I am 27 years old but, I like this guy whom is only 20. He is very mature for his age and we seem to get along great. He enjoys spending time with my son. He is very polite and has a great sense of humor. Am I wrong to like him???
2006-09-25 09:16:21 · 18 answers · asked by legalbambino 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I prefer to think it is the person and how they make you feel that is important versus the age. I am dating a man that is 11 years older than I am and it has been wonderful. People are different and mature differently so if you are happy...don't worry about the age...you're still not old enough to be his mother, lol. If he is good to you and your son then that is all that matters.
2006-09-25 09:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad to like a younger guy than yours, however it would be suggested to be patient in choosing your partner and to know him for some time and then come to any conclusions. Sometimes its been seen that when the responsibilities come along people tend to change. And in your case as he is still in early 20's it would be very difficult for one to understand the complexities of a relationship.
All the Best!!!
2006-09-25 16:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Niek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were 24 and he was 17, I would say you should back off. But since he is over 18, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a 7 year age difference.
2006-09-25 16:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by EAmethyst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's an acceptable age gap. You're still the same generation. There's 10.5 years between my mum and dad, he was 27 and she 17 when they got married, which is stretching it a bit.
A girl I once knew, who was 18, started dating a 36 year old man -- now that's wrong. He's old enough to be her dad!
Keep it within your generation.
2006-09-25 16:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by Joker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are totally not wrong! I once dated a man who was 43 and I was 19. We were an excellent match and I loved him. Like they say age is just a number. Plus, its an ago boost to get someone over five years younger than you!
2006-09-25 16:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_2_little_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in his 20's so no you're not wrong. I think you should both be in the same place in your life and age doesn't matter after 19. If he's in college and still finding himself and your done with that, it might be a factor.
2006-09-25 16:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way is it wrong for you to like him. Age doesn't have to determine if someone is a good person and as long as you are both of legal age for doing naughty things, it's fine. Good luck to ya.
2006-09-25 16:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you feel that he is mature enough to handle the situation and you feel that he is in fact good with your son...Age shouldn't matter
2006-09-25 16:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by LES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does every one think that age means anything, If your happy and if hes happy, if he treats you right and hes a good man.. Well you get the point, forget age, it don't count in love sweety...Your friend from Tennessee....ROB
2006-09-25 16:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not long to like ihm are you married? then no you are not wrong he is 20 you are both adults and not comminting adutlry so you are okay do what you do baby age is nothing but a number ite remeber that showdy
2006-09-25 16:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by tip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋