just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy. plus she goes to another school so i gotta do this fast . i used to like another girl and that girl liked me back but when i was about to tell her , it was too late, she states that she is taken so i don't want this one togo like this one, anyways this girll ( the one i'm having a problem with) is wayy better than the girl i used to like so plzz help mee
2006-09-26 15:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by john g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you have to find something in common, next time you talk to her, try to ask what she likes to do and you have to compromise sometimes to get what you want, remember that! Don't try to hard, a desperate man is not what a girl wants either, use flattery and smile at her alot. Let her know you like her, if not by saying it then do something to show her, like write her a note, or bring her 1 rose next time you see her. or any kind of flower. just something to know you were thinking of her. Best of Luck!!!!!
2006-09-26 15:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by nascar_cr8zy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does sound like you are attracted to her for good reasons but ask yourself this. Can you be happy with someone you don't have things in common with? Can you put aside your own likes to do something she likes even though you don't like it? If not then more than likely it's not going to last long.
When a couple do not share the same interest they tend to not do things together therefore then end up growing apart rather than together. I have seen this happen many times
But you may consider trying the things that she likes, how do you know you don't like them if you don't try. You may find yourself liking some of those things you don't like. (I'm assuming things here which I don't normally do)
2006-09-26 22:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to say give her another chance because just one time wont let her probably open up as she will when you both feel comfortable around each other. of Course the first time is always a little les informative. Give her another chance.Maybe do a date that would be fun and break the ice so you both can laugh together.
2006-09-26 22:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered this one yourself...you hung out and it was boring, you don't have anything in common and she doesn't like the things you like. You're afraid that some one is better than no one. Get out there and keep looking. You'll find someone new and she might even like the things you like and you might have things in common. This will make it more exciting and hot. Good luck.
2006-09-26 22:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bexcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and tell her what you just told everyone reading this. As long as you are confidant and not pushy she could possibly make up her mind towards you. No guts no glory..... GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-26 22:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by emeraldliliy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want.... you HAVE TO GO MAN!!!! before its too LATE!!!
she sounds wonderful and really really good for you. aiite? just jump off of that rolling chair and call her up or just go right in front of her and say it (better than the phone thing.. youknow?) so GOGOGO!!! yay! go JOHN!!!
2006-09-26 22:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by HUSTLiN' Babii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else
2006-09-26 22:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋