i know this may sound stupid but im actually falling for my own student.-im a teacher by the way..he is a bit younger than i am and i think that he feels the same way bout me..just that we are stuck with the teacher-student relationship..what should i do??go for it or leave it???
2006-09-28 17:57:18 · 26 answers · asked by cha yang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, just let it go.
you may be fallin for your student and maybe your student feels the same about u now, but he is just a kid. meaning your more mature than him...
not only that, your his teacher.
you should think not only for yourself, but for your student too. a teacher is there to give the kid a better future. think abt that.
and also, he may like you now, but will he be worth to risk to your carreer?
2006-09-28 18:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by ssr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, its not professional, it could cost you your job, it could even land you in jail if the student is under 18--a female teacher here in Cal just got a year in jail for a relationship with a 16 year old boy student. People often have to wait, and thats what you'll have to do. If you think he feels for you, level with him that nothing can or should happen--the law is very tough and inflexible, tell him that if anything is ever to happen between you two, it will have to be, 1--when he is over 18, and 2--when he is NOT a student of yours. Its a difficult situation, sorry its so tough, but you have to walk away from any involvement at all until both of those conditions are met.
2006-09-29 01:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your job or wait till he graduates. Then start dating since the status of your relationship will not be the same then and you wont feel like you are doing something wrong. I must say that no matter what the government or law says, there is nothing wrong in liking a student. You cant help it. However it is extremely important that you consider his age and do not in any case get sexually involved. If he is really young which I doubt in your case, leave him alone for a few years. However if he is an adult, then honestly I dont see anything ethically wrong with it. Its just the law that makes so many things seem worse than they are.
2006-09-29 01:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be the next headline? The one where people shake their heads, in disbelief? Do you really want to risk everything you have gained on a student? I mean if your willing to give everything up that you have worked so hard and come so far for. Then I say go for it. But think about it sensibly. Because if you use your brain, which I know you have or you wouldn't be a teacher. And use your gut to. That helps. Just don't follow your heart in this case it will lead you blindly into trouble.
2006-09-29 01:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have respect for you reputation as a teacher ? if not get out of the school system and then and only then ask her out. if your answer was a resounding ´ yes¨ and you start seeing her in places and times when you should´t , you will regret it big time. go please yourself,if you have to, buT stay away from the tentation. meet other teachers. there are many other hot teachers who would love to meet you, you just need to make yourself available. if one rejects you, meet two more. make it a game when it comes to finding that someone special.
2006-09-29 01:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by tichergeorge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havent you been watching the tv lately, your a professional, you didn't say if your married or not, but guess what, married or not, NO__NO__NO. ppl always talk, and believe me it will come out, there goes you career, the publicity, yur feelings of sorrow,, you will be put down so badly, so why not look other than in your classroom, face him and tell him (YOU) just can't do it, please, or you will be the next pedifile, making it public, etc. Think of the consequences, not the immediate lust you have
2006-09-29 01:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that any guy is worth getting your teachers license removed, just think about the hard work you put into getting it. I think if you really are that worried about it, its best for you to put your career first, it's not so wrong to place your feeling for him on hold until he's a little older, or at least not in your class/school.
2006-09-29 01:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have put a lot of years into becoming a teacher - are you going to throw it away for attraction - think twice.
2006-09-29 01:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by aew2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a hint from all those teachers who ended up on national news. Bad freakin idea. It's called pedophilia, and it's illegal.
2006-09-29 01:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your job. Leave the babies alone. You just want someone to love you. I am sure there are some OLDER men available in your area.
2006-09-29 01:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Faith In The House 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋