Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

2006-09-26 11:59:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 11:58:32 · 16 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Singles & Dating

and the pictures, and the teddies. and what else....oh yeah more pics and my email inbox is filled with love letters over four years, what should I do??? eliminate em or what???
Any advice is GREAT!! :)
The *******, went mad, of probably always was and Finally.....exploted!!!!!!!!!

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I understand what u guys say, but it will only hurt b/c the love is there NO MORE!!
So what does the love letter mean anyways???
More pain from the memories, are we holdin gon the something here, the past?

2006-09-26 11:58:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 11:58:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a 10 gallon fish tank I had 9 fish and 3 have die. any suggestions,

2006-09-26 11:57:47 · 15 answers · asked by Ellen J 2 in Friends

i have a big problem when it comes to boyfriends fancying/eyeing up/ liking other girls. am i wrong for thinking it's a hideous thing to do to someone when you're in love? my boyfriend told me i need self esteem and that he loves me, but he doesnt know what else i want from him.
im just confused with why i feel like this, so deeply and painfully. of course, people's beliefs and morals are there own, no one can change that or say it's wrong. but does anyone else feel how i feel? if so, how do you cope with it in a relationship?
i just feel, its like "visual infidelity" as it were. same thing with porn, i feel that way about a boyfriend watching it.

cheers for any responses.
x

2006-09-26 11:56:43 · 16 answers · asked by plasticfantasy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 11:56:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've got a girl that's really into me...and now I'm going to homecoming with her. But I'm really in love with another girl! What should I do? The other girl is so much more exotic and exhilerating to be around, but I don't want to let the first girl down.

2006-09-26 11:56:35 · 10 answers · asked by Nick M. 1 in Singles & Dating

They don't feel the need to impress you or woo you anymore... they slog around in the same clothes as the day before.... they are patronizing and rude when they don't get their own way... and they sulk like little children?? Why oh why, did they not behave that way when you met them, if i'd of known i'd have ran a mile!!! Problem is, i'm supposed to be gettiing married... how do i get him to see this? Tried talking and he just argues or plays tit for tat, everything begins with 'but', or 'because you', or 'i don't know'! What has happened to the man i fell in love with?

2006-09-26 11:54:47 · 26 answers · asked by troublewithacapitaltee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I married the man...Mr. Right. He's so right it feels like we were meant to be. So, there's always a fly in the ointment, right? Yeah, he came with baggage. A miserable babymomma, and a child he cannot see. We support the child, and always have, but the ex keeps calling me and asking me for money. Does she think we have a moneytree in our yard? I mean, we have never given her reason to believe that we wouldn't be sending money. And we send money on time, every month. Every penny! Yet she makes it impossible to talk to his child! Whenever he calls and the babymomma is home, she asks about money before she lets him talk to his daughter. Oh, but one day we called and spoke to the child, and she had the nerve to call and "confirm" that we had "called the child the other day". Not-to-mention...whenever we actually get to speak to the child, either her, or her mother stays on the other line, and whenever the conversation starts going along, they take the phone away from the child!

2006-09-26 11:54:36 · 22 answers · asked by NATALIE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is some girl that I have been talking to for the last 3 weeks or so. And yes, I am in college. The exact scenario is that she is my in tuesday and thursday class. On Monday and Wednesday, I see her because her class is next door. Then yesterday, she caught me staring at her then I looked away. Now, today, when I walked into the classroom and sat into my seat, she put her head down. I am guessing she doesn't want to talk to me because she knew the message that I was giving her yesterday. I do find her attractive and everything but I do not want to give her that message yet though. What do you think I should do?? I want to be friends with her first then I will try for girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. If the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship doesn't work, then I will stay friends with her.

2006-09-26 11:54:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is some girl that I have been talking to for the last 3 weeks or so. And yes, I am in college. The exact scenario is that she is my in tuesday and thursday class. On Monday and Wednesday, I see her because her class is next door. Then yesterday, she caught me staring at her then I looked away. Now, today, when I walked into the classroom and sat into my seat, she put her head down. I am guessing she doesn't want to talk to me because she knew the message that I was giving her yesterday. I do find her attractive and everything but I do not want to give her that message yet though. What do you think I should do?? I want to be friends with her first then I will try for girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. If the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship doesn't work, then I will stay friends with her.

2006-09-26 11:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 11:53:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I kow this sounds stupid but i know that guys tell girls this stuff to get what they want. And it makes me so mad. I know that guys have told other girls this, and most guys don't mean it unless they want to marry that girl.So when my friend told me he loved me and wanted to be more than friends i got mad at him,and brushed him off. I still want to be friends. Just friends, and if he tells me he loves me again i don't think we can.

2006-09-26 11:53:49 · 4 answers · asked by Yvone 1 in Singles & Dating

I allways wondered even though I dont have a problem with this It seems to me like some people have a technique so what do you think it is ladies whats the fastes way to get a woman into bed. I know that might come off as a perverted or sick question but realy. I know looks realy help. I know caring and showing sensir affinity toward eachother works. But what if you bolth kinda like eachother and where flirting whats the best way to say hey you wanna XXX.

I mean only if you think the girl realy wants to and your in the mood whats the best way to break that ice. I would like to know what would be the most comfortable way from a womans prospective.I have my ways but some times I think what would a women do in these shoes hmmmmm WHAT WOULD SHE DO.

2006-09-26 11:53:07 · 6 answers · asked by business creature 2 in Singles & Dating

The girl I like is going and alot of my friends.

2006-09-26 11:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by azn_laxer8 1 in Singles & Dating

I am now friends with someone whom I was intimate with up till April, we dated for about 4 months, we see each other everyday, i believe he may of been sexually abused as a child. He has given me nothing to make me believe we will get close again why do I hang around. Should I wait and see or move on. HELP

2006-09-26 11:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by janeysmith36 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the richer countries have the highest divorce rate...

2006-09-26 11:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cause today I started seeing this italian guy who just blows my mind when it comes to sex and how he treats me.

2006-09-26 11:51:15 · 25 answers · asked by cwannaknow 2 in Singles & Dating

Well today my friend told me that my boyfriend like this other girl who happened to be my friend and that if he werent going out with me he would ask her out. He wont admit that he likes her because he dont want to lose me, that is what my friend said. I really love him but what do i do i mean he can like other girls as long as he dont break up woith me to go out with them right??? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2006-09-26 11:50:44 · 10 answers · asked by crazygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee Mike and I have been together for almost 3 years. We got engaged Sept 1st.We used to have sex at least 5 times a week, he would always start it because he says he has a very high sex drive. But for the last month we have had sex maybe once a week if I'm lucky. His reason being either he's too tired or that he wants me to approch him. I dont approch him becuase I think if I have to do it then he doesnt really want it, and if he doesnt want it then I dont want to do it. he also says our sex has gotten boring...but we've done everything that I can think of. I don't know what to do, I'm just so confused. Can you help me? I'm starting to think he's cheating since he doesnt act like he wants sex with me...or could it be that he is just too tired or too bored. I can't see that since he had such a high sex drive before. I dunno, please help me.

2006-09-26 11:50:05 · 18 answers · asked by faery1219 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother in law and I do not get along. I have tried to get along with her but nothing I can do can make her like me. She has blamed me for things that I absolutly had nothing to do with. Same thing for my sister in law. They are mean to me. My mother in law, has said that she hopes her son's marriage to me ends, that we get a divorce, and he comes home to her. My husband and I had a problem and he moved into her house for a bit. Now I hear my husband say simular things to what she has said. He is over at her place and though I have tried to save my marriage I feel that he is being influenced by his mother and sister who dislike me since he is around them all the time. He said he would get consoling with me, but his mother said no that he shouldn't go and now he won't. I can't even call over there to talk to my husband. I want to work things out with my husband, and I think that her meddling doesn't help. There's no boundaries with her. How do I stop her, and save my marriage to him?

2006-09-26 11:50:03 · 21 answers · asked by Evie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 11:49:46 · 14 answers · asked by heidischu2002 2 in Singles & Dating

like i said this woman and i have been seeing each other in a friends only attmospher. I think i have picked up on a few signals but i am not sure. I dont want to lose her as a friend so i am afraid of makeing a move. I cant tell if she is just trusting me with being close to her and sharing her secrets. She knows i am single and looking. oh by the way i am a guy.

2006-09-26 11:49:19 · 7 answers · asked by sucker4chicks 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this thing for a guy but like and him and i need some place to go any sugg gestions????

2006-09-26 11:48:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all i am 19 and he is 25. Ok, here is the deal, me and my fiance fight and argue a lot anymore. Tomorrow makes 11 months that we have been togeter. Almost every night we end up arguing on here bc we dont live together and im deaf and dont use the phone. Well when we argue i get to the point where i just want to hurt myself. No hitting ever happends. Its usually me who always gets mad. My fiance told me that i get mad when things dont go my way, i dont know if that is true because i dont pay attention to myself. I have a quick temper and I need someone to help me out like tell me how can i stop getting so upset over small stuff. I am so scared I am going to lose him but he keeps telling me I am the only one for him. I am just tired of arguing and fighting all the time. Can someone please help with out being mean and rude? Id really be happy if i could stop getting so angry so quickly and have a normal relationship. So someone please im begging u please help.

2006-09-26 11:48:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Pimp: that was the guy in the 70's who drove around in a Caddy, beating up and abusing woman...cool, Huh?

Pimping: was the above mentioned in crushed velvet clothing with a hat to boot, and usually followed by a possee of enforcers who are somewhat...mentally challenged?
Illiteracy...cool, huh?

The truth have become the lies...and the lies have become the truth...

2006-09-26 11:48:01 · 5 answers · asked by LovePinkPuffies 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 11:47:48 · 15 answers · asked by catalogue334 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 11:47:38 · 3 answers · asked by tbchelle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

To be hurt when you ask a guy out and they say no??

2006-09-26 11:47:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating