still love her, more than anyone else i ever dated. she dumped me 5 yrs ago, and i told her she will have to come see me if she wants to reconnect. we remain friendly and i used to visit even after we broke up, as i am close to her and her mother. stopped visiting her last year since i needed to concentrate on my own love life.
she called and said she loves me, first time ever, and wants to date and maybe marry, have kids. she has yet to come see me and i refuse to visit her, on principle. figure if she really loves me she will start showing me what i always showed her- love, kindness, attention and affection. still waiting, but not holding my breath.
i still love her but do not want to be married to someone who i fear cannot show love and affection, starting with a simple visit.
what should i do, i have already decided but just want to hear your honest opinon.
plz= honest answers only.
2006-09-22
16:52:22
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Marriage & Divorce