I've got a girl that's really into me...and now I'm going to homecoming with her. But I'm really in love with another girl! What should I do? The other girl is so much more exotic and exhilerating to be around, but I don't want to let the first girl down.
2006-09-26 11:56:35 · 10 answers · asked by Nick M. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nick ok first thing is first! You have already asked the first girl to homecoming so if you ever want to be a true gentlemen then you will follow thur with what you said, but you need to tell the girl that you are taking her still because you already asked her and that you like someone else, but your a man of your word. Now this can give her a chance to say she doesn't want to go then , or she will be fine with it. You are given yourself a way out! Do you see what I am saying? She will be upset but you are still saying you will take her because you already asked her!!!! If she say forget it then! Then that takes you off the hook and you can ask the other girl. If she says she still wants to go then you have to tell the other girl that you really like her a lot and you wish you could take her but you had already asked this other girl and let her know you will be going as just friends.
Trust me girls like it when you are honest and a gentleman, and you stand behind your word. If you are honest with both and stand by what you say then you win but you win the right way!
Good Luck to You!
Always Amy
2006-09-26 12:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go to homecoming and have fun w/ the first girl. Don't be a dick and dump her. If you are falling for this other girl, then it will still be there after homecoming. The first girl will understand the sit. but if you don't want to tell her, then just have fun. Make sure you give "friendly" signals... not "I want to be more than friend" signals. You will be fine. Stop frettin'.
2006-09-26 19:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the other girl how you feel and go to homecomeing as friends and about a week later tell the girl you love how you feel about her.
2006-09-26 18:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you should still go to homecoming with the first girl then ask her if maybe you could dance with the other girl
2006-09-26 18:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Alexis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the first girl and then wait a while. dump her and DEFINETLY gor for the "exhilerating girl"
2006-09-26 18:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by hollisterGIRLchills_at_the BEACH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b honest with this girl. Dnt break her heart just b easy with her.She might really like u so just tell her how u truly feel. I kno she will understand.
2006-09-26 19:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by angelfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont let this girl down soon she'll be hurt much more worse in the end, and your missing out on whats in front of you
2006-09-26 18:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Yahoo Answers: Please create a new category Teenagers with Relationship Angst (Caution: Only for the mentally-challenged)!
I mean, for God’s Sake, don’t you little morons have homework to complete?
2006-09-26 18:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does the girl you like like you? If not, forget about her and go for the one that likes you.
2006-09-26 18:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't kill the first one and hide the body somewhere where the second one will find it on prom night.
2006-09-26 18:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋