I went to see a friend as I'm a bit low at the moment. She flirted with me and started touching me so we ended up kissing. Then she pushed my head down and I well you know.
After I did that and she **** she asked me to leave. Have I been used?
2006-09-25 09:14:20 · 28 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeh by the sounds of things u were used hunny!....she shouldnt have took advantage of you + you were only going for someone to talk to as u were feeling low.....i think maybe u should talk to her + tell her how u feel about her actions.....if my freind done that 2 me id neva speak to him again....
good luck
x.niks.x
2006-09-26 00:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by lil niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly appears to be the case. If she were a real friend, she would not have taken advantage of you when you were feeling low and probably in need of comfort (I mean the talking it out kind of comfort). Also, asking you to leave straight afterwards is just rude.....
2006-09-25 16:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, you were probably very receptive to her actions due to you feeling low,maybe she really likes you and it was the chance she had been waiting for, when you were less likely to turn her down, she probably felt she had taken advantage of your vulnerability and that's why she asked you to leave, talk to her you might be surprised.
2006-09-25 17:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by fluffy bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye babe its not ur fault shes really horible and should not have done that at all. she sacraficed your friendship for her own entertainment and not only that but she did it at probably the worst possible time - when you were upset and came to her for support. you dont have to stand for this your way better! next time go to some one else and basically ignore her from now on.
if you are still really annoyed at her then go tell her you deserve an apology!!
good luck in the future =)
2006-09-25 16:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you been used,but guess what? all men love to be used like that! just think deep about the difference about boys and girls,if a girl would be used like that it would change her life for worse but men just don't mind!!
2006-09-25 17:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have been used,she took advantage of you when you were vulnerale.I hope you used protection!!! If she is that easy with you,then she has been around the block if you know what I mean.
2006-09-25 16:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, probaly so.
Did you ever wonder if you can contract herpes and STD's via the mouth? Better get a check up- she doesn't seem to care who she fools around with.
2006-09-25 16:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. The girl just wanted to have fun!Find out if she was not Cyndi Lauper.
2006-09-25 17:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say you've been used as it takes two to tango, i'm sure you could of stopped yourself! A guy did this to me once and i went home afterwards. I didn't make him do it, he wanted to and seemed to enjoy doing it, he wanted to please me!
Maybe do the same to her the next time you see her, see how she likes it! lol
2006-09-25 18:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! right now it sounds like you have - but having said that she may have just been embarrassed by her actions and needed a bit of space!
Give it a few days and see if she contacts you
2006-09-26 03:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋