Family & Relationships - 22 September 2006

You can have a sensitive guy with average looks, but a huge heart. He is creative and romantic and is gentle with you.

But, he can be self conscious. His sensitivity sometimes leads to moodiness. Shows signs of jealousy.

OR

You can have the super hot guy that should be a model with is body. He is flirtatious and smooth, and can def. show you more than a good time.

But, you are not the only one he flirts with. It seems that he could care less if you stayed or left. Somewhat of a narcissist

2006-09-22 17:18:56 · 27 answers · asked by marcus K 3 in Singles & Dating

I stay in shape, and we talked about this when we started out together, but she has put on about 10 pounds over the past 3 months. I like her a lot, but she knows I prefer her to be more on the slender side. So what should I do? I am thinking about cooling it with her but I feel like Shallow Hal.

2006-09-22 17:18:14 · 30 answers · asked by Heckel 3 in Singles & Dating

She lied to us (her father and I) about reading. She said she was reading the words in her head (twice in one week!). I am a first grade teacher and I am well aware that children her age are not able to read in their heads. Her father and I are upset that she did this. Our daughter Kayla is a very smart child, she has always been 110% honest with us. She is an only child and gets plenty of attention and love. We are at a lost for what type of punishment to use for this situation. Please advice!!!

Thanks!

2006-09-22 17:17:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a girl tells you that shes interested in someone else does it imply a meaning different from what she is saying?

2006-09-22 17:17:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I'm feeling depressed and I have reasons why, but the thing about it is that I usually have a good outlook on life and never feel like being depressed. Just looking for something to help me feel better. Anyways-depressed because Mom had affair and is getting a divorce from stepdad. I had the upmost respect for my mother but she's still seeing this guy and he's even married. It's pathetic and everytime she goes out it goes from being out 1 hour to 2 and a half so obviously she's still lying about where she's going. I'm just really mad at her and she's even lashed out at her mother for telling me something that my mother did. I have no respect for her anymore and why should I? The whole divorce is all on her, and stepdad is a good guy overall, but when she started weight loss it all went downhill as she started to see herself as something new and flashy. Either way, anyone have any advice from situation like this or just something to keep me happy aside from my real dad and stepdad?

2006-09-22 17:16:50 · 19 answers · asked by Carnie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, about a week ago, my x-Bf broke uo with me, and then one of my best friends asked him out and he said yes. BUT i got an e-mail from him asking if i still liked him, an i said yes. I need 2 know how 2 break them up!!!

2006-09-22 17:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by NiChkoLe 2 in Singles & Dating

cause if it this, then its a wonderful world.
one can only hope, no?

2006-09-22 17:15:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 17:13:56 · 14 answers · asked by Julian K 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 17:13:02 · 18 answers · asked by Big E 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-22 17:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by coco_thunder! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 17:11:36 · 18 answers · asked by im just me.. 3 in Singles & Dating

This one lady i dated for a while would bring her legs and feet very close together when i did Doggy . Damm it felt good that way . Very Very tight .

2006-09-22 17:10:56 · 4 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

I have no social life aready, at school i only have like 3 friends and there not even that close. I went to a new school for highschool because i thought i could start over and make new friends but i just couldnt, im close to a loner again. This is my first year of highschool and there's still 4 years till this pain is over, i cant stand it!!!! then my life britened up because of my online buddy, i met a long time ago... i really liked him, and i thought he kinda felt the same. I know virtualy dating is kind of stupid but i cant help it that im a loner right. today i realized he didnt care one bit for me, he thought of me as someone he didnt know, didnt care, and never liked. When we chatted before he made it sound like he felt the same, we had so much in common, but no. he never liked me, he never realized i existed, while i looked into him and i thought he was the most important person to me. it hurt, i cant seem to find anway to live anymore, i have no love and no friends. it hurts.

2006-09-22 17:10:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do gestures and eye contact play in crushes?

2006-09-22 17:09:40 · 3 answers · asked by SwoonWorthy 6 in Singles & Dating

it's about my friend.he's been loving me but i don't love him at all.i think to be friends only is enough.but he proposed me 4 many times,and i refused him.but he said he wouldn't give up and he would catch me and kiss me.i'm really mad at it but i can't think of wat to say to him to let him give up doing this.and bcuz of this,my classmates r always talking about something about we 2.i hate it indeed.but still can't ignore it...now i'm really mad at him..so wat should i do to stop this silly and ungodly stuff???anyway,i wanna leave it without hurting him.

2006-09-22 17:09:09 · 10 answers · asked by Chaotic~Fiona 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-22 17:08:26 · 9 answers · asked by shanna* 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, if you look at my previous questions you will know that I am married and things haven't been going well at all. Anyways, I met a guy when I was 12 years old and just totally fell in love with him. Everything about him made me go crazy. We are both 20 years old now and have moved on with our lives. I'm married, but not very happily, and last I heard he was engaged.

I still dream of him. I still think of him all the time, even after four years of not seeing him. I do see him around town, but don't say anything, and usually after this happens I end up crying and thinking of him for weeks after. We never dated because I was fat and he didn't like fat girls.

I guess my question is...Should I let him know how I feel? Should I just let it out so it isn't always on my mind anymore? What do you think?

2006-09-22 17:08:13 · 21 answers · asked by Carrie! 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I had an argument over the correct terminology and I need some help to prove him wrong. His opinion is that the term "Giving Head" only applies when an actual head to head contact is made. Therefore it would be incorrect for a man going down on a woman to be called head. (e.g. the term head-butt -- involves head to head contact.) However, I completely disagree.

2006-09-22 17:07:05 · 17 answers · asked by donnamagreevy 1 in Singles & Dating

"Eighty-four i guess What u think - because at that age, you don't have to work anymore, and you can spend all your time loving each other in your bedroom." ..................... lol

2006-09-22 17:06:57 · 26 answers · asked by chdman 3 in Friends

2006-09-22 17:06:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need Help. See I have been with my girlfriend for going on 6 years now. But here lately we have been getting in to fights and arguements. Not only that we have not had sex in i dont know how long. I need help. See I love women, but i do like guys to. But since we havent have sex in a long time I am also starting to think that I am totally gay please some one help me. I dont know what else to do.

2006-09-22 17:05:53 · 12 answers · asked by iamdrewbert01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I gave my bf rules for our relationship, it was only 1 tho, and its that I come first before anyone

2006-09-22 17:05:43 · 14 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Singles & Dating

I wouldn't bother asking a bunch of strangers if I wasn't in deep **** or really desperate. I'm 15 and iv had this friend (16). Where really tight so anyone who tells me to give up on him is wasting there time. His mom died of cancer when he was 9 and his dad got into alcohol. Anyone with common sense could tell something was ****** up in that house. Than the marks got worse and he was getting beat everyday with something. Last night we had a party at his house and things got broke like at all parties. I didn't know he was going to be in the emergency room. His dad said he fell down the stairs it didn't make any sense cause corey had marks from a metal pole and a belt, falling down the stairs doesn't do that to you. The hospital looked past it because his dad was the one that called the ambulance. When it happened he was helpless cause he was drunk. So when he was in the emergency room I asked him about his dad. I told him that he’s got to call DYFS of something. That didn't make him happy because he had big plans and that would **** it up for him. We started screaming and yelling, nothing new. Than i said, “corey your just like your ******* father” and he pushed me aganst the wall than he realizd what he was doin. That was the only time that's ever happened. The problem is he's becomin his dad, drunk and abusive he's so much more than that. He's got goals. He was the one that freaked about it, got in his car, and drove to the middle of nowhere. They found him passed out drunk laughing sayin how he was never going to drink again. I have a lot of questions but now that he's at home again with his dad i gota no what the hell do i do to help him? If this is abuse what will happen to him if his dad’s arrested? Why was he so upset after he hit me and why did he touch me like that? Sorry it was so long this is the summary...

2006-09-22 17:05:29 · 6 answers · asked by Kara T 1 in Family

2006-09-22 17:04:41 · 8 answers · asked by Chucky 1 in Singles & Dating

I have done 7 adult videos in the past 3 months. Whats the likelihood my family will find out?

2006-09-22 17:04:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause if it, then i should just give up now and become a priest or just kill myself. cause i aint got no dough, and im a loser virgin,
will i ever get a woman? will i?

2006-09-22 17:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wouldn't bother asking a bunch of strangers if I wasn't in deep **** or really desperate. I'm 15 and iv had this friend (16). Where really tight so anyone who tells me to give up on him is wasting there time. His mom died of cancer when he was 9 and his dad got into alcohol. Anyone with common sense could tell something was ****** up in that house. Than the marks got worse and he was getting beat everyday with something. Last night we had a party at his house and things got broke like at all parties. I didn't know he was going to be in the emergency room. His dad said he fell down the stairs it didn't make any sense cause corey had marks from a metal pole and a belt, falling down the stairs doesn't do that to you. The hospital looked past it because his dad was the one that called the ambulance. When it happened he was helpless cause he was drunk. So when he was in the emergency room I asked him about his dad. I told him that he’s got to call DYFS of something. That didn't make him happy because he had big plans and that would **** it up for him. We started screaming and yelling, nothing new. Than i said, “corey your just like your ******* father” and he pushed me aganst the wall than he realizd what he was doin. That was the only time that's ever happened. The problem is he's becomin his dad, drunk and abusive he's so much more than that. He's got goals. He was the one that freaked about it, got in his car, and drove to the middle of nowhere. They found him passed out drunk laughing sayin how he was never going to drink again. I have a lot of questions but now that he's at home again with his dad i gota no what the hell do i do to help him? If this is abuse what will happen to him if his dad’s arrested? Why was he so upset after he hit me and why did he touch me like that? Sorry it was so long this is the summary...

2006-09-22 17:04:07 · 4 answers · asked by Kara T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes, I'm about to talk about a boy like all the other many girls on here are, but please don't get bored and try to stay with me. Though, probably everyone who's rebellious has already exited out of here but oh well. Anyway, I've been friends with a guy for almost four years, long story short, I told him my feelings for him last year and he stated verbatim "I think I just want to be friends," and I could accept that, but now lately I'm getting that feeling like he likes me again, plus my mom says that she's convinced that he is in the beginnings of puberty, his voice has been cracking recently,so I asked him last year realizing that he hadn't even reached puberty. This year we agreed on going to homecoming together if no one asks us, and no one ever does so its basically official. He's said, " I know your address, maybe i'll send you a secret admirer letter," and I've asked him about girls he may want to ask to the dance and weirdly he'll say, " Initials are C.W.", my initials.

2006-09-22 17:01:28 · 10 answers · asked by caitymercede 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay so this is kind of complicated and I was really hoping that you guys could help me! There is this boy at school that I have had a crush on for the longest time! He is really cute, smart, funny, and extremely nice! About two years ago (6th grade) we started to become really good friends we would hang out all the time at lunch and e-mail all the time. I had liked him for a while before that but nobody new or so I thought. Last year (7th grade) a girl that I go to school with told him that I liked him I was really upset but what really stunned me is how she found out! After that I talked to my mom and she told me to play it low key aka if he talked to me talk back but don’t just go up and talk to him all the time like I did before because it might scare him away. So I did just that and he just stopped talking to me completely!!! I felt so rejected L (that was more toward the beginning of the year than towards the end) so the whole year it was really awkward between us and at the end of the year there was a big school dance and we rented out this really nice restaurant and there was dinner and of course dancing. Now normally I would have asked him to dance just because he is a friend but I got really nervous and chickened out!!! on the way home when I was talking to my dad about it he gave me this huge lecture on how if I really want something to happen I have to go after it and not just wait for it to come to me because it most likely won’t. I know he is right but I just don’t know how to approach him. So anyway over the summer he started e-mailing me again, I was so-so happy we would talk for about an hour every day. So I figured that when school started we would be friends again but I was so wrong he won’t talk to me at school! The most I can get out of him is a hi. I really wish that we could be friends (since neither if us can grp. Date until we are 16 and single date until we are 18) and hang out again but I have now idea how to make that happen without scaring him off again. He is a very very shy guy and I am really shy too. So I think that that might be a big factor! Thank you so-so much for reading this I know it was really long but you have no idea how much I appreciate your help!!!!

2006-09-22 17:01:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I just recently moved here to this state from... another state. In my old state, I had a LOT of friends, because I used to be loud, funny, and yes, i'll admit, sometimes obnoxious. Plus, I was nice. But here, in this new state, everyone thinks I'm "creepy" or weird or something because I'm very quiet. Everyone here is sort of mean... well... they're into that whole, "OMG WE'RE PREPS, NO GOTHS!" thing... (I'm not gothic)... Any tips for coming out of my shell? Oh, p.s.- I'm a teenager, and I'm very self conscious- I think that I'm ugly, talk funny, etc. etc. Plus, I'm a freshman. What am I supposed to do to raise my self-esteem?

2006-09-22 17:00:38 · 8 answers · asked by Me 2 in Friends