terrible "incapasitation"...why do People in general JUDGE YOU ON PUTTING A LOVED ONE IN A HOME...He became way to difficult to keep at home...(especially with the children)...REMEMBer the church allowed you out of the marriage...WHY THE JUDGEMENT????they have never walked in my friends shoes!!! come on!!
2006-09-25 09:39:17 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a person should be where they can receive the best care that they need. usually by professionals. this is why i don't go to church! the tell you to be open-minded and righteous...but THEY aren't when it really comes down to it
2006-09-25 09:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will always have their opinions on things and most (not all) can't see past their own issues.
Just reassure your friend that you are there for him/her and that it really isn't anyone else's business. He/she had to make a decision based on what was best for everyone in the family, not just one person.
It is always sad and usually a hard decision to put a loved one in a home but sometimes it is the best thing you can do for that person. Sometimes his/her needs are more than you are capable of providing. Isn't it better he be where al his needs can be provided? It's not like family can't visit!
It's just the way it is sometimes. If people don't understand this then it is their problem, not yours, or your friends.
2006-09-25 09:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another church, too many hypocrites in this one.
2006-09-25 10:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what were your wedding vows do you remember?
its not just what other people think its what you promised to your loved one and who you made the vow in front of that counts.
2006-09-25 10:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by rick b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WORRY ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE AND WHAT THEY THINK.
QUITE STRESSING ON IT SO HARD, ITS NOT WORTH IT.
2006-09-25 09:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this looks alot like a question i read earlier-
what is the question? why people judge?
THEY ARE IGNORANT!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-25 09:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋