Ok, so you have all been there so you knnow what im talking about - and hopefully i wont get any abuse from people because of this question.
I have a close friend online, we have been chatting for over 9 months now, and i think maybe im starting to have a hint of a "crush" on him - people say, judging by what the guy says to me that he has feelings for me too
But i cant understand how i can be sure seeing as though i cant hear his tone of voice nor see his body language
I have spoken to him on the phone but only for like half an hour about absolute rubbish, just because he wanted to hear my voice, and we text each other often too - we speak online EVERY day, and i know its not a brother/sister friendship because....just trust me on this one!
Also, he said something odd to me as though he was "trying" to tell me that he likes me, but backed out in the end.
Do you think my imagination is going into overdrive or could i really be falling for him and vice versa?
2006-09-25 09:18:22 · 22 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh and i forgot to mention that we argue very often too about the SILLIEST things,
And i managed to persuade him to stop drinking alcohol, and eating unsuitable meats (as its against our religion) so he does listen to me :P
2006-09-25 09:21:04 · update #1
AND he is a legitimate friend because he is actually a friend of a friend - whom i was introduced through, eventhough i havent met him myself
2006-09-25 09:22:37 · update #2
Well, we have used webcam too so he knows how i look and i know how he looks...i should have mentioned that earlier!
2006-09-25 09:32:37 · update #3
Do you know what he looks like yet?I met my partner over the phone.10 weeks later he moved in.I felt in my heart I loved him before we met.It has been over 2 years now.Follow your heart or you may let your soul mate pass you by.
2006-09-25 09:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely you could be falling for him and vice versa. I met my partner online and we have been together now for almost 7 years. I think you too should talk a little more on the phone and if he lives close then you should think about setting up a publice place to meet and take friends with you so you can have personal contact with each other. Dont listen to negitive things people say. Love is much more than looks and you can find that through emotion first. Good luck and I hope everything works out.
2006-09-25 16:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of how my current relationship started....we talked online for maybe a week at a time, then a few times a week, then every day for at least 3 months....and all the while during the last portion of those 3 months we started talking on the phone VERY frequently, sometimes 6 hours a day lol. Then it got to the point where I knew she was the best friend I've ever had, but I had deep feelings for her, and I knew she did as well........so I went and hung out with her on several occasions.....and eventually it led to a mutual relationship, and I drove 2 hours there and 2 hours back every weekend and sometimes during the week day after work to see her. Spent about 12,000 miles in travel going up to see her every weekend and just spending time together. Now she lives with me here and I couldn't be happier with the way our friendship has evolved. So no, it starts off slow and steady then it skyrockets once things pick up the pace.......just take your time and enjoy yourself and dont jump into things because as a girl, you run the risk of him being totally a different person than what you expect lol.
2006-09-25 16:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my GF for 5 years now having met through yahoo chat.
From my time in chat (even prior to meeting her) I've always thought that you can tell alot about a person by what they write and the way they write it. I've rarely got this wrong either.
If the vibes you have been getting from him give you that strong a feeling then there is a good chance that you are spot on.
Your phone call wasn't to just hear your voice. Every time you chat online now he hears your voice in your words and vice versa I'm sure.
Trust your hunches. If you feel he's nervous about telling you how he feels maybe you could take the initiative this time.
I wish you the best of luck
2006-09-25 16:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Treat Infamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I am there right now! I met someone lovely on here actually! We started off sending friendly messages then realised how special we had become to each other. We are meeting up for the first time next month! I believe that you are reading the signs correctly. Follow your instincts! It sounds like you have fallen for him and from speaking to various people on this subject, meeting people in this way is becoming more and more common. Its not something that is so frowned upon nowadays. At least arrange to meet this guy, if you can. I am interpreting the signs as positive ones. And dont listen to any negative responses because, trust me, you will get the odd few! Go for it! Ask to meet him! Best of luck!!!
2006-09-25 16:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years ago I started chatting to a lady on Yahoo chat, we chatted everyday online for bout 6months ( we would also txt & phone each other) then I got brave & asked her out for a date, I travelled to the city she lives in & we had a wonderful evening together, she invited me back a couple of weeks later to go out for a meal, after that I was travelling down to see her every weekend after work, & everything snowballed from there on in. On 18/09/2004 we got married & we both agree it was the best day of our lives.
I must also agree with some of the other answers you got that there are some people on the internet who arnt what they make out.
2006-09-25 17:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise before jumping into anything would be to talk more on the phone with him. Get to know him threw the phone, you can still email or text but you have got to hear his voice and talk about the real things in life that mean something to you, that way you can hear his reactions and later determine if he is the ONE or a fake. Be careful, be PICKY and NEVER settle!!!!
2006-09-25 16:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could totally be falling for him. I met my hubby on line 11 years ago. I loved him before I ever knew what he looked like. Sometimes people hold back in fear of rejection is all. Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
2006-09-25 16:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk openly to him about it. Ask him how he feels about a relationship offline with you. You'll never know unless you try. Even if he says no you know you'll have a friend because he is honest with you.
I've had a relationship with my girlfriend I met online 3 years ago and it is strong because we always talk things out. Best of luck
2006-09-25 16:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kenny M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of second guessing his reactions, why don't you come out and ask him? You can't really fall for anyone over the internet until you have met that person face to face...So really, you can't say that you are falling for this guy when you haven't met him yet. Don't jump to conclusions here.
2006-09-25 16:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋