are you usually the one to dump somebody, or are you usually the one to get dumped?
2006-09-26 15:25:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-09-26 15:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All but one time i have been the "dumper" the one time i was dumped was BAAADDD , probably because im so used to being the one to do the dumping.
i dont think that the reason why i am usually the one to do the dumping is because im always the "good person" in a relationship its more like when i see things going downhill and a breakup is inevitable i just go ahead and get it over with, why waste time in a relationship regardless of whos in the wrong if its just not working.
2006-09-26 22:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by None 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was usually the dumper. But I got dumped after a 4 year relationship. Guess I deserved it for loving and leaving so many girls, but this one was different, I really truly cared about this one, its just that when life got stressful for me, I didn't know how to handle the pressure.
2006-09-26 22:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by The Lonely Skywolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly I've been the dumper more often but discovered I never really loved those guys. When at 26 I finally fell inlove for the first time I realized how my ex-fiance felt. I was crushed and heart broken 7 months later I still feel very hurt. I still love him and have decided that I don't ever want to feel this pain again or cause it for someone else.
2006-09-26 22:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by lil sis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am usually the dumper. This is not because I "like the feeling of power, I like being in control" or "I like hurting people". Quite frankly I'd rather be rejected than have to do it to someone. It sucks, because I feel like the ******, even though I never dump someone without a good reason.
For example, I catch a person lying to me about something seriously important that pertains to our relationship, I have to cut them loose. I catch them cheating, that's instant dump. Or maybe we just aren't in love, never were in love, or grew apart. I don't want to waste any more of her time once I know I am not the right guy for her. The sooner she gets over me, the sooner she finds the right man.
2006-09-27 01:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by askthepizzaguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always the Dumper, Ive never been dumped in my life
2006-09-26 22:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by cvegas229 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, i've never been dumped but I've never actually dumped someone either. I do the cowardly thing and avoid calls and hide when there is a knock at the door....LOL I like to call it fading away from each other. Yes, pathetic i know...
2006-09-26 22:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by azile_wehttam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've only been the the Dumper so far.
2006-09-26 22:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sergio P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought you meant am I the one who dumps something on someone or am I the one who gets something dumped on me!
2006-09-26 22:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Used to be the dumpee.....now I seem to be the dumper......
2006-09-26 22:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by emeraldliliy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
haha I'm always the dumpee. I can't stand to do it. Cowardly, I know.
2006-09-26 22:26:53 · answer #11 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋