im still not over this guy who broke my heart despite that i still want to be with him, my friends think that i'm obsessing.it's been 3 years.how come i can't seem to let go?
2006-09-28 18:00:22 · 20 answers · asked by Katrine Nyce 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-28 18:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years is a long time. However I know how you feel. When you love someone so deeply it is so hard to get over it when they break your heart. When a relationship is over you usually tend to only remember the rosy parts, however you should try and remember all the bad things he did don't remember him in a good way. You will never 100% forget about him, but you should start trying hard to get "over" him. Make sure you take down/throw out all his photos and letters, cards etc he has given you, especially if you find yourself reading them and looking at them. Do not compare any new guys to him becuase they will be no other him, don't forget that. Go out and try to meet new people
2006-09-29 01:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is what it takes. I was with a man for over twenty years He died a little over three yrs ago I miss him still give it time. Find someone that understands that you want a friend and still have fun because you can not let your life end. You just have to find a way to move on one day at a time. Good luck
2006-09-29 01:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey go on a vaction. you are probably missing out one some of the best things sitting around waiting and whinning. You cant let go because you a scared but your heart is pleading with you to move on. You are letting your heart rot away. Give it a chance and let it play out. promise you will feel a lot better and a lot healthier
2006-09-29 01:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by cattailtop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because you keep self pitying your self for loosing him,you still cant accept the fact that he has moved on and is not interested in being with you.the sooner you accept this fact the better for you,cos you can change any body's mind and you cant force someone to be with you and love you....do you think you are so worthless finding someone better for your self who would love and respect you equally....
stop thinking about him and move on with life, and start moving out make new Friends take up some sport that'll help you tremendously to build you self confidence and will make you feel optimist.keep your self busy and love your self,only then you'll have the world at your feet!!good luck!!
2006-09-29 01:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, in rare instances, you may not fully get over certain situations. Depending on your personality, it may be hard to let go. Sometimes it just takes people longer to let go and move on than others.
I've been in 2 serious relationships; one for 10 years, and one marriage....both times cheated on....it took me a while to get over both relationships, but I did, and I'm sure you will in your own time.
Just remember; there's no time limit on when you should get over a significant other; there's no rule book; there's no right, no wrong....the way you work is the way you work, and in your own time, you will move on. Don't feel pressure to move on, just learn to accept that you may operate differently than others and embrace that!
Good luck to you!
2006-09-29 01:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by danielle d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go talk to him and seek closure. If the guy is not around, take everything that he ever gave you and burn it. Also listen to soothing subliminal tapes to build self esteem and find yourself a new attitude. Then start dating with a vengeance and soon he will be out of your system. Happened to me so I know what to do. Yes praying helps a lot too. Just pray with complete faith in God. Its the best healing medicine ever.
2006-09-29 01:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad when you lose a true love, but if you two are meant to be at any time, it will be. Atleast try to date other people, you may be surprised. It's not like you have to settle down with any of them. We have all been there, and I wish you the best.
2006-09-29 01:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
based upon what you have said, you love that guy very much and you felt hard to move on..just keep your self busy, go with your friends and enjoy life.. if you really love someone, set him free and let destiny choose the best person foe each and every one of you.....
2006-09-29 01:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT VERY UNDERSTANABLE TO STILL HAVE FEELING FOR
SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVED BUT IT BEEN 3 YEARS
GIRLFRIEND, TIME TO MOVE ON, YOU WILL NEVER FIND
ANYONE STUCK IN THE PAST. AND REMEMBER THIS
YOU ARE THE ONE STILL IN THE PAST, HE HAS MOVED
ON. YOU THINK HE STILL THINKING ABOUT YOU AFTER
3 YEARS. PROBABLY NOT. GET IN THE PRESNT FIND
SOMEONE THAT YOU CAN SHOW YOUR LOVE TO HE'\
OUT THERE YOU NEED TO JUST TAKE THE TIME TO
PUT YOUR SELF OUT THERE. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-29 01:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋