she wants to get the surgery to make her thing "smaller " she had 3 kids .. should i agree ?
2006-09-25 09:14:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is a book that has exercises to make it tighter.
2006-09-25 09:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u think she needs it? It seems like alot of pain to go thru and then healing. Are u willing to go thru all that, and have her go thru it for nothing. She could try kegel exercises and walking, soaking in hot tubs,or not having sex too often. The woman's vagina is resilient and is made to be able to return to it's normal state over time. It will never be the same after 3 kids, but that is going to be some pain, then more pain when she actually has intercourse again and gets "open" up again. Like a virgin. It's her body but try finding alternative methods to present to her if you flat out disagree. Consider her feelings about the situation also.
2006-09-25 09:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants it, just assure her that you are happy the way she is but if it will make her happy to go through with the surgery, let her know that you're behind her. She's making a stressful decision, try to make her as at ease at possible.
2006-09-25 09:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong place for such a question. Only between you can you both decide. Ask her why, see if you agree or not, and weigh up the pros and cons. Ultimately, is it worth it? After having a knee op that nearly killed me, you have to wonder whether it's worth the potential price?
2006-09-25 09:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Joker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA HA ya know it usually nomatter how stretched it gets it goes back to normal``````````````` the problem aint ya girl MAN ITS YOU```````````````` Maybe your girl needs a new boy friend instead of an abnormally tight ..... maybe you should have surgery.... no offense just THE TRUTH!!!!!
2006-09-25 09:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No operation is without a certain amount of risk!
you must both discuss,
the pro's and cons of such a procedure ;-------
with the Surgeons and a medically trained councilor.
before ,
between you, you come to a decision, to go ahead with this
It is not something, to take lightly .
The fact that you have asked us , shows me that you care .
.good luck, however you decide .
2006-09-25 09:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by sweet-cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl must really love you. Even though you can't satisfy her cause ur "johnson" is too small, she is taking responsibility for your sex life.
If you were a "REAL" man you would do what you could to satisfy her. But no, ur the kind of dude who, lets the girl run the whole show - even in the bedroom.
2006-09-25 09:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny Zero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can do exercises to make it tighter. The same muscle she uses to stop and start her pee are the same ones that control the tightness. This is great and it works. I can get mine so tight that I can push my man out of me.
2006-09-25 09:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by raerae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its her body. Entirely up to her. However if I were her I would stay away from surgery unless necessary.
2006-09-25 09:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by djsanner@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your talking about having her muscles tightened by a gyn.ob. I worked with several girls that had the done and they seem to feel it helped them, go for it.
2006-09-25 09:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all she has to do is do the exercizes and she should know what they are tell her to do them like 5 min a day and she will be alright plus u go right back to ur size after u have ur baby down there .....not unless its u making her feel bad .........
2006-09-25 09:17:51 · answer #11 · answered by queenbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋