I have recently finished in a long term relationship and so am a little rusty on the whole dating business again, some pointers would be useful. I have started college and there is this guy I like, hes started eating his lunch with me and my mates and when he is talking he directs 75% of his eye contact at me. The other day someone else was talking, I went to turn round and he was looking at me so our eyes met and we held eye contact for a fair few seconds.
The next day we were all reading through his car magazine, when I had an interest in it he said I could keep it if I wanted it. Later that afternoon my mate said he must like me, she was looking at the magazine with him too but he give it to me.
He talks to me alot and always holds eye contact with me, he smiles and tries to make me laugh.
I am a little shy but if I could get a moment alone with him I would ask him for a drink, I just want to double check it is a good idea?
2006-09-25 09:13:31 · 14 answers · asked by NuttyOne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey the biggest risk in life is not taking one . the only way to find out if he feels the same way as you do is to ask , it may be no then again it may be yes but do you really just want to sit there and wonder when you can actually find out go for it if it's no just remember your young and there's always someone out there for you .
2006-09-25 09:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by lilfrog_54 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe a drink would make him a little crazy and he wouldn't be the same guy that you like. Perhaps if you go to dinner instead? And not McDonald's or anything like that of course; something nice with dim lighting and menus and jazzy music. That's when you can get alone with him, have a good evening, and it's a mood-setter for something more, if that's what you feel like having.
2006-09-25 16:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Why not? What do you have to loose? To me it seems like he is very interested, but maybe a little shy to ask the question him self! He is probably hoping that something will happen one day... Good luck! :)
2006-09-25 16:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Angelina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yes!! he does like you, he is just trying to suss out if the feeling is mutual. I would ask him to go for coffee rather than a drink.
2006-09-25 17:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go for coffee, not a drink. Does he study same as you? Even better if he does, then you have reason.
2006-09-25 16:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, go for it. The odds are definitely in your favor. Nothing to lose but everything to gain...
2006-09-25 16:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by susanashotsextoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it! Just for a drink though, if you can help yourself maybe wait for him to ask you?
2006-09-25 18:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like this guy, ask him. Yeah, do it privately. But it seems like this guy may genuinely like u, he's just not sure how to approach it.
2006-09-25 16:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can only say no but it looks like he would jump at the chance.
2006-09-25 18:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tabbyfur aka patchy puss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a sure bet to me. Go girl go.
2006-09-26 08:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋