Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

My husband of 2 years wont go to counseling with me. He thinks she is going to tell him he needs help. Which he does i have not been happy for awhile we fight really bad there are holes in the walls and alot of broken things he says its better the wall then my face. I let stuff get this way for awhile and after him spitting in my face and always putting me down and watching the way are 2yr old daughter was reacting. i decided to do something so i confronted him he said he will change but will not go to a counseler. He says he has been really good for a week now but can i trust him to really change he wont admit that he has a problem. It has been really good for the week. What should i do? i am soooo confused.

2006-09-25 09:49:57 · 19 answers · asked by juels222 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If he hits you playfully (not too hard), stares at you, and gets close to you alot. Or would anyone do that? Oh, and also if he makes fun of you?

2006-09-25 09:49:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a girl might be expecting a long term relationship and the guy may not even care wether or not they stay together.

2006-09-25 09:49:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where does the term"********" come from? Where was it derived from? Why is a penis called a Dick? Would u call your child Dick?

2006-09-25 09:49:09 · 1 answers · asked by akady 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 09:48:00 · 1 answers · asked by ?~GotLove~? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

we are both young at heart would love to do something different any ideas please.

2006-09-25 09:46:38 · 14 answers · asked by rita g 4 in Family

Some of my friends are going to hookers to have fun.They are pusing me to go with them but i dont realy want to go.They are my friends and i really dont want to dsapoint them but in the other hand i dont want to go to the hookers.I thing that making love with money isnt wealthy.I cant imagine my shelf making love with a woman that first i dont know and second i dont love.What sould i do?
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2006-09-25 09:46:09 · 24 answers · asked by Tzatzikomouris 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy gave me a massage, put his chin on my head when i was sitting between his legs and he had his arms around me,gave me a piggy back ride gave me two hugs,tickled me,comforted me when i had a headache and defended me when this girl was yelling at us and he didnt act like this too any other girls that night... but i found out he went and visted this other girl yesterday...but she does have a boyfriend so they didnt do anything..do u think he likes me and the other girl is just a friend or does he like her and not me

2006-09-25 09:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2 in Singles & Dating

Going through a hard time and need some help with it, We're in an orphanage, I know that people say that there are no more orphanages but those people are wrong! anyway, You can e-mail or im me and i'll tell you what the problem is, and hopefully you'll listen! and i'll also ask the question if you e-mail or im me and if you do e-mail or im me, I may not respond till later cause i'm gonna be busy trying to do something! Thanks to all those who e-mail or im me, that means that someone acctually cares about me and/or my family! So i'd know that there are people who care!

2006-09-25 09:45:48 · 2 answers · asked by Ashura m 1 in Family

If you had a choice to have a career and rarely/never see your family/friends or go find a new career and be with/near your family which would you choose? I live on the other side of the united states and am think about moving closer to my family and friends. I am very close with them and I am only 20.

2006-09-25 09:45:43 · 6 answers · asked by Stacy 1 in Family

Why does my boyfriend prefer to masterbate to porn on the net then make love to me sometimes? Please help, I am having problems accepting it. He is totally infactuated with me and has been for a long time before we even started dating, but why the need to masterbate when I am more than willing to make love on a regular basis??

2006-09-25 09:45:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 09:44:19 · 20 answers · asked by Daniel B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Married for 3 years and the spark is most definately gone. We live together like roommates and our sex life is lukewarm at best. I've tried books, the internet, talking with him, and nothing works. I'm bored and so very tempted to just leave and find someone who I can have that firey romance with.

2006-09-25 09:44:00 · 10 answers · asked by brainy_blonde 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex called to tell me he was going to walk around his house naked, watch porn and drink scotch....I say invitation and cruel...how do I turn the tables.

2006-09-25 09:42:46 · 18 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, on september 12 me and my bf got intimate. and i am on birth contol..but i went out of town the day after and on that friday i skipped a pill and took it on saturday. Now on september 17 i was supposed to start my perod that week, but didnt..and i dont know what to do...cuz i know that if you take an at home test it could be inaccurate cuz it could be too early to take it.

what should i do??
am i pregnant?

2006-09-25 09:42:36 · 12 answers · asked by inked_06 2 in Singles & Dating

;How would you feel ,If your lover was giving the money you gave him or her to send on him or her self ? And he or she is spending; your money on another man, woman? And your working two job's to make ends meet ? And he or she is having sex with him or her in your bed . but when you come home everything is in place the ...

2006-09-25 09:40:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend's mom just died, yet she believes that I'm using that event to try and get her in bed? All I have told her is that I'm sorry for what she's going through, and that I wish I could help.

Things started to deteriorate with this girl several months ago, when one of my ex-buddies got jealous of my friendship with this girl, so he started making up sh*t about me and how I was just trying to b*ng her. I guess I just don't have that believability in my words, but I know that what he's saying isn't true.

Now she has told me that this ex-buddy was saying that I never cared for her and her family and that I just wanted some p*ssy. She's not open to my explanations or counterpoints anymore and has blocked all my numbers and emails.

I know where this guy lives, and where he works. And every day, I feel like going over there, asking him to have a chat with me, and then beating the sh*t out of him. Are my thoughts justified? And if they are, should I really do it?

2006-09-25 09:39:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

terrible "incapasitation"...why do People in general JUDGE YOU ON PUTTING A LOVED ONE IN A HOME...He became way to difficult to keep at home...(especially with the children)...REMEMBer the church allowed you out of the marriage...WHY THE JUDGEMENT????they have never walked in my friends shoes!!! come on!!

2006-09-25 09:39:17 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

they emigrated to south africa from germany. they were just the three brothers. william had a son william mackalvy werth, who married hester elizabeth van der walt. please help me find the family!!!!!!

2006-09-25 09:39:03 · 3 answers · asked by krappies 2 in Family

HOW CAN I FLIRT I'M A GIRL OKAY!!!! U GOT INTILL 2:00

2006-09-25 09:38:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 09:38:38 · 11 answers · asked by Daniel B 1 in Singles & Dating

He is doing drugs and drinking and he just doesnt listen..He plans on trading his car for a street bike to ride from california to texas where his mom is tomorrow without a motorcycle license and being 16 he cant stop for a motel because hes not old enough. His mom is a dummy a she said thats fine with her she is just happy he is coming home..Im too young to know what to do now he was thrown into mylife and he was a good kid but he started hanging out with the wrong people and now he is out of control..what should I do? I dont want him to kill himself on a bike but his mom says what goes and what doesnt he isnt my responsability anymore...but in order for him to get the bike i would have to put it in my name until he got to his moms!! what should I do? Let him take his car which is about to breakdown or trade for the bike...either way Im getting screwed....

2006-09-25 09:38:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 09:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by nigel p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had da worst day. One of my friends got knocked down by a car after school, just outside da school. She's got concussion and a broken leg but da bastard who was driving da car drove off without stopping. Plz cheer me up

2006-09-25 09:38:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

.....and not even know her medical background??(and condoms do not protect you against everything!)

2006-09-25 09:37:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 09:36:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend gave me a ring and a necklace today...he said he found the ring on the beach in road island (it's ruby and diamond) and he bought the necklace (it's hemp) we've been going out for 3 weeks and he always tries to make out whenever given the chance. do you think he wants sex? oh yeah, and i'm only 14!!!

2006-09-25 09:35:29 · 46 answers · asked by melody 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 09:35:29 · 9 answers · asked by stanyamada 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 09:35:21 · 1 answers · asked by thechase500 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is going to visit her parents and she says she will most likely run into an old BF while she's there. She said that it would be okay if I hooked up with a woman while she's gone as long as it's a one night stand. Is she telling me it's okay for us to have an open marriage because we have talked about that subject often?

2006-09-25 09:34:10 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce