Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

would you take him back if he cheated on you with a guy

2006-09-26 15:41:25 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know (or know of) several women who proposed marriage to their boyfriends. I don't necessarily mean the women dropped down to one knee and offered up a ring. But in one way or another, they were the first to bring up the topic of getting married, instead of their boyfriends bringing it up.

Each of the scenarios are quite different from each other; the common bond is that they all turned out good, and the couple ended up getting married. :)

I wondered how many other folks this has happened to? Whether you're the woman who did the asking, or the man who got asked, I'd love to hear your stories. Thanks!

2006-09-26 15:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by scary shari 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

(Most) Men are kinda gross. All hairy and sweaty and farty and pervy, how on earth do you do it? I thank my lucky stars every day that I'm a dude and get to be attracted to and have fun with lovely ladies.

2006-09-26 15:40:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have come to realize that we were not meant to be together. But I still miss her alot. I cant see another woman with out thinking of her. I compare every woman to her now. I know that is probably not a good thing. What can I do to get over this? Please help.

2006-09-26 15:39:59 · 15 answers · asked by jcfuqua 1 in Singles & Dating

My BF looks up females on the internet on several different sites like myspace and sexual sites, I am not sure if he is meeting them or not. I know that one site is a place where you make arrangements to meet and have relations, but I am not sure if he has actually meet up with someone. Should I just let this go or should I confront him about this? He says he loves me but if he is looking at other women on the internet then what does that mean? Please don't get me wrong if he is just looking at pictures then that doesn't really bother me but if he is meeting them what am I suppose to do. I thought about trying to catch him in the act but I am not sure how to do that without going threw his stuff. I really do not want to be mean about this, I just want to know why he feels that he needs to go to other females to get something. I have never said no to physical contact and I never will. I guess I just need some advice. Thanks

2006-09-26 15:39:49 · 8 answers · asked by Marie 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy i knew of last year (sophmore year) but i never had any classes with him or anything. this year, i have 2 classes with him and around the first or second week of school, i noticed that he's always looking at me. and we were in a group together today and almost everytime i looked in his direction, he was staring at me. does he like me or something?
(if he does, i wouldnt mind getting to know him)

2006-09-26 15:36:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 15:36:02 · 18 answers · asked by monis 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to find a song that would be appropriate for me to dance to with my brother in law who married my sister when I was 4 and has treated me like a daughter and a friend. I also want to find an
old yet uncommon first song to dance with my future husband.
Something very meaningful . Please give me a few choices.
Thanks

2006-09-26 15:35:45 · 28 answers · asked by OREO 2 in Weddings

In our divorce decree the children are to be covered by fathers insurance. The dental office when I first set up my kids appts. said the bills would have to be sent to him because the insurance is in his name. Well, he is not paying the bills. I pay all the up front fees they ask for because he never takes them to get work done. He says they don't need it because its too expensive but they have severly buck teeth and need braces. He spends lots of money on medical bills etc. for his girlfriend and her kids though. My kids really want the braces but it looks like I will have to find a way to pay up front cost and bills after insurance. The dentist will not continue to see them otherwise. We have a so-called 50-50 arrangement according to the decree but he just isn't doing his part. I don't know if I should just scrape on by or if I should really try to modify custody and residency so I can get help for my kids. Isn't his disregard for their physical well being child neglect and abuse?

2006-09-26 15:35:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is a possibility that my son is going to get kicked in the balls by a girl tomorow. on friday he grabbed a girl at his bustop's chest and ran off. and he's only 12! to impress his freinds maybe? she told a freidn who told my daughter that when she sees him she's going for the balls. i don't know if she's serious or not, but it has my son spooked. he wants me to let him stay home from school. i offered to call the school and/ or her mother, but - amazingly he prefers to accept his fate to the social consequecnes of my call.

so my questions are -

1. is he old enough to be getting a boot to the berries for the frist time?

2. if she does it, is it a fair response?

thanks

2006-09-26 15:35:09 · 42 answers · asked by carol h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

your child try to set you up on a date? I'm 43 and my daughter invited me out to dinner and it turned out she was setting me up on a blind date with a 36 y/o classmate.

So in your case, how did it turn out?

2006-09-26 15:35:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just came out of a relationship where the man was biting me. I mean so badly that it broke the skin and I had black bruises that didn't go away for over a month. I don't want to judge I just want to understand how pleasure is received from it.

2006-09-26 15:34:57 · 3 answers · asked by dreamtalk67 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I dated for 4 years off and on. The trouble started when we moved 1,000 miles away for a job that he took. Shortly after the move he started taking on the phone for hours with this girl that he used to work with coming home late from work. He broke it off with me about 3 months after our move to persue a relationship with her. I decided to stay in town and go day by day. A few months later he later begged me to take him back since his relationship was not working and I did hoping things would be different. Well about a year later he decided to break up again. I decided to move back home because I was tired of having an on and off relationship. I found a new job and a place to live and have gotten settled in. Now 6 months later he has been asking me to move back and is promising marriage. I still love him and I have been wanting to get married to him for years. He has broken promises to me in the past. Help me decide if I should take him back and move again.

2006-09-26 15:34:49 · 19 answers · asked by L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are dead and I'm already distanced from my brothers. I was considering just moving to another state and starting an new life and throwing my past away. But, I hate to walk away from all my friends. I'm not sure how they'd take it, but I feel the need to find a life partner. I'm 47 and time's running out. Up to this point, I've acted very straight and doubt many people would suspect my real orientation. Are there any support groups for this?

2006-09-26 15:34:27 · 13 answers · asked by Dave D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for a while. We really like eachother and we're about to become boyfriend/girlfriend.

The other night, he asked me to wear my leather skirt, boots, and a tank top.

I asked, "why" and he replied, "because you look hot in leather".

Is this a bad sign?

2006-09-26 15:34:23 · 17 answers · asked by myhandsarecuffed 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf wants 2 always hold my hand & hug me & kiss me...im really not ready for that...i just wanna talk...will he get mad if i say BACK OFF DUDE!!!?

2006-09-26 15:33:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 26 going through a seond divorce and wondering is there any guys that want cheat , and who want hit ya and all that stuff?

2006-09-26 15:33:40 · 9 answers · asked by nextelfan25 4 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this one girl that in highschool in the lunch line, the 2 times she was behind me at lunch she layed her head on me! lol no lie im foreal i thought she was just playing the first time but until it happened the second time i started thinkin i dont even know her but could she have a crush on me? im really curious and plus we never even spoken but maybe she could have done that cuz she was laughing with her friends but i dont know

2006-09-26 15:32:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Would you still wish for his happiness?

2006-09-26 15:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by hehehe 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy, well, i am datin him and he is real nice, i have been best best friend with him 4ever and we have just now started datin... the fall festival is coming up and if he is there ( which i know he might be) what should i do 2 have the most wonderful night of my life? ( EXample.. kiss? hold hands? talk?)

2006-09-26 15:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by Glaring P 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, there's a girl I like, she's like my best friend, and I just started to like her a couple of months ago. I tried to figure out that if she also likes me that way or not, but I barely found any evidence. However my friends told me that most girls try to hide their feelings and wait for guys to make the first move. Is this true? HOW CAN I TELL IF SHE REALLY LIKES ME THAT WAY? Any help is appreciated.

2006-09-26 15:31:29 · 19 answers · asked by kentfeo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 15:31:06 · 14 answers · asked by Shamica S 1 in Friends

2006-09-26 15:31:04 · 8 answers · asked by lisa m 1 in Singles & Dating

there's something about them
what are the odds i'll be able to get one?

2006-09-26 15:30:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy. plus she goes to another school so i gotta do this fast . i used to like another girl and that girl liked me back but when i was about to tell her , it was too late, she states that she is taken so i don't want this one togo like this one, anyways this girll ( the one i'm having a problem with) is wayy better than the girl i used to like so plzz help mee

2006-09-26 15:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by john g 2 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE HELP!! i also have a 11 year old son to worry about ,that is why my daughter ,my husbands step daughter,can't stay here, shes on drugs and mean ,angry ,nasty language and depressed but refuses help.i have been through depression and am finally better,i agree she is not ever gonna come here to live,the11 yr old he adopted we have married6 yrs HELP

2006-09-26 15:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-26 15:28:37 · 15 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And she will be my teacher for the 4 years, my friends are transferring out of the class because they can't stand her. What should I do? She I transfer out too or stay in that class and stand her for the next 4 years?

2006-09-26 15:28:05 · 8 answers · asked by exxohh<3 1 in Family

Girls answer?
I am thinking that those guys that stare at me is very wierd. There's no way that I would want to make friends with them. Why do guys like to stare at me? I swear. This year, some guy stared at me and when I caught him staring at me, he looked away. I hate guys like that! I do not dress like a ****. I dress very casual. If you had a guy that stares at you for the 1st time, what would you think of them? and about the same guy that stares at you for a repetitive times? and you caught them staring. I hate them so much. If they do want to make friends with me, why won't they just talk to me instead of freaking me out. They should know that staring at girls are very creepy and makes the girl feel very uncomfortable. It is also rude when they stare if they do not talk.

2006-09-26 15:27:44 · 6 answers · asked by Amy T. 1 in Friends

Girls answer?
I am thinking that those guys that stare at me is very wierd. There's no way that I would want to make friends with them. Why do guys like to stare at me? I swear. This year, some guy stared at me and when I caught him staring at me, he looked away. I hate guys like that! I do not dress like a ****. I dress very casual. If you had a guy that stares at you for the 1st time, what would you think of them? and about the same guy that stares at you for a repetitive times? and you caught them staring. I hate them so much. If they do want to make friends with me, why won't they just talk to me instead of freaking me out. They should know that staring at girls are very creepy and makes the girl feel very uncomfortable. It is also rude when they stare if they do not talk.

2006-09-26 15:27:33 · 10 answers · asked by Amy T. 1 in Singles & Dating