hey guys, i know a few girls who say they finished with guys cos they were bad in bed (not selfish - just not very good).
Just wondering if the opposite applies - would a guy ever dump a girl for being bad in bed?
personally i wouldnt dump a guy for that, unless he was a selfish lover
2006-09-28 18:08:41 · 15 answers · asked by ash1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way. If my girl was bad in bed, i wouldn't dump her. I wouldn't tell her either. I would casually say that practice makes perfect and we need to practice more. Next, I would guide her carefully, telling her my likes and dislikes, eventually letting her do her own thing until she got the routine down pack. Nobody's good at kissing and sex and stuff on their first tries. It needs time, practice, and patience.
2006-09-28 18:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Omar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU'LL NEVER OUT FOX THE FOX
((((
Well, here's a thought....wait until you're married...then learn together how to be good lovers. But unfortunately, we're not that patient, nor that committed in our culture to do this. People would rather hop from bed to bed, then find someone who can really curl their toes, and decide "this must be the one", but in reality, you've only based your relationship on something that takes up less than 5 percent of your time together ))))
I am so on board with his answer, that I can't even post my own. I feel just as he does. People are cheating themselves, hopping from pillar to post.
Yeahhhh FOX 5*****
2006-09-29 01:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by rebecwi3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's a thought....wait until you're married...then learn together how to be good lovers. But unfortunately, we're not that patient, nor that committed in our culture to do this. People would rather hop from bed to bed, then find someone who can really curl their toes, and decide "this must be the one", but in reality, you've only based your relationship on something that takes up less than 5 percent of your time together.
2006-09-29 01:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is an important aspect in a love relationship but surely not the most important there is a pelenty of thing a couple can done together.That is selfish to dump someone coz he/she is not good in bed.,so the answer is no
2006-09-29 01:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by secret &trade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is such a key part of a relationship. I would not dump a girl for being bad, but I might dump a girl for staying bad. After we work on doing more exciting things and telling her what I like, if she still was not good...I would move on.
2006-09-29 01:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Zero Cool 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only if she makes no attempt to get better at it. It is a real turn off if the girl just lays there like a board. Even worse if she has to have the lights off and lays there like a board. I had a girl like this once. She was pretty hopeless. I gave her a chance though. Then I found a wild one. Much better.
2006-09-29 01:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by astral 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of the fun of a new lover is showing them how to please you, and learning what pleases them.
If they lack the experience you have, or are used to, then it is your duty to teach them, which can be fun.
Demonstrate on their other body parts (nipples) how you like to be touched (sucked). Place their hands where you want them and stroke with their hands the way you like it.
Don't give up on a girl becuase you are too afraid or ashamed to teach her how to do you the way you need to be done.....
2006-09-29 01:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...my beliefs are that a girl can't be bad in bed because a guy does all the work anyway.
2006-09-29 01:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these guys are such liars. Sex is sex too most men. Usually, their just happy that they are getting some.
2006-09-29 01:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by bsd300d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I like teaching.
2006-09-29 01:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋