ok... i can't decide on whether i should dump my gf or not, i tried calling her tonight twice and she hasn't answered. i tell her i love her everytime i talk to her and she never says it back... everytime i try to kiss her she avoids it what should i do? she dumped her bf to be with me, and she bought homecoming tickets, i don't wanna hurt her and the other girl i've fallen for is already taken by one of my friends and she's showing signs of leavin him for me. WHAT DO I DO?!?? :(...........
2006-09-22 16:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by wheresteddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your gf is avoiding you...like it seems..consider it over...cut her loose and move on buddy
2006-09-22 16:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself if you are all over her. if you are then it could be as simple as that, she needs her space. and if you are all over her, do you do it annoyingly in public? this can get very old quickly to both guy and gal. But if you are acting ok, then dump the bit*h. she doesnt say i love you because of the simple fact that she doesnt love you... she dumped her boyfriend to be with another guy(you)! what kind of person does that tell you she is. maybe she gets bored easily and moves onto new guys.... as for not wanting to hurt her, it looks like she doesnt mind hurting you. if a guy turned his cheek while i tried to kiss him, and didnt even give me a response to "i love you", i would be very offended. i have got pride and i am wearing it.
2006-09-22 17:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. How long have you been w/her. If you haven't been w/her a long time and have only been dating her for a short period, you can't expect her to say I LOVE YOU if she doesn't feel it yet. You can't force someone to feel the same way. Maybe she isn't the one for you and is trying to blow you off in a "nice" way. You need to talk to her and see where things stand. Either she's into you or she's not. You just need to ask her!
2006-09-22 16:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by spankedelic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend doesn't sound interested in you.
As far as your friend's girlfriend leaving him for you, are you ready to lose him as a friend over a girl that you're probably not going to be with very long? By the end of the school year you will probably have had lots of girls come & go.
2006-09-22 16:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st off dont fall for girls who are already taken thats not kool
2nd if she avoids kissing you and talking to you then yes dump her
3rd if she is doing all described in #2 then trust me you wont her her feelings
Good Luck
2006-09-22 16:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes, you need serious help - no offense. Never ever tell a girl that you love her and never ask her if she loves you: let her tell you that she loves you first. You are too needy (go rent the movie "Hitch"). Yikes!!!!!!!!!!!! Stop calling her. Don't call her again until she calls you and when she asks why you didn't call her, just politely state that you were busy.
2006-09-22 16:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, she is proubly avoiding you for a reason, do what you want just be happy...life is to short to not be happy. good luck...
2006-09-22 17:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A LIFE
2006-09-22 17:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by dmonaaaaaaay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isi'nt into you. Forget her.
2006-09-22 16:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋