ok i jus had a year long relationship wit my first luv jessie shumate and i really love him he wuz my 1st 4 everything. But my friends didnt and still dnt like him nor my family so i had to let him go. But i still love him but he is so damn dirty and he smokes all damn day and acts stupid and play to much so i have tried to jus avoid him but he is always on my mind friends say im to pretty to be stuck on one niga so i tried to listen, but its not workin. yaw dnt no how much i luv dis boi and how many good tymes we have shared but i dnt need him its like he is a bad habit i cant get rid of. Recently i found out about dis gurl name sha and i got da fightin wit dat bytch and me and him got into it again i jus dnt understand y he act so stupid and play silly games and think i want find out dat is sum ****!!!!!!!!1 i jus need sum advice cuz i have to much goin on in my life dat u want even expect im sick of cryin, i want him to feel bad he eva treated me like he did and lied like he did .
2006-09-26 15:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Date his friends (or better yet, brother) and make out in front of him
2006-09-26 15:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by timmytude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all all that fighting over a man is not even neccessary. U make yourself stupid fighting over someone. that to me doens't make any sense. Do u think fighting over him his going to make u the better woman. If u wanted to be with him so bad, u wouldn't care what was said about him by whom. Making someone jealouse is not the way to go either, because sometimes it doesn't work. What i suggest for u to do is leave him alone for a minute. U said that u got stuff going on in your life, well concentrate on that. When ya'll can both get it together, then thats when u know that u too could try to get back together.
2006-09-26 15:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by omarion's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not gaining anything by seeing him, are you? You may miss the memories over the person he is now. Clear your head. Go out with your friends, meet some guys. Don't jump into another relationship. If you still want to make him jealous, SHOW him you don't need him. You can hold your ground. And that will be by not being around him. Maybe it'll make him realize he needs to get his act together.
2006-09-26 15:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl gurl gurl...what in the hell are you talking about...ok first off you say you had to let him go because your family and friends dont like him...huh!!! you never give up on someone because of what your friends and family think...that's why your in the predicament your in now listening to others...now you want advice from yahoo users...how funny secondly you say you dont need him huh!!! that's a damn lie or else you wouldnt be taking the time out to write about him so evidently you want something, thirdly you talking bad on him you say he dirty and he smokes all day.... what you dont think you can do no better, i mean aren't you the one who said your friends said that your to pretty to be stuck on one well i'm not gonna even say the word cause it's not necessary...however if you got too much goin on in your life then why in the hell are you worried about somebody that' plays silly games and act stupid you contradicted yourself...not trying to be mean but you got alot of growing up to do.
2006-09-26 15:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I resist the urge to lecture you on your bad spelling.
LOL
Honey, he will always be special to you. Time heals all wounds. Give it time. Take up a hobby. Occupy your mind with other things. He broke up with you move on. There are many fish in the sea...
P.S. (Usually people become jealous when they see you with someone else. Not saying that I recommend this way but if you want to make him feel sorry.... Watch out though that you don't hurt someone else in your quest to hurt your x)
2006-09-26 15:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been there this is what u do u leave the bastard alone because honestly if u wanted to stop cryin u wold leave him alone. If u cannot bring urself to leave him alone then what pain u do go through its ur fault. just let him go i know its hard but believe me u will fine someone better for u cause i did.
2006-09-26 15:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lita J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive, u love him a lot bt he didnt love u. If a pair in love, 3 days remote from one yet another, u will sense the lacking feeling. stay remote from one yet another for 3 days. If he nvr seem 4 u meaning he's in worry-free words being playful. U would seem 4 him if u miss him and u decide hw he react after u saved urself remote from him. See è diff. ;)
2016-10-16 02:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by rhona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with another guy and make him jelous look more prettier and sexier and them keep flirting with him a bit and he'll want u back. and ditch the other guy!
2006-09-26 15:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by jazzy108 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop thinking of him move on with your life, why bother stuck with as asshole, there a lot of guys out there, if you still like to be with him you are becoming stupid like they all say.
2006-09-26 15:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a make-over. look real pretty , move on and get a good life. but don't take him back. If he sees that you're doing good with your life and he isn't, that'll be enough torture for him.
2006-09-26 15:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by hott lips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋