Family & Relationships - 27 September 2006

I have a friend who has recently gotten married by the courts to her 18 year old boyfriend and she's 20. Her boyfriend lied to her about his identity and age (he told her he was 20 and told her a name that wasnt his real name). Yet she married him as soon as he turned 18. Now they are about to have a kid together and she works at Kmart and he works at Ralphs does this sound ok to you? And if not what should I tell her?

2006-09-27 10:20:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-27 10:18:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

which would u rather be.... smart, good looking, or have a wonderful personality? why did u choose the one u did?

2006-09-27 10:18:50 · 16 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 10:18:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 10:18:44 · 13 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 10:17:48 · 18 answers · asked by rp 1 in Singles & Dating

today i had a dream with my boyfriend the hold night it was kind of like wet dreams and also talking with his friends who i don't get along and they don't eather can anybody predict this dream?

2006-09-27 10:17:16 · 8 answers · asked by qnzlilmami018 1 in Friends

(or someone you thought was a friend!) Today i lost a friend of 22yrs over something very silly on her part.

2006-09-27 10:17:11 · 27 answers · asked by suzairspliff 2 in Friends

this guy left a note in my purse saying that he wants to get to know me and that i should i-m him. i dont want to talk him cause for one, hes not man enough to ask me out himself, nd 2 cause he opened my purse to put the note in. i just wanna know who he is. the only thing he gave me was his screen name for aim, so is there any way to find out who he is without talkin to him?

2006-09-27 10:16:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex husband has the original and i do not know where he lives now, nor how to get ahold of him. would i get it from the hospital where he died? or ?

2006-09-27 10:16:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She has been together with Mike for 13 years now. I have full custody of my kids but i've been having my kids live half the week with me and half with them. I went to pick my kids up at their house
the otherday because they are only allowed one bus stop per year.
I knocked on the door&was concerned where my kids were I thought that they just didn't hear me knock so i checked the door &
opened it an inch. Patty then comes down the stairs and said repeatedly did you come into my house, "oh my God, i can't believe
you came into my house etc. I kept trying to say i only opened the
door an inch, looking for the kids. She threatened to call the police
This was the first contact i had with her in a long time. my 17 y.o.
daughter was back and Patty said, "you deserve to be shot for
coming into my house."She also said other personal things that shouldn't be said in front of a teen or child. No R.O.possibleHelp

2006-09-27 10:16:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 10:15:46 · 20 answers · asked by kirsty_jones_2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 10:15:09 · 1 answers · asked by ingsoc1 7 in Friends

My bestguyfriend got really mad when she started talking about me and a boy i used to like? is it jealousy?
Okay, they were talking in 1st period. i wasn't in there. My friend Amy started talking about me and a boy i used to like at camp. my bestguyfriend started getting mad. Amy said he looked like he was going to hit her. he just turned around and started talking to someon e else is it jealousy? does he secretly like me?

2006-09-27 10:14:43 · 6 answers · asked by non of yo business 1 in Friends

I know it was the right thing for me to do. but why dose it hurt so much? he treated me so good and we had so much in common he says he will leave her but i'm not the type to brake up a happy home please give me advice?

2006-09-27 10:14:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my real father left my mom when she was pregnant with me. ive never met him before but have wanted to for a long time. i would like to contact him(if i can find him), tell him about me and his grandchildren. im pretty sure hes married and has a family of his own. my family wont really do much to help me out. would it be intruding if i tried to find him, or should i go for it?

2006-09-27 10:14:20 · 5 answers · asked by sweetwhitegirl28 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever felt your spouse or boyfriend was cheating (all the signs are there...plenty of smoke, just haven't seen the fire) and were you ever wrong about it? Did you wait until you witnessed, or he confessed cheating before you divorced or broke up?

2006-09-27 10:13:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was adopted when i was 6 and i haven't had any contact with my mother since. i want to let her know how i turned out. i want her to know that i love her and i am wondering how she is

2006-09-27 10:12:38 · 1 answers · asked by brown eyes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering, if a date goes well - say it's on a tuesday night and you have dinner and only one drink each. At the end of the date, should I make the attempt to kiss her? Does the girl usually want you to kiss them? And if you don't, will they think you're "just a friend"?

2006-09-27 10:11:06 · 30 answers · asked by dom 1 in Singles & Dating

I get so so so tired of the whole concept. I want to show him how much it hurts me. I hate how women just have to learn to deal with it. I know I am gorgeous, that's not the problem, the problem is that I am jellous that my boyfreind has to look at other gorgeous women even though he loves me. I want to do something, but I don't know what. We have had many conversations about it. He gets just as upset that men look at me because I'm attractive, I do that he looks at other women. Should I try to look extra hot all the time, to get the point across that I am not the one who has to change, while he just stays the same. Confused. I don't like other guys looking at me in a sexual way, although, as any woman it is nice to feel attractive. I am in a battle with myself. What should I be a woman who doesn't try to look attractive ever unless she is alone with her man, or a woman who looks attractive anyway. He can't understand why women in a relationship would try to look attractive in public

2006-09-27 10:10:12 · 29 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Singles & Dating

should i sit in the graveyard with a shotgun and blow away anyone who should not be there???? have u heard anything about these rumors????

2006-09-27 10:09:52 · 6 answers · asked by Father Martin Louis 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-27 10:08:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-27 10:07:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've just been doing some research online about marriage and read that marrying the wrong person can actually create more problems than it solves. Is this true? Has anyone actually been in this situation?

2006-09-27 10:07:36 · 21 answers · asked by diamond_iceman2002 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-27 10:07:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. Recently this girl has been calling him trying to be "remanissing" about when they were close and friends. Well I saw the text message and was like what the hell? So I mean I sent this girl a rather nice email telling her to back off, and that what she is doing isn't right because she knows that him and I have been together for so long and will continue to be with eachother. Was I wrong or was it okay? Cause I kno this girl is butt ugly, and my boyfriend finds her to be annoying, so I mean I shouldn't be worried, right? About this chick?

2006-09-27 10:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by Lydia J 1 in Singles & Dating

ive given her money and never got it back ,when she has other plans i never see her shes sneaky

2006-09-27 10:06:39 · 9 answers · asked by JOSEPHINE S 1 in Friends

one incident, i had an old terrible running truck and he had 2 new cars, he convinced me into taking over payments on one and using it, he paid insurance. i am a single mom with 3 kids. it was wonderful, a car with no worries and i WAS able to make the payments. it felt so good. i later moved in with a girlfriend to share rent on a house, he got mad because i moved far away and was paying a little more in rent and thought i should be paying the car note off instead. i just wanted better for my kids, as did she, that's why we moved in together. he and i got in a fight, as usual a horrible one, i said we need to end this once and for all, see other people, he got pissed, wanted his car back, CALLED THE POLICE ON ME WHEN I DID NOT GIVE IT BACK since i was paying the bill and had been for over 1 yr. he told them he let me drive it and i would not give it back. i was crushed - my kids were too. yet, i forgave him and took him back for 8 months, NO, he never gave back the car.

2006-09-27 10:05:46 · 12 answers · asked by curious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know what to do.

2006-09-27 10:05:40 · 17 answers · asked by JIM 1 in Friends

thats not reay my quetion i realy like my bf but he likes my bf (thats a girl)wat should i do

2006-09-27 10:04:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating