

2006-09-28 18:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by charlestongirl78 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm bored and trying to get my mind off of something, what to do? Give me some suggestions. Anything. Be sarcastic or funny if you want, give me something to laugh at.

2006-09-28 18:04:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-28 18:03:42 · 15 answers · asked by free-spirit 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

THIS IS A MUST READ.

Subject: Serena Williams Interview

Ms. Williams we are all interested in your new boyfriend.
There is no new boyfriend . I stopped playing with boys when I stopped dating black guys. I have a new man in my life and yes, he's white.

So you prefer to date white men instead of black guys?

Let's be real. If you are a successful black female you only have two choices...date outside of your race or date other successful black females.

What do you mean by warped mentalities?

Well, where do I begin? Many of them were raised predominantly by women and had this feminine/bisexual complex. Where they wanted to be treated like a female sometimes. For example, I would have the money & they would have the sex. I would teach them things. You know, all the things a woman likes a man to do, I would end up doing for them.

((there's more but it all cant fit in this window. but what are your thoughts?))

2006-09-28 18:03:32 · 10 answers · asked by HonestTruth 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you LIKE your spouse or do you stay for the child/children. Are you in a comfort zone or are you willing to stop appeasing and live life!!!!

2006-09-28 18:02:08 · 24 answers · asked by Legend 1 in Marriage & Divorce

relationships

2006-09-28 18:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by Joe S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im still not over this guy who broke my heart despite that i still want to be with him, my friends think that i'm obsessing.it's been 3 years.how come i can't seem to let go?

2006-09-28 18:00:22 · 20 answers · asked by Katrine Nyce 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that women never go for the short guy. The guy could be total loser and hot because he's tall and the short guy is just a nice guy. What's so great about the height factor. But maybe I'm just bitter.

2006-09-28 17:57:45 · 16 answers · asked by TheHeftyLefty 2 in Singles & Dating

i know this may sound stupid but im actually falling for my own student.-im a teacher by the way..he is a bit younger than i am and i think that he feels the same way bout me..just that we are stuck with the teacher-student relationship..what should i do??go for it or leave it???

2006-09-28 17:57:18 · 26 answers · asked by cha yang 1 in Singles & Dating

i am afread of women that look good i can not move to them they will put me down they will mack fun of me and frends to do i need a phisciratrest help me that is how i see it

2006-09-28 17:57:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im not looking for a definite answer, i just want some pointers

2006-09-28 17:56:35 · 10 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3 in Singles & Dating

If someone acts like they REALLY are into you one second ,then the moment you show the smallest drop of mutual interest they act ice cold (almost offended),like they don't even want to be personable with you? It's very irritating and confusing !!! I need some sound advice!

2006-09-28 17:54:50 · 17 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

i just met a man on the street and i asked him the way to my univ..and we talked..then he asked my number and called me for a coffee..

the coffee time went pretty well( hopefully it's not my own feeling), and when we decided to leave, he said: probably we should meet next week for a meal..

but after last friday's meeting, he doesnt call me until now..it's almost a week..

i dont get it..he was just being polite to say that..or he is not into me at all..or some other problems?

i just want to know how you guys think about it..generally after first meeting(date? ), how long will you contact the girl?

i think man is impatient ..they wont wait that long..so i think he just doesnt take me seriously..right?

2006-09-28 17:53:32 · 7 answers · asked by milk 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a very abusive relationship! Please tell me what should I do?

2006-09-28 17:52:10 · 28 answers · asked by ~h0tmAmA1~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 17:52:05 · 6 answers · asked by BonitaNala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am just curious to know if it would go against Islam, or Islamic law or something.
If a Catholic gets married, it must be in the Catholic church, otherwise the Catholic church does not recognize the marriage as valid, as being a sacrament.
so can the Muslim man and Catholic woman get married in a Catholic Church without going against the man's(Muslim man) religion?
although the children will be raised muslim like the father.

or can they get married in a Mosque then? instead of a church.
where are they supposed to get married. a church? mosque? other?

2006-09-28 17:51:33 · 17 answers · asked by Alexis Samira 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 17:50:29 · 12 answers · asked by june71969 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my ex today was laying with me and cuddling after we'd had sex. And he was looking at me and stroking my hair and pushing it out of my eyes as I lay there with him. We didn't say anything we just lay there and it was great. Do you guys do this with someone you aren't in love with? It's one thing to cuddle but to stare at someone lovingly like that? I don't know. I need your opinions. I definitely love my ex.

please no rude comments..

2006-09-28 17:49:01 · 23 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

This women and i have talked off and on for about 2 months,I like her but she has been hurt alot so she is very against men.I know if if i play hard 2 get it won't matter,i want to know if i should try to pursue her,and what i can do to prove i'm not like the men she has dated before...I don't want to bug her but i want to show her i like her without seeming like a psyco...

2006-09-28 17:47:46 · 35 answers · asked by angels and airwaves 1 in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine who is 19 has a huge crush on a married woman with kids who is his teacher, what should he do?

2006-09-28 17:47:43 · 9 answers · asked by matt 2 in Friends

ok so there is this guy i like but i am known for hating him and he hates me and he has a girl friend , i am shy so ....... i told my friend and she told another friend now that girls threatens me that she is gonna tellaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa help ive tried to froget him but i cant he is relly hot! ps i am in gr.7

2006-09-28 17:47:28 · 10 answers · asked by Angie y 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been living with my bf for a few months , we've not been together a whole year but have known ea. other for years. He is nice, caring and supportive..on the other hand we have been bitching back and forth to the point that he is not even home right becuase he stormed out. This is why(dumbest thing in the world) he was clipping his fingernails and I told him to make sure he cleans up after himself in a nice way (i swear!) and he snapped at me like i should not have even said anything bc he KNOWS! Then rents due in like 2 days and hes 40 bucks short on rent (he hasnt paid his half of groceries or utilities yet, i havent asked, but he knows thats part of the deal which is add'l $100+) and asked if i could cover it. the day b4 yesterday my engine blew up and i dont even have a damn car right now let alone his portion of rent, when o ya, he has like ten grand in a savings account that he doesnt want to get out but he thinks I should spend my pay when i have none! what should i do??

2006-09-28 17:46:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So I'm in love with my best friend.( things have started to get more serious latley ) but he doesn't aknowledge me as someone he is "seeing" . He acts as if we are just buddies in front of people, even though his actions when we are alone speek otherwise. He has told me he doesnt want to keep "us" a secret, but still hasent jumped at the chance of making "us" officail. I think he may be jealous of his ex(who he is still good friends with) cuz she is now dating someone, be he insists he doesn't like her like that, and likes only me. I feel like i'm being used as his "on the side girl" because even though everyone knows we like eachother, he hasen't actully admitted it to anyone except me. Is he just being shy and testing the waters, or is is something else i'm missing?! Please help!

2006-09-28 17:45:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 get 2 know u ? y do we have 2 suffer because of some other guy?dont u feel every guy deserves a clean slate remember its not that guys fault all men are not the same.Answer me y?

2006-09-28 17:44:49 · 10 answers · asked by q45dip 3 in Singles & Dating