I need Help. See I have been with my girlfriend for going on 6 years now. But here lately we have been getting in to fights and arguements. Not only that we have not had sex in i dont know how long. I need help. See I love women, but i do like guys to. But since we havent have sex in a long time I am also starting to think that I am totally gay please some one help me. I dont know what else to do.
2006-09-22 17:05:53 · 12 answers · asked by iamdrewbert01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know what being gay means and what Bi Sexual means. I am already Bi i know that I aam Because I am Attracted to Dudes. But My sex life with her has just gone down the shitter. I am just wondering if I am totally gay.
2006-09-22 17:16:30 · update #1
Whoa slow down there skipper dont jump the gun. You might be having some problem with your GF and that can effect how much you have sex with women in general when im fighting with my woman sex is the last thing on my mind. Also about the likeing of guys theres a time when everyone is curious or wonders thats up to you just be steadfast and strong i promise it will work out.
2006-09-22 17:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your sex life with your 6 year gf has gone down hill doesn't mean that you are 'totally' gay. It just means that you two need to spice things up. If she knows that you are Bi then maybe try some new things on that spin.
2006-09-23 00:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by freaking_airhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do YOU think you are gay? You love women,but like guys. Love and like are big differences.Maybe you and your girl just aren't working out right now, maybe you just need some time off. Just because you haven't had sex in a long time doesn't mean that you are transforming into a gay! Just really think which one you prefer-women or men.
2006-09-23 00:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by Smartees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...for starters...just cuz you havent had sex in a LONG time, doesnt not mean you are gay. it could just be beacuse of the fights that you guys are going through...you should try and work things out so that you are not fighting as much and then hopefully the sex life will pick up again...just hope for the best, and if you do turn out to be gay, well who cares! nothing is wrong with it...its just another type of lifestyle...good luck hope everything works out for you
2006-09-23 00:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its not that your gay or something it's just that you're having problems with your girlfriend. maybe you should try having sex whith her. but if you really can't and you feel like you like men more strongly then go for it. but just don't push those guys
there's no problem in being a gay, gays are really acceptable today just don't wear girls clothes cause you'll get judged
2006-09-23 00:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to have a few small crushes on guys, it doesn't mean that you're gay, but if you're having strong feelings for guys, then maybe you should think about the possibility of yourself being gay. (although you don't sound like it...)
2006-09-23 00:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like guys in a sexual way. Your gay. If you like girls in a sexual way too. You are bi-sexual.
Take care.
2006-09-23 00:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just bored with your girlfriend. find a new fling. maybe try being with a man and convince your self of your sexuality. dont just hang around and expect the answers to come to you. see other people. you are only as bored of her as she is of you.
2006-09-23 00:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lourdes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try a guy out and see if you like it - either way it's not right to stay with your girl just b/c you've been together so long - if there's nothing there, move on.
2006-09-23 00:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are, and your girlfriend knows that you are.. thats why he's a He.. so stop calling her names, and just call it STEVE, EDGAR, KARL, NACHO..or what ever fits ok?
2006-09-23 00:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by vyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋