Just wondering, if a date goes well - say it's on a tuesday night and you have dinner and only one drink each. At the end of the date, should I make the attempt to kiss her? Does the girl usually want you to kiss them? And if you don't, will they think you're "just a friend"?
2006-09-27 10:11:06 · 30 answers · asked by dom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not on the first date. =T but that's just me... if u let me know ur interested, it'd be thru continuous phone calls and dates, and around the 2nd or 3rd date is when the guy should decide whether or not he wants to let his feelings known (ie kiss or hold hands). at the end of the date, if he kisses the girl, and she let's him, he's good. if she stops him and says wait, she is unsure. if she says "i'm sorry, let's just be friends", then just be friends. but they guy should lead, let the woman know where HE's at, and allow her to follow his lead, or choose to say no. either way, you need to be strong enough and confident enough to show how u feel, as well as respect her decision :). after more dates, u need to consider if u want to date her exclusively or not but that's another question :)
2006-09-27 10:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to calm down and stop over-analizing everything. The guy really likes you. Honestly, he's probably trying to take things slow and steady because that's what he thinks you want. Remember to just be calm, cool, and collected. Don't over-obbsess or try and investegate on him because then your just becoming a stalker. Remember to maintain your own life, dont circle it around him. Dont act like you'll give into anything either, be wanted. You should calm him at least 3 or 4 days after the date and ask him how he's doing. Mention something thats in town (bands, comedians, events, carnivals, movies) and ask if he'd like to go see it. If he denies just say "Alright, sounds good. [name here] wanted to go with me, so I'll just see you later! Bye!". If he accepts, celebrate(:
2016-03-27 13:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see how the date goes. When you are saying good bye, go to give her a hug and see what happens. There is nothing wrong with a goodnight kiss on the first date. There is also nothing wrong about not getting one either. But give her one on date 2, just so she knows things went well... Good luck!
2006-09-27 10:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going on a date with an attractive woman, keep in mind that by trying to kiss her on the first date, you will probably seem to her like so many guys she'd gone out before. Boooring. But by pacing yourself, you're setting yourself apart from the crowd. There are many different ways to show interest.
Just my personal experience.
2006-09-27 10:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course they won't think of you as just a friend. It's a date after all. It all depends on the cituation...if she seems like she's waiting for it then yes go for it. But if you're the shy type and she allready has a good time without it then just leave it for next time. First date is allways about communication and chemistry. Talk to her about the things she likes and you have in common. If all goes well...give it a shot. :-)
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2006-09-27 10:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the both of you. If you both are having a good time and enjoying eachother, and all the signs are there, go for it. My boyfriend kissed me on our first date, and I liked it. He made the move and I followed. My advice is to at least try to kiss her, if she pull away, it's because she's not ready, maybe on your next date; don't get dissappointed if she doesn't kiss you though.
2006-09-27 10:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by girlieGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i kiss a girl on the first date and she want it Im expecting sex on the seconds Not All woman are like that GOOD LUCK
2006-09-27 10:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by jcs_one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow and do what feels right. If she wants you to kiss her, and you want to kiss her then you'll know. Typically it's pretty easy to tell if someone likes you or wants to be friends. Keep up the hand contact and sit near her.
2006-09-27 10:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to not see her anymore, then try to kiss on the first date. that will scare off any decent girl.
2006-09-27 10:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Lourdes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should most definately TRY to kiss her. If you don't at least try, she'll think you're not into her. Whether she kisses on the first date or not is irrelavant...us gals have egos too!
2006-09-27 10:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋