Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

2006-09-25 09:22:57 · 2 answers · asked by Me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its been going on for along time like years i'm only 31and has 2 great kids.but he calls me down to the dirt at times ,he wont help out at home with housework,i ask him to help our son with his homework he says no! i done school now i'm finished i aint touchin it again...he gets made at my every move.his parents live next door him and his parents are always saying i'm wasting hubbys money(i never go outside so how do i waste money).he got mad at me yesterday because i said i was going out to bingo (yup bingo )and when i came home he left for work never spoke to words 2 me or even said bye.he usually calls me every day and he never today.i feel like a maid in the marriage...not a wife.

2006-09-25 09:22:37 · 23 answers · asked by browneyez 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think it's very unfair for him to not give that up for us and our future. I am more than willing to trade my car in, but I don't want to do it without him giving his share. I don't want to wait until his boat and my car are paid off, we're not getting any younger. I just feel like that boat is worth more to him than getting married to me and that really hurts. What would you guys do in this situation???

2006-09-25 09:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Singles & Dating

Why do women have to remember every single thing about a relationship and turn it into a bit deal..I mean "oh lets do something special tonight this is the first night i saw you" or "this is the first time you held my hand" big deal.Theres only 4 dates a woman have to remember in a relationship...1)Your birthday...2)Football season start(to get beer in)..3)Your moms birthday(mamas boy)...4)their period(had too many close calls).Don't get me wrong am a old romantic at heart but some of the stuff women do does you "head in",theres only so many times you can grit your teeth,why aren't they happy with what they got?So come on girls give us some slack we aren't interested when we first met or the first time we kissed under the stars.Oops just fell out with the girl over this,better get the couch ready.....serves her right for being nosey....

2006-09-25 09:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 09:21:59 · 3 answers · asked by nillarbt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my bf for a year now & we have been on and off. Him & his ex broke up last year bec she left him for another guy. I know that he still talks to her & when I asked him about it he said he only calls her bec of the timeshare they have under both their names but I think it's more than that. Last May, my bf & I broke up & I went to Puerto Rico w/ my family & when I got back my bf & I started talking again & got back together. I found out later on that he wrote her a letter for Mothers day & on the letter, he talked about how he misses her & everything they used to do together. Him & I had a big argument about both of us talking to our ex's & we agreed that we won't talk w/ the ex's unless it has something to do w/ their timeshare or my son with my ex. When I checked his cell 2 wks ago I found out that he called her & when I asked him about it he denied it & lied to me about it. I haven't told him that I've cheated on him w/ my ex. I do love him but I dont know what to do?

2006-09-25 09:20:32 · 21 answers · asked by Is it me or Is it him? 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends is unable to obtain credit due to not being British, he wants to buy a car - but has hinted that maybe I could get a loan in my name for him to pay. He has renovated much of my house for free and I trust him, but something tells me this would be a bad move, what do you think? If answer is no, how do I say without offence? Would I be selfish? Or, if after so much help from him should I repay my friend by returning the favour?

2006-09-25 09:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by Contrary Mary 2 in Friends

be specific whats the top best 10 flirts

2006-09-25 09:19:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in the 7th grade and i have liked this guy since 5th but last year but he switched schools i see him all the time besause he lives close by.hes a year yunger and dosent feel the same way about me. what should i do should i come clean or should i keep it stored within

2006-09-25 09:18:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so you have all been there so you knnow what im talking about - and hopefully i wont get any abuse from people because of this question.

I have a close friend online, we have been chatting for over 9 months now, and i think maybe im starting to have a hint of a "crush" on him - people say, judging by what the guy says to me that he has feelings for me too

But i cant understand how i can be sure seeing as though i cant hear his tone of voice nor see his body language

I have spoken to him on the phone but only for like half an hour about absolute rubbish, just because he wanted to hear my voice, and we text each other often too - we speak online EVERY day, and i know its not a brother/sister friendship because....just trust me on this one!

Also, he said something odd to me as though he was "trying" to tell me that he likes me, but backed out in the end.

Do you think my imagination is going into overdrive or could i really be falling for him and vice versa?

2006-09-25 09:18:22 · 22 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

Please provide the best tips for women about what a man likes and how best to let him know how to please her.

2006-09-25 09:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by internetoptimiser 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for four years now,we're nineteen. Evertime we have a problem his mom has something to say. Probably because he talks to her because she is the only parent that he has grown up with. All she tells him is that i'm trying to control him and not to get to serious b/c we're so young and high school couples that go on to get married never make it. My parents are high school sweet hearts they've been married twenty years but she and her husband divorced. On top of that she's a B****. For example months ago me and my boyfriend broke up and he started seeing someone but it didn't workout. His mom invites her to his going away party ( he went to basic training) and she knows that him and her don't get along also that we've had many heated arguements about her, but she didn't care her only answer was it's not all about you( meaning my boyfriend). Wasn't it his going away party, that's the question i had to ask myself.

2006-09-25 09:18:10 · 3 answers · asked by NA 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you rather smell your partners breath at 6am the night after a curry or your partners arm pits at 6pm when they have worked all day and been down the gym?

2006-09-25 09:17:22 · 39 answers · asked by destiny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I swore that i would never do such a terrible thing such as cheating on someone you care about. However this past weekend, I had sex with this guy that i formally talked to but don't have any feelings towards him, I was intoxicated and i was wanting some, and i know that sounds terribly hoeish. I'm freaking out though now cause i dont wanna go on lying to him but im so afraid. WE have only been going out for a little more than a month but we have grown pretty close. Please give me your input, and please dont be to cruel for what i did cause trust me, its killing me inside. Thank You !

2006-09-25 09:16:32 · 25 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this girl on Friday night and we had a blast. We're going to go out again next weekend. I mentioned that I liked football. She said she did, too, and she'd like to learn more about it. So I suggested we have a picnic in the park, then watch some football together. She said she'd like that Does that seem too much like I'm controlling the date? Should I bring a backup, like a chick flick, and pop it in instead of football?

2006-09-25 09:16:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 27 years old but, I like this guy whom is only 20. He is very mature for his age and we seem to get along great. He enjoys spending time with my son. He is very polite and has a great sense of humor. Am I wrong to like him???

2006-09-25 09:16:21 · 18 answers · asked by legalbambino 2 in Singles & Dating

It doesnt matter what you do or how you do it life is complicated and never runs smoothly!!!!! you hit one hurdle and get over it and then another ones comes along straight away and hits you in the face WHY ???? Lol

2006-09-25 09:16:04 · 5 answers · asked by Secretguk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

can somone plz giv me some tips to get a convo started wit a really hot guy or some flirting tips?

2006-09-25 09:16:02 · 2 answers · asked by Red 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, and one of my friends told him, and he said that he likes me, but I don't know if I really belive that she is telling me the truth, but he does look @ me and smile, holds open the door(he doesn't do it for anybody else), and one of my friends which is one of his friends keeps lookin @ me when he talks to him, so I don't know if he like me or not so can you help me? Please!!!

2006-09-25 09:15:09 · 12 answers · asked by angelfire 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I put things right? My husband wants to hit me and said if he does then things can go back to the way they were. I don't want him to hit me, just forgive me. He is really angry and I can't talk to him. He has never hit me before. What will save my marriage? Please help.

2006-09-25 09:14:56 · 45 answers · asked by he_dared_to_rock 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys: have you ever seen a fellow student from your class in a stripbar?

I am just wondering how prevalent it is. I heard a girl talking about it the other day.

2006-09-25 09:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to see a friend as I'm a bit low at the moment. She flirted with me and started touching me so we ended up kissing. Then she pushed my head down and I well you know.
After I did that and she **** she asked me to leave. Have I been used?

2006-09-25 09:14:20 · 28 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

she wants to get the surgery to make her thing "smaller " she had 3 kids .. should i agree ?

2006-09-25 09:14:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 09:13:54 · 7 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have recently finished in a long term relationship and so am a little rusty on the whole dating business again, some pointers would be useful. I have started college and there is this guy I like, hes started eating his lunch with me and my mates and when he is talking he directs 75% of his eye contact at me. The other day someone else was talking, I went to turn round and he was looking at me so our eyes met and we held eye contact for a fair few seconds.
The next day we were all reading through his car magazine, when I had an interest in it he said I could keep it if I wanted it. Later that afternoon my mate said he must like me, she was looking at the magazine with him too but he give it to me.
He talks to me alot and always holds eye contact with me, he smiles and tries to make me laugh.
I am a little shy but if I could get a moment alone with him I would ask him for a drink, I just want to double check it is a good idea?

2006-09-25 09:13:31 · 14 answers · asked by NuttyOne 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 09:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are doing long distance, and our relationship has been rocky at best for the last couple of months. We are both possessive and controlling (very unattractive qualities) and have been fighting incessantly the past few weeks. Friday night, he told me that he was meeting his sister for a drink....and that was the last that I heard from him. He turned off his phone, and did not turn it back on until after 3am. He didn't call or text me to let me know that he was home. I still had not heard from him at 2pm Saturday, so I called....no answer. I sent a text asking him to call me....no response. I called him back and he answered....and immediately started yelling at me. I asked if he was with a girl the night before, and he blew up at me. He accused me of picking a fight, and trying to ruin his weekend. He sent me a few mean, hurtful texts which I did not respond to and left me a voicemail later that night still yelling at me. We have not spoken since.

2006-09-25 09:13:06 · 5 answers · asked by VMM 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you knew someone for a week but u got along so well together, is it okay to kiss on the first date? Why? Why not?

2006-09-25 09:13:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend last year for a month and during that time, he changed his passsword to his x-girlfriends last name. we have been together a total of 3 years and we now have a 7 month old son together, the x-girlfriend has a boyfriend but what does it mean that he changed his password to her last name...does it mean that he still has feeling for her???

2006-09-25 09:12:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband says that he is tired from working (he does work a lot) so I told him that he should go take a nap. He said I'm not tired like that I am worn out. He told me to try working 7 days a week without decent sleep. I told him that I do that every single day even the days when is off of work. (I am a SAHM who has a toddler and I go to college online and do all the housework, shopping, cater to him, etc.) He's so wonderful some days and some days I just want to leave him because he is so difficult and irritable and he picks fights even when I am trying to be nice. Whats going wrong and any suggestions on how can I fix it?

2006-09-25 09:11:25 · 20 answers · asked by mommy_2_little_man 2 in Marriage & Divorce