i have some questions 4 women only?

Question

1. if a man gives his woman oral and thens asks her to do the same and she gets mad is this wrong.
2. if all a woman wants is cuddling, a back rub etc... shouold she express that in advance so the man knows not to expect sex.
3. is it ok for a woman in the beginning to give a man great, no holds barred sex, then after they move in together tell the man that she made a mistake, that she is not into sex that much and she wants this relationship to be based on love and not sex and that all the wild nights were a lie she just did it cuz she wanted to show him a good time.
4. would u as a woman want a man to do these things to u
5. have you ever had a man do this to u
6. should a man have the right to feel used and lie to over this

Answer 1

1. Wrong. If she likes to receive, she has to reciprocate at least a few times. Fair is fair.
2. Absolutely. U are not a mind reader.
3. She was trying to impress u in the beginning and now that she has u, she's making up a lame excuse about the relationship being based on "love" rather than sex (rolleyes).
4. No, never
5.No, fortunately
6.Your feelings are valid.

Answer 2

Let me get this straight. She enjoys the back rubs, enjoys the oral sex, enjoyed the wild sex, and has re-thought things now that you have moved in together?

I do respect that a woman can say no, even after she has given "yes" signals, but this is a little different, here.

There is a trend of her "receiving" the things she wants. A back rub, oral sex, getting a man to move in together. When it does not suit her,she is reluctant to give back.... in all those cases.... And yes, it is reasonable that you want clarification if she is just into cuddling or massage.

If you want to work through this, you may seek professional guidance as to why she is thinking that love has to be exclusively set apart from loving making. And to explore why these feelings have only recently surfaced.

Best of luck.

Answer 3

Wow! You guys have some issues...
1. sex is very important in a relationship. Having said that, it should never be used as any form of bartering..."I'll do you if you do me..." Any sex act should be enjoyed by both parties; if not, don't so it.
2. Cuddling is another way to express your love for someone... it doesn't need to lead to sex, though sometimes it does :)
3. People shouldn't move in together unless they are truly in love and plan to spend a very long time together. It shouldn't be undertaken on a whim. It is a serious step in a relationship.
4., 5., & 6. Get over it! If you guys have these kinds of problems, you likely aren't meant to be together for the long haul anyway.

Answer 4

1. No she shouldn't get mad, relationships are give and take
2. Sometimes you have to tell women that because they don't realise that men always think that if you touch them that it means sex
3. It is not OK for ANYONE to portray themselves as someone they aren't and then try to take it back...its like fraud
4. No I would not want a man to do that to me... and mine doesn't we are equal
5. I have had a man do some of those things to me but then it didn't last long after that
6. Of course a man should feel used and lied to because basically you were
Now that I have answered all of your questions.... If someone treats you so badly why do you stay?
I think you already know the answers that you asked because if you didn't have a problem with them you wouldn't of asked.
First I would try to tell her the problems that you have and see if she is willing to make some changes so that both of you are happy. If she isn't then I do believe it is time to go down single street again. I hope you figure out what your going to do and good luck!!!

Answer 5

1. Doesn't hurt to ask but don't expect her to "do" you. It's all in the way you ask. If you make her feel like you expect "repayment" for your deed then she may feel like you only did it to get the "repayment". Try just doing her and then saying, "I hope you liked that". I would love it if you made me feel that good".

2. It gets tricky but you should know if a woman wants sex and not just a back rub. It's your fault for expecting sex! Remember it's the journey not the race!

3. No! I think this is very misleading and deceitful!
4. Hell no!

5. Yes and I'm still pissed about it! Be honest about your sexual prowess!

6. I don't think the correct word is feeling "used". That's exactly what you're not getting! I think I would feel like I was lied to under these circumstances! I thought I was getting a stallion and I got a donkey instead!

Answer 6

1. No, it's not wrong to ask. However, it shouldn't be expected. Not all women like giving head.
2. If a woman expressed that in the beginning then she'd never get the backrub or the cuddling. I prefer my backrubs and cuddles lead to sex and my husband is always happy to oblige me.
3. Dude, SEX IS NOT LOVE!!
4. You have
5. every right
6. to feel used and lied to over this and you should tell her so then ask her to move out of your place.

Answer 7

hmmmm....long and interesting....1. you do not have to do anything sexual that makes you feel uncomfortable. 2. No. Men should not "expect" sex, nothing wrong with affection that does not include intercourse, etc. 3. Most people engage in no-holds-barred hot sex in the beginning of a relationship, however the lust phase, as i like to call it, can not be sustained forever. 4. I as a woman, choose, what I want, when I want, and who I want it with, period! 5. No! Men respect me and if something is wrong in the relationship, then I discuss it w/ them or move on. 6. Everyone is entitled to their feelings. Hope this helps.

Answer 8

Of course its all wrong. You were used alright.
A person is either into sex or not.
A relationship is based on love and sex. It can't ever be just on love or just on sex.
The two go together to make a magnificient relationship that can last forever, otherwise its just a scam.

Answer 9

1. Nope, I feel if you give you shall receive lol
2. Yes, I honestly feel that it should be said upfront if no hope 4 sex
3. Hell naw that's not ok. I couldn't imagine if a man acted like that but unfortunately ALOT of sorry azz women do that mind game, hootchie trappin is what I call it lol (they act like a hootchie then wanna church up when the catch the man lol)
4. Nope and If a man acted like that he'd be out da door
5. Nope
6. Hell Yeah

Answer 10

1. Yes
2. YES
3. women change, trust me!! In the last 10 years, I've went from wild sex, don't touch me, cuddle with me, make love to me, ETC... and not always in that order!! Just when you think you have her figured out...she'll want somthing different!!
4.No, but we know men just want wild sex all the time!!
5.No, men just want wild sex all the time!!
6. It's not being used and lied to; we just change emotionally, Etc..
I'm sure your girl did like the wild nights, be patient if you love her..She'll want them again!!!
Remember...women are like a puzzle!!