why are asian women always going for the white guys?

Question

why do they hate their own race so much?
what are they ashamed of? and when they defend themselves they come up with crap like its got nothing to do with race, but the person they love. my a ss! yeah right!
its got everything to do with freaking race! their gawdamned ashamed of their own asianess so, they shack up with some white dude hoping to become whitey!
well i got news for u honey. you'll always be asian. ALWAYS!
u cant hide it!

Answer 1

Dude, it's the media that tells them this is cool. Look at all the pictures in magazines of Asian women on white men. It's the same thing with white girls and black men. It's something that seems to sell I guess. I don't know what to tell you other than to look past it and focus on those Asian women who know better and can think for themselves. That they understand that any relationship that they want to last will most likely be based two people that share the same level of education and social background. Everything else is shallow and mostly about sex and therefore, doomed to fail.

Answer 2

No, not necessarily. They may want a man that has a higher status. Maybe he makes more money than you. I agree some of it may have to do with father issues. I know a lot of white men that see asian women as more docile and subservient than white women are. Maybe they don't think that he has issues that you may have. I know some white women like asian men because they associate them with wealth, family values, and very little body hair. They usually come from broken homes with absent fathers and they see very few asians that are divorced or poor. I'm sure they know they will always be asian, like I will always be asian, and both my sisters married asians. Maybe you just need to find the right girl. If you live in an large city without a large asian community you probably won't find a nice asian girl...Besides, instead of being upset about it, why don't you make it work for you? I mean, you could marry a white woman just as easily as an asian women can marry a white man. Asian or not, no woman is going to go for you when you have the issues you do.

Answer 3

Hi,

Hmmmm -- I was going to *try* to stay away from this question -- but my conscience lost . I don't warrant that you'll like my answer -- but here it is:

Asian women -- particularly those who are first or second generation Asian-American have lots of issues here. You see -- it has nothing to do with being ashamed of their race or shacking (sic) "with some dude hoping to become whitey." In fact that statement reeks of prejudice. Asian people have no desire to become "white"'; but my experience with many many Asians has been positive and wonderful. These are hard-working, intelligent people; and quite frankly my friend; I don't think too many Asian women would find your opinion here too charming or enlightened. Here are the facts as I believe them: (1)Asian society in many places is very male-oriented; and affords few Asian women the opportunities that we United States folks take for granted..In many areas -- Asian women are persecuted and strongly held to a very low level of esteem by an ancient culture. There are many areas in Asia that are JUST as developed as we are; for example, Thailand, parts of Taiwan, the Phillipines, and Viet Nam..If you are thinking of Asia as a big rice patty -- take an educational trip to Thailand, or China, or Japan. Right now Japan is going through a struggle between the "old gaurd" and the "new guard". But the prevailing cultural norms do not afford women the opportunity we (well some of us) do in the West.....Ditto in Chine. What do you think the Tienermann (sp?) Square. massacre was all about???

I have been to China, Thailand, Japan and Malasya -- and I can tell you that Asian people are some of the most wonderful human beings in the world. Please do not dishonor yourself; and re-think your attitude -- I think you will find that Asian people are honest, educated, caring and charming.....And the people I have the pleasure of knowing do not show prejudice towards us; nor do they fit into the mold you described honestly.

And -- one more thing: Asian women are very very very sexy -- and one part of their culture often fits a Western man's fantasy quite well: Most Asian women I believe are very loyal and honest in relationships -- so you don't have to worry about cheating and all the stuff people here do so often.

I'd really sincerely urge you to re-think your take on this topic....Could it be that you have had no success with Asian women? Or are you afraid to try a cross-cultural relationship.....These are all valid reasons for feeling and asking the question you did. However I believe believe if you think about your feelings and reach deeply into your good heart; perhaps discuss this with others who carry no baggage -- you will be more comfortable.

In closingyour situation here reminds me of a true, real-life story I'm going to share with you: The brother of one of my best friend's had no use for Black people (we called it prejudice but he would not hear us....) Paradoxically many of his words were similar to the words you wrote your question in. But something happened: Four years ago while playing golf he had a pretty severe heart attack; not something expected for a 42-year old man in excellent physical condition.....The paramedics arrived and saved his life. His two paramedics were African American (black). He lived; and made a wonderful comeback -- partially due to the support and pushing he received from his cardiologist. She was a Asian American woman......................

Please think about it!!!
Nuff said!!!!!

Answer 4

i in my view in user-friendly terms found that stereotype on Y/A. In actual existence, you notice no longer something that resemble such stereotypes. Me working example, i've got constantly stumbled on darkish skinned men acceptable- which as a rule are Asian or Black men.

Answer 5

Get over it. I know a white girl who is getting married to an asian guy do I care No. Do you know how many white guys say the same thing about white girls who always go for black guys, Who cares.

Answer 6

You got issues, you should try to get those taken care of soon! I am not Asian but I will say it don't have anything to do with race. You can't help who you love your not suppose to! Btw if you are Asian that could be part of it too, your attitude is what drives women away from you!

Answer 7

ok ima keep it real with u....its cuz most asian women raise their daughters with the intent that they want them to get married to a handsome rich man....and for some reason some asian mothers think that it more prosperous to marry a white man because of his society value. the mothers feel that its a better life because they feel that their daughters (once they get married to a white man) wont be seen as a second hand citizen.....so blame most of the mothers for implanting that into their daughters heads.....i hope i answered that for u;)

Answer 8

Are you on an anti white kick tonight? You seem to be asking a lot of anti-white questions.

Don't you get it? in about 500 yrs with the kind of tech in traval from one place to another everyone will be blended and there will be no race to complain about. And complainers such as yourself will be a past problem.

Answer 9

We live in a white majority society dude...In places like China I'll bet the native white girls go for Asian guys too.

Answer 10

this is not true!!
I lived with an Asian girl who practically adored Asians and Asian culture.
I believe the Asians who go outside of their race are probably Americanized or just not interested in Asian culture enough.