what the best way to cure some one from the lack of wanting sex?

Question

the wuestion is about me im nevery interested in sex and it dont bothet me but it botheres my hubby and i want 2 be more interested and we have tired most things but they dont work

Answer 1

You talk of it like it's a disease. A low sex drive isn't abnormal, and plenty of couples are very happy having next to no sex. Don't think of it as something to be cured; rahter, it's more important that this person does what is comfortable, and makes them feel happy, rather than seeing themselves as some kind of diseased freak.

Answer 2

Maybe there is a medical reason for their lack of sex. Have they started any new medications? Have they been feeling out of sorts lately? Is your partner working lots of hours? Do they have a lot of stress in their life? Any of those could cause a decrease in the libido.

WHAT ARE THE CAUSES OF LACK OF LIBIDO IN MEN?
The causes can be either physical or psychological.

PHYSICAL CAUSES
Possible physical causes include:

1. alcoholism - quite common
2. abuse of drugs - such as cocaine
3. anaemia - unusual unless the man has been bleeding for any reason
4. hyperprolactinaemia - an uncommon disorder in which too much of the hormone prolactin is produced by the pituitary gland
5. obesity - quite common; simply slimming down will often help
6. prescribed drugs - particularly Proscar (finasteride), a tablet used for prostate problems
7. low male hormone level (testosterone) - contrary to what many people think, this is rare
8. any major 'generalised' disease, such as diabetes

PSYCHOLOGICAL CAUSES
Psychological causes of male level of desire include:

1. depression - very common
2. stress and overwork
3. sex hang-ups
4. latent gayness
5. serious relationship problems with the wife/partner

If there is no medical reason, then I suggest you sit down with them and explain to your partner that you are feeling neglected.

For information on lack of libido in women check out this website:

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/lackingsexdrive.htm

Answer 3

Big Jim Slade

Answer 4

it depends onthe cause. this one is prob a good question for the doctor. It coul be depression or post tramtic strss or booze.A lack of sex drive is not normal See the dr.Sorry

Answer 5

there is a vitamin called 'horny goat weed' and the store i work at sells quite abit!

You can empty the capsule, its all natural, in his morning beverage and in a few days woohoo the bedroom be smokin!

Answer 6

Comfort them or take them to a strip bar. Introduce them to some one who is horney and they may have sex.

Answer 7

Best way is to have yourself some good sex. Then you'll want more and more.

Answer 8

Put a Viagra in his drink when he ain't looking.

Answer 9

Lose some weight and try something freaky

Answer 10

so you're saying you don't want sex, but you wish you did want it. i'd say find a guy and make him rub and touch you and kiss your feet. that might help.