i have some questions 4 women only?

Question

1. if a man gives his woman oral and thens asks her to do the same and she gets mad is this wrong.
2. if all a woman wants is cuddling, a back rub etc... shouold she express that in advance so the man knows not to expect sex.
3. is it ok for a woman in the beginning to give a man great, no holds barred sex, then after they move in together tell the man that she made a mistake, that she is not into sex that much and she wants this relationship to be based on love and not sex and that all the wild nights were a lie she just did it cuz she wanted to show him a good time.
4. would u as a woman want a man to do these things to u
5. have you ever had a man do this to u
6. should a man have the right to feel used and lie to over this

Answer 1

The answer to your first question is no. No man should give you something you like and then expect you to perform oral sex just to please him. You should let him know how you feel about oral sex. If you don't like doing oral sex let him know so he doesn't expect it in return.
2. Yes you should express in advance so that the man no you really don't want sex, but a back rub and some cuddling would be nice.
3. No it's not okay for a woman to give a man great sex , then to move into together and tell him you want the relationship to be based on love not sex. Not good idea. Start of all relationships with the truth, no matter what. If you want your relationship to be based on love and not sex you should definitely tell him from the very start.
4. I would expect the same in return, honesty, respect, truth right from the very start.
5. Yes I have had someone use me just for sex and it hurt because I thought he really liked me. I really liked him, but he had a lot of issues and he wanted things from me that I just don't do.
6. A man has a right to feel used, but to lie no way. Lying about it is the wrong thing to do. He should be open and honest and let you know how he feels and what he's looking for.

Answer 2

1. yes. if she wants to give you oral after you give her oral, she will. if you have to ask, she doesn't want to. all asking will do is make her mad. she wants to feel like you wanted to please her just to please her and not want anything in return.
2. if you want her to express that in advance, you should let her know (but not during the back rub/cuddling/sex). she won't know you want this unless you tell her.
3. this is more of an ethical question... but at least you know she is capable of having great sex with you. i bet you can induce it every once in a while with a really romantic candle-lit dinner, music, etc... and she will fall hard for you again. it's possible that if you are married it's just that your sex life has deteriorated a bit. you must express that your relationship IS based on love (i hope it is... if not, you shouldnt be together) and you love her so much, and the great sex is just a bonus. if you married her for the sex, couldn't you get anyone?
4. what man would do that to a woman? i would say no, but i don't think i'd ever be in the situation.
5. no.
6. i think you should rethink what your relationship really IS based on. when you got married, you thought you were sexually compatible. but now you find out you aren't. you have to think about what kind of priority this has for you and how important it is before you take any further steps. you can feel deceived, but she didnt mean to use you.

Answer 3

1. A relationship is not about tit for tat. Find out why she doesn't like oral. A lot of people don't like a lot of things. I have a friend who hates french kissing.
2. Do whatever the two of you agree on. I think it is better that she let you know. Men and women are different, and a lot of men make the mistake of assuming that affection is always a precursor for sex. Make it special for her and once in a while tell her that you want to spoil her, and don't expect sex unless she wants it too. Be as affectionate as you can even outside the bedroom.
3. A lot of women and men make the mistake of false advertising. Talk to her about how this makes you feel. Are you married? If not, talk to her and maybe you two aren't meant to be.
4. I would want a man to love and cuddle me, but not no 3
5. no
6. yes

Answer 4

1.wrong or not no one should expect this back but if you are getting upset with him asking and you dont like to perform oral then tell him
2.communication is the biggest factor in any relationship so letting your partner know you want quality time not sex time is not a bad idea.
3. yes and no again tell your partner sex is a bonus and great but its not the only thing just because we live together.
4.been there done that and the good ole saying comes to mind "whats good for the goose is good for the gander.
6.man or woman no one should lie to anyone in a relationship no excuses.......

Answer 5

1. Yes. Even if she didn't want to to she does not need to get mad, at least a hand job or something.
2. Yes. I always tell my hubby up front, if I am tired and all I want is a back rub, he knows not to let himself get all worked up.
3. No! Hell No! and it is pretty stupid that is how you get cheated on. Or just left.
4. No.
5. No
6. Yes, you were used and definitely lied to!!!

Answer 6

well i can say that,there might be a rat around and you dont smell it yet.sometimes i like to cuddle, but when i like to cuddle i expect to end up having sex.3rd,to give you a good time, sluts give you good times,im going through it, and is horrible.yep my husband.if you feel that way say something.

Answer 7

1) yes

2) no, the man should just assume he get nothing till she starts it.

3) yes, she has a right to her opinion and mind change.

4) no

5) no

6) yes

Answer 8

no she is a fraud and she is very wrong on many different level's. Run as fast as you can. Once a deciever alway's a deciever. I have had it done to me and i dumped his sorry butt.

Answer 9

Tit for Tat and this for that. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Answer 10

i just answered this same exact question