we've been together for 5 yrs, but now we broke up for 2 yrs and he also has a new gf n they living together. we talked couple months b4 but now everytime i try to call n email him he doesn't pick up or even reply back to me. after we broke up, i emailed him n wanted to get back but he ignored me. now i just want him to talk to me to make me feel better bc until now i just dont kow how to get him out of my mind. b4 he wanted to be friends but now he just ignore me like that. that makes me more sad. i miss him so much!
2006-09-26 15:25:20 · 32 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit stalking him! He's done with you and moved on. You also need to do the same and find someone else. He's no longer available and made that quite clear.
2006-09-26 15:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard situation. I went through something fairly similar and I always e-mailed, called, and texted him. I missed him so much and always felt this big and vast emptiness and all I wanted was to at least hear his voice or even have his attention for just one second. He answered back once saying he was drunk and high and despite the horrible message a was very exited that he had answered or said something to me. The thing is that got my hopes up. He never answered me again after that and I am grateful because I was able to get over him. I think it's more torture when they communicate with you but by all means, GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-09-26 15:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks but it sounds like you need to move on! Obviously he doesn't deserve you! Also if he has another girlfriend then there's no waaaay shell let him email or call you since you're an ex.
Go treat yourself to something special and go out, make some new friends, go dancing or whatever will make you feel good. You don't need to keep begging after this guy, you need a man who knows that you're the one for him!!!!! Hang in there!
2006-09-26 15:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by CR2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunny. You have to accept that he is gone and moved on. You have to do the same thing. You can't make him do anything that he doesn't want to do. The only thing you can control is yourself. Don't bother him anymore at all. He isn't responsible for making you happy. You need to take care of yourself and make yourself happy. You deserve to be happy too.
Maybe after you haven't bothered him anymore, he'll come around and start after you again. But ya know what, by then you would have probably moved on with your own life, and you can tell him to bug off. You go girl. Don't need no guy to make you happy.
2006-09-26 15:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Shannifanni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way you can is to find a life without him in it. Stay away from him. Lose his number. Time alone will take away some of the pain. Be single for a bit. Learn to love yourself 1st. Do not become a stalker. Find a counselor if things get out of control.
2006-09-26 15:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by clearwatervike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aw thats sad all i can say is he does have a new gf an i am guessing that she doesn't want him talk to other girls and i think since you and him been together so long i think its hard for you to let him go but i try this don't send him emails or phone calls and if he truly cares about you he will defintely call or write back
2006-09-26 15:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with you said the operative word, ex. Second and foremost turn the tables on yourself, if you were the girlfriend how would you feel about the calls and emails? Face the facts and move on with your life.
2006-09-26 15:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did say he is your ex and that he is living with someone else and now he's not returning your calls and emails. What this means is that he has moved on and it's time for you to do the same.
2006-09-26 15:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has moved on and he probably thinks that since he has a new girl friend he shouldnt be talking to you any more because he knows it would give you false hopes ...so by ignoring your calls he feels that you should get the hint and give up... i know its hard but you should see a couinselor they can get you through this .. in the mean time seek out your friends have a girls night out and focus on you .. you will get through this i promise... it will be hard but for your own good try to liive life to the fullest and have fun ..you will meet some one a gain and you will be happy. but get out there and mingle and go do something to keep busy to take your mind off things..you will be fine in time ... good luck to you!!
2006-09-26 15:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's moved on, so should you. I'm sorry it didn't work out and you will miss him, but if it's meant to be, now is not the time.
Go out there and have some fun. Who knows, you could find something much better.
2006-09-26 15:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋