How can you tell if a man is cheating?

Question

Im not looking for a definite answer, i just want some pointers

Answer 1

If he is talking on the phone quietly, if he smells like another woman, if he doesn't want to have sex, if he's always tired.

Answer 2

there is no one way....

things to look out for.

if he is a techno-saavy type of guy then he will email a lot or get on the computer a lot to chat or something with other people... looking at porn is not cheating though. its normal and sometimes fun to enjoy together.... he will call or recieve calls and move away from you so that you cant hear it... the same is true of text messages. he will most likely lock his phone or computer from you accessing it...

the obvious....
he has a lack of sexual interest in you, spends less time with you, or is less romantic or emotional with you. smells different sometimes he may get a perfume type smell from this other woman... physical markings... bruising, hickeys, scratches, lipstick marks, basically anything you didnt leave behind....

there is a lot to go off of.....
but in the long run, if you are worrying about him cheating and he is doing any of the above then there are two major things to look for. 1) you dont trust him so there is no point in the relationship... 2) if one of the above is true, he could possibly just have a personal problem and is not cheating..... but again if you are suspicous at that point... then youre relationship will not last.

a lot of guys need some time out of the sack for awhile for recooperation... markings can come from everywhere (dont jump to conclusions) secrecy may be a trust issue on his part or a surprise for you.... with guys, they are every bit as complicated as chicks..... so you are never 100% sure with anyone

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Answer 3

well there are a few clues and signs...
if he acts different towards you ..and this could be he acts really nice toward you cause he feels guilty or he could ignore you.
if he stays later after work or school activity. (not sure how old you are)
if he comes home smelling like womans perfume
this one could be anything but..not answering his phone
voicemails or text messages on his phone from women
finding womens things in his house/bedroom

i dont know these are just a few, and they dont all mean he is cheating on you..
you could always ask..but that might make him think you dont trust him..especially if he isnt cheating on you

Answer 4

Well, it would all depend, if he is telling you things and you are finding out that they are untruths, he may be. But really and truthfully, if you can't trust him, then you don't need to be with him because you are wasting time worrying about drama when you should be enjoying you relationship.
On the flip side, check the cell and follow him around like Magnum PI, but if you go looking for trouble.....remember, you may find it.

Answer 5

it's soo different for each person!

in my experience..

if you call him and invite him over or out and he doesn't return call for a looong time and has an elabolate story.

If his cell phone seems to be going off all the time and he won't answer it infront of you.

If he likes to turn things around on you that you're being too insecure.

if he won't let you meet his friends and family Possibly they know the other one

Answer 6

When a man is cheating you feel it in your heart you just know. He's working late and not getting paid for it, don't come home on time, not interested in sex with you, makes excuses to go out, smells like sex, hickeys...etc

Answer 7

When you ask him questions he gets really upset.
Every time you dont spend the night at his place the next time your there the sheets have been changed.
He gets things mixed up....ex: Remember when we ate at TGIF's and you know you've never been there.
But first and most important, your gut. Women's intuition is never wrong.

Answer 8

a womans intuition is very strong - wot is your gut telling you

Answer 9

Because if you are asking you already know

Answer 10

He acts diferently..u just fell..know it..!