2006-09-22 16:53:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it doesnt matter how many years u've been together. what matters is that the feelings u have for each other. if both of u r physically, mentally, emotionally, financially ready to get married, go ahead! DONT GET MARRIED FOR ANY OTHER REASON EXCEPT LOVE... Good luck!
2006-09-22 17:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by ok 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think two years with someone is short. If you feel it's the right person go ahead and get marry. My advice to you is if your not living with him. Try this first before you get married. I hate to see you get marry and than a year later getting a divorce this is very common now and days. I been with my husband 14 yrs and married for 6yrs. I lived with him for 8 yrs before I made that decision it's not easy and there were plenty of times when I say I should have not gotten married. Just because a relationship has it's up and it's down and it's not easy dealing with men in general.
2006-09-22 23:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by uglyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would advise that you do not get married. I was with the same girl for 8 years and 2 of the years we lived together. Those two years of living together were the worse two years of my life. Live together for a few years and see if you want to be together for ever. I bet you dont.
2006-09-22 23:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that you should be asking yourself. And if you have second thoughts, then no, you shouldn't be getting married.
If your relationship is going great, you both have good careers and are stable, then ya, I would talk to him about it and see what he thinks.
Marriage should not be introduced because of the amount of time you have been together. I knew a couple that were together 5 years and they didn't get married because it just wasn't right and they finally came to terms that they weren't meant for each other.
2006-09-22 23:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Candice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to sound mean, but that fact that you are asking the question should you get married does not sound like you are ready to be married. just because you have been together for X amount of time does not make you ready for marriage. the questions is do you love each other unconditionally? will you two still be together when there is nothing? ultimately how does he feel about marriage.
2006-09-23 00:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see how he feels. There's no point in thinking about marriage if he hasn't even thought about it. Make sure he is on the same page as you and don't force him into doing anything w/you. I just got engaged after 3 1/2 years and haven't even planned anything. I don't even want to think about my wedding while I'm in school (college) Just talk to him and see where you stand.
2006-09-22 23:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by spankedelic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one on here even knows you two well enough to answer that. That's up to you guys. It's not a rule that after you've been with someone that long that you have to get married. Totally up to you two.
2006-09-22 23:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by Amber I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you would need to ask that question if you really wanted to get married.
2006-09-22 23:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you get along good..very open & communicate well with each other. Lots of things to think & talk about before taking that big step.
Good Luck!
2006-09-22 23:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by barbi316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLLLLLLLLLY are just crazy about each-other! WILDLY in love!! Can't stand to be out of his sight!! Just LIVE to see him everyday.. YES!! other Wise just do as you are... or move on
2006-09-22 23:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋