Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

My co-workers have told me that there's this divorced woman (early 40's, but looks YOUNGER), at the office, who seems to find me attractive. This statement has also been claimed by the woman's closest female friend.

The problem is: She's OLDER than I am, but looks good.

However, when I see her, she acts like she there's nothing going on and greets me as if she HAD to. Her closest female friend, though, ALWAYS teases her while I am nearby.

I am very curious whether this all is true or not or whether this could be part of just a joke. How can I find out?

What do you think???

2006-09-26 15:27:31 · 21 answers · asked by R. H 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin has moved again (lost count of the number of times after 20 in the past 5 years). I asked my Aunt for his address and she said she doesnt know it (yeah right) She claims he is hiding from bill collectors and has lost his job again. Is there a FREE website that I can just find out his mailing address? (We also think he's gay and she doesnt want us to know)

2006-09-26 15:26:54 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

If any of you have EVER heard of "MARIUS PANZARELLA" or anything by him...please AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS. it's a complete ripoff to say the least. Basically it's all these ebooks and garbage that's supposed to help you w/ your dating skills...but i think it's worsened mine. go ahead, laugh at me if you will for seeking this out, but i'm desperatley in love with a girl and i was dying to figure out how to get her to be mine. needless to say it was far from correct, so please avoid his trash at all costs.

2006-09-26 15:26:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you don't know about it, is there any harm? What if you do find out, do you ignore it or make a big deal of it?

2006-09-26 15:26:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok... I have had uncountable friends and aqutainces... that i know about attempt(one succeded) suicide by various forms. This has driven me to constantly think about it and have attemped it before after events with my family have driven to insanity and a point in my life with no options. this is usually done with dictating my life and putting pressure on me on everything i do. weather it is a good acheivement/goal or a mistake that i have made in the past. its almost like a drug(suicide) i currently am taking antidepressants and perscriptions for anti pshycotic/schizoprenia and have been seeing a shrink (1 of 5) who seems to put life events over my general well being... plus since i have been seeing phyciatrists (late 2002) starting at college everyhting else in my life ie other family members has deterriated not just emotionally but physically.. i don't think i can handle this with my family shutting me out like they are

2006-09-26 15:26:30 · 12 answers · asked by scarface 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i jus had a year long relationship wit my first luv jessie shumate and i really love him he wuz my 1st 4 everything. But my friends didnt and still dnt like him nor my family so i had to let him go. But i still love him but he is so damn dirty and he smokes all damn day and acts stupid and play to much so i have tried to jus avoid him but he is always on my mind friends say im to pretty to be stuck on one niga so i tried to listen, but its not workin. yaw dnt no how much i luv dis boi and how many good tymes we have shared but i dnt need him its like he is a bad habit i cant get rid of. Recently i found out about dis gurl name sha and i got da fightin wit dat bytch and me and him got into it again i jus dnt understand y he act so stupid and play silly games and think i want find out dat is sum ****!!!!!!!!1 i jus need sum advice cuz i have to much goin on in my life dat u want even expect im sick of cryin, i want him to feel bad he eva treated me like he did and lied like he did .

2006-09-26 15:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

are you usually the one to dump somebody, or are you usually the one to get dumped?

2006-09-26 15:25:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we've been together for 5 yrs, but now we broke up for 2 yrs and he also has a new gf n they living together. we talked couple months b4 but now everytime i try to call n email him he doesn't pick up or even reply back to me. after we broke up, i emailed him n wanted to get back but he ignored me. now i just want him to talk to me to make me feel better bc until now i just dont kow how to get him out of my mind. b4 he wanted to be friends but now he just ignore me like that. that makes me more sad. i miss him so much!

2006-09-26 15:25:20 · 32 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Singles & Dating

should i grab his hand, should he grab mine?

2006-09-26 15:25:16 · 12 answers · asked by Glaring P 1 in Singles & Dating

1. if a man gives his woman oral and thens asks her to do the same and she gets mad is this wrong.
2. if all a woman wants is cuddling, a back rub etc... shouold she express that in advance so the man knows not to expect sex.
3. is it ok for a woman in the beginning to give a man great, no holds barred sex, then after they move in together tell the man that she made a mistake, that she is not into sex that much and she wants this relationship to be based on love and not sex and that all the wild nights were a lie she just did it cuz she wanted to show him a good time.
4. would u as a woman want a man to do these things to u
5. have you ever had a man do this to u
6. should a man have the right to feel used and lie to over this

2006-09-26 15:25:15 · 12 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so there's this boy in my class who is so cute and I really like him but now he's dating another girl in my class and she won't let him hang with anyone but her and her friends! We are sorta friends but rarely get to talk and it's so hard to watch them together all the time all day! What should I do? I know it's dumb to upset over a boy but I can't help it!

2006-09-26 15:25:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey , i am gonna call my chat friend for the first time, i am getting nervous, wht do gals like to talk about ?

2006-09-26 15:24:37 · 2 answers · asked by sunn 1 in Family

my daughter's school is taking a trip to a slaughter house to watch a cow die. how many parents or people agree that this is a dumb idea? and how many kids do you think will came back vegitarians?

p.s. this is an 8th grade class.

2006-09-26 15:24:28 · 8 answers · asked by Gina 2 in Family

My Xhusband destroyed the trust in our marriage in Sept 01. I couldn't get over the betrayal of his on-line activities which included sexual clubs and dirty talk with other women. I also found disturbing pictures he had taken of himself nude. Pictures that a gay man would find interesting but not most women would want to see. He also took video of himself masturbating. He couldn't explain any of it. He had no answers but I was to get over it and go on. He promised to stop but things kept creeping up like photo shop photos of himself with a strange woman cropped in..a woman who looked like a boy. It was all weird and very hard for me to live with. The space between us grew over the years and he finally moved out in January 06. I begged him to go get help...both of us could have used marital counseling but he refused. He claimed I was the one with the problem not him. My thoughts are he destroyed the trust it was his job to regain it. It's over but your opinions are needed.

2006-09-26 15:23:38 · 20 answers · asked by Girl Wonders 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I never talk to people, why don't they come up to me? I'm good looking, smart and funny. Girls why don't you come up to me, I'm afraid going up to them because I was taught women are evil if you approach them they will hurt you, so I wait for them to approach me

2006-09-26 15:22:47 · 12 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl were REAL good friends for a while, inseparable, but we made the mistake of dating. We broke up a year and a half ago on real bad terms and basically threw away the great friendship we had along with it but now she wants to start chillin to rebuild our friendship again. We hung out last week but it was akward because i feel like i dont know her anymore. She has a new man and a baby and i have no feelings for her whatsoever and honestly have no desire in hanging with her cuz i see no point as both of our interests have changed over the months. Do i tell her that we should just move on or kinda just play things out?

2006-09-26 15:22:15 · 8 answers · asked by Yup 2 in Friends

you deserve it you know

2006-09-26 15:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by Isis 7 in Family

1. if a man gives his woman oral and thens asks her to do the same and she gets mad is this wrong.
2. if all a woman wants is cuddling, a back rub etc... shouold she express that in advance so the man knows not to expect sex.
3. is it ok for a woman in the beginning to give a man great, no holds barred sex, then after they move in together tell the man that she made a mistake, that she is not into sex that much and she wants this relationship to be based on love and not sex and that all the wild nights were a lie she just did it cuz she wanted to show him a good time.
4. would u as a woman want a man to do these things to u
5. have you ever had a man do this to u
6. should a man have the right to feel used and lie to over this

2006-09-26 15:21:23 · 15 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 step daughters that drive me crazy .I have tried to be a good step father but it dosnt make a differents what i say or do they do a 360 on me. help what should i do ?

2006-09-26 15:20:47 · 18 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family

i really liked this guy & last year we went out.i dumped him 4 a diff. guy.he still liked me though this year.i told 2 of my friends that i still liked him & they went & asked him out 4 me!today when i kissed him i felt embaressed 4 kissing him but when i think bout him i feel like i love him.most of my friends r mad at me,one of my friends was crying ,& a couple of them wont talk 2 me!!!! i really dont wanna dump him cause hes happier then evver & i still wanna be friends w/him!most of all i want my friends back bad!!!i have no friends now except 4 him.

2006-09-26 15:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when it come to sex or ''fooling around'' with you're partner or wife how much is too much?does anyone know what the average amount per week is that couples have sex?

2006-09-26 15:20:35 · 8 answers · asked by boo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife of 6 1/2 years told me about 4 months ago she wanted a separation because she did not have feelings for me anymore, wanted her freedom and said that our marriage had gotten too "routine".
We have a 5 1/2 year old son
She had a brief affair with a married man about a year and a half ago . But that apparently has been over for some time.
Since she told me about this separation she wanted - - I have heard that she is involved with another man.
I checked her cellphone msgs and found out in fact that she has been communicating with a new guy . I confronted her about this - she claimed the guy was just a "friend".
Now she tells me that she has basically written off men because of all the hurt they have caused her and wants to be in the company of women .
All this has stressed me out greatly. I am no saint but I never cheated on her, never abused her in any way. - tried 2 b a good husband/father . During a separation - should either spouse get involved with a 3rd party?

2006-09-26 15:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i know that everyone will say it is the wrong section, so ill ask a question- how old were u when u lost your virginity, and what id your fav letter?

2006-09-26 15:20:14 · 7 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 15:19:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IM in junior high and this boy in my english class keeps smiling at me and turns around to look at me when im reading What does it mean?

2006-09-26 15:19:05 · 17 answers · asked by Geek in the Pink 2 in Singles & Dating

do I fend off the persistent ones? How did you do it?

I'm sixteen and I'm just not ready for a boyfriend right now.

2006-09-26 15:18:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My brother grew up with my real and and his real mom. He is about 28 and he wants to get married. He is chubby but has a great job and great personality, of which, you wouldnt tell, since he is shy. So, the girls he chooses to date, are always SINGLE MOMS. I dont think thats a good idea becuz he wont be able to be a NEWLYWED in the sense that he has kids, so that would take the joy away.... and the kids are not even his. I grew up with a step dad and it was really hard on me and my little sister. How can I make him understand that he cant keep going for these EASY girls that will right away say yes to him? He has a problem with his self esteem and he was going to get married 8 months ago with a SINGLE MOM but called off the wedding but it seems like he is going backwards instead of forward..... any one else have similiar stories? I need advise

2006-09-26 15:18:22 · 11 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Family

Fact is, I'm currently kinda unemployed and lacking certain things, if that helps.

2006-09-26 15:18:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok i just entered middle school and there's a dance in october......... my friend's been asked by 3 boys and accepted one. noone's asked me and i have 2 crushes in the school. 1 that went to my elementary school and one other one that's SO cute........ i'm 2 embarresed to ask anyone..... what shoulod i do?

2006-09-26 15:18:04 · 5 answers · asked by livelaughlove<3 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a single (divorced) 42 yr old female and he is a single(divorced) about 54 yr old male. He drives by in his work truck and waves every single time. He never even noticed me enough to wave until about a year ago. Today, he went by my house and waved and when I turned around I caught him looking back at me. He is soooooo hot. Is it my imagination? How do you know if someone is interested? Is my lust getting carried away?

2006-09-26 15:18:04 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Friends