My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. Recently this girl has been calling him trying to be "remanissing" about when they were close and friends. Well I saw the text message and was like what the hell? So I mean I sent this girl a rather nice email telling her to back off, and that what she is doing isn't right because she knows that him and I have been together for so long and will continue to be with eachother. Was I wrong or was it okay? Cause I kno this girl is butt ugly, and my boyfriend finds her to be annoying, so I mean I shouldn't be worried, right? About this chick?
2006-09-27 10:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by Lydia J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt waste my time,,but I would have done the same thing.Now relax.
2006-09-27 10:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend finds her to be annoying then your boyfriend needs to tell her to back off. Why or how did she get his cell number anyway?
No you weren't wrong BUT by nicely telling her to back off you have pretty much let her know that what she is doing is getting to you. She may see what you did as a challenge.
It doesn't matter if she's butt-ugly or not at one point in time your boyfriend liked her. Don't fool yourself into thinking that just because she's not as good-looking as you are that she can't get your man from you.
Don't sweat the small stuff. You've done your part to let this girl know to back off. Hopefully, she will take it as a warning and not a challenge. Good luck
2006-09-27 10:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be worried, your a female, so you will be. I'm the same way. Before my boyfriend and I got together, my bf had a lot of female friends. There are some I really don't like him hanging out with, without me. If he finds her annoying, he probably doesn't like at all anymore and just doesn't want to be rude to her. I thnk you probably did the right thing as long as your bf doesn't get mad over it.
2006-09-27 10:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her looks shouldn't be the determination of whether you should worry or not. His actions are.
2006-09-27 10:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should start to worry NOW. Guys hate to have their privacy violated...
2006-09-27 10:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by verazue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no worries. you did right
2006-09-27 10:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋