Me and my boyfriend have been dating for four years now,we're nineteen. Evertime we have a problem his mom has something to say. Probably because he talks to her because she is the only parent that he has grown up with. All she tells him is that i'm trying to control him and not to get to serious b/c we're so young and high school couples that go on to get married never make it. My parents are high school sweet hearts they've been married twenty years but she and her husband divorced. On top of that she's a B****. For example months ago me and my boyfriend broke up and he started seeing someone but it didn't workout. His mom invites her to his going away party ( he went to basic training) and she knows that him and her don't get along also that we've had many heated arguements about her, but she didn't care her only answer was it's not all about you( meaning my boyfriend). Wasn't it his going away party, that's the question i had to ask myself.
2006-09-25 09:18:10 · 3 answers · asked by NA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend and I have been dating for four year and we are extremely happy together. I will be the first to admit that his mom and I do not always get along. He also went to basic trainig for the Marine Corps. My advice to you is to ask him to talk to you about his/your probalems before he goes to his mom, tell him you understand that he and his mom have a relationship, but tell him that you love him and you want things to work between the two of you and your not to sure if his mom wants the same. Do your best to be nice to his mom and try to get along with her, I know it's hard, but she's still his mom, just try to deal with that but make sure he knows that you want to be with him and you want to be the first person he comes to even though you understand that he also needs to talk to his mom about some things.
2006-09-25 09:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to like she is just protecting her son and trying to keep him from making any mistakes hooking up with someone at such a young age!
2006-09-25 09:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let her know how you feel and tell her it's none of her business it's your guys problem and you two need to work it out tell your boyfriend your sick of his mom sticking her nose where it just don't belong
2006-09-25 09:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by lilfrog_54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋