There is some girl that I have been talking to for the last 3 weeks or so. And yes, I am in college. The exact scenario is that she is my in tuesday and thursday class. On Monday and Wednesday, I see her because her class is next door. Then yesterday, she caught me staring at her then I looked away. Now, today, when I walked into the classroom and sat into my seat, she put her head down. I am guessing she doesn't want to talk to me because she knew the message that I was giving her yesterday. I do find her attractive and everything but I do not want to give her that message yet though. What do you think I should do?? I want to be friends with her first then I will try for girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. If the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship doesn't work, then I will stay friends with her.
2006-09-26 11:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just stop staring.
2006-09-26 15:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she put her head done doesn't mean she doesn't like you... she could have been tired, in a bad mood, or not feeling good. Maybe you should talk to her and let her know that you want to be her FRIEND. Then after you guys have been friends for awhile and she has gotten to be comfortable around you, you can ask her if she wants to take the relationship to the next level(boyfriend/girlfriend).
2006-09-26 19:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by her reaction, She obviously already knows. I would say, invite her out for something to drink or an outing with some friends, you know, friendly dating. Then, If you want to advance the relationship, it gives you the perfect set. Just make sure she knows it's just as friends. Don't force the relationship. If it's meant to happen, It'll just happen. Good luck...
2006-09-26 18:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by kiatzu_shutendo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all HOLD YOUR HORSES COWBOY!!!
Your getting all worked up on your head (on top of your shoulders) and its working on the head (below your waist..lol) just be cool and be nice. Dont push anything just say hi and say whats up? Day by day... let her get impatient not you.. She already knows you like her! Believe me us woman are not stupid so please dont try to play that. If it goes further than that..cool!!!! even though the nice guys finish last they never look like losers.
2006-09-26 19:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by The real questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep talking to her like normal. the head down on the desk thing might've just meant that she wasn't feeling well or she had a bad morning. you never know. just continue to be friends with her so that she can know your current intentions.
2006-09-26 18:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by shaped 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, don't strangle her with a piano wire.
2006-09-26 18:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THANKS FOR THE 2 POINTS
2006-09-26 18:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by love train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋