it's about my friend.he's been loving me but i don't love him at all.i think to be friends only is enough.but he proposed me 4 many times,and i refused him.but he said he wouldn't give up and he would catch me and kiss me.i'm really mad at it but i can't think of wat to say to him to let him give up doing this.and bcuz of this,my classmates r always talking about something about we 2.i hate it indeed.but still can't ignore it...now i'm really mad at him..so wat should i do to stop this silly and ungodly stuff???anyway,i wanna leave it without hurting him.
2006-09-22 17:09:09 · 10 answers · asked by Chaotic~Fiona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are not that mad. Or you would of left him after the first proposal. Sounds like your leading him on. Thats 4times. Tell him you don't even want to be friends no more. If he knows you don't want to hurt him, he will think you still like him. Tell him and make it short. Be straight up and tell the truth. The longer you leave it, the longer this silly stuff will go on.
Good luck and take care.
2006-09-22 17:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I have to be Blunt with you. He does not respect you at all. If he really loved you he would accept your answer as no and wait until you are ready to take it to the next level.If he still doesn't want to listen to you then leave him. But with a guy like that you need to watch out b/c cause my best friend was in the situation and she ended up getting raped. Please watch out and Take care of your self.
2006-09-23 00:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by iamdrewbert01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nicely tell him that you only like he has a friend and somewhere there is a girl for him, and your not it. And if it gets where he is like following you everywhere tell him firmly that this nonsence needs to stop or else you won't talk to him, not even as frends. Hope I've helped. Good luck
2006-09-23 00:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by volleyballis4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit this boy strait. Tell him how you feel nicely, if he doesn't take you serious you're gonna have to get mean. He's probably gonna be hurt anyway, nice or not, if he really likes you but that's all part of life. and if he really loves you he'll get over it and be your friend.
2006-09-23 00:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by angie1977c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesn' t stop; you'll post a big sign in the class!
2006-09-23 00:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see yiran if u don love him tell him frankly,dat we are just friends n i love someone else,n if he wants to kiss u den dat is not love,dat is just passion,so better u stay away from dat guy.bcoz true love gives never demands...............(anand d blacky)
2006-09-23 00:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by cookku_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off all contact with him.
2006-09-23 00:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by tengteng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to hurt him! say you wont be his friend! he is a big fat jerk! do wat i say everthing will go right. or you can just kick and hit him! or just let him kiss you!
2006-09-23 00:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a boyfriend so he see's ur not interested, it will hurt thou,....alot.
2006-09-23 00:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by mr.ken_kennedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly how you feel and if that doesn't work-walk
2006-09-23 00:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by lorylyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋