Family & Relationships - 20 September 2006

ok i really want a myspace cuz all my friends always talk about how cool they are....but i heard about all those girls who got hurt or kidnapped or worse cuz of them. i cant decide if i should get one. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-20 11:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by kara ♥ 1 in Friends

2006-09-20 11:17:27 · 24 answers · asked by caron d 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 11:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by LiL MaMa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Even though my exboyfriend ended our relationship he would still say hi to me on msn. That has stopped now, but a few days ago he said hi to me after not talking to me for more than 4 months. I was helping my sis pack for Western university and I logged on msn and put "packing for Western" and he said hi to me right away. I was surprised cuz we haven't talked in like forever. Neways after the casual stuff he asked me if I was changing schools and going to Western but I said no and told him it was my sis. After that he didn't say anything so I asked him why he contacted me and he said that it was "cuz he hadn't seen me in awhile". I can't believe him, he dumped me like months ago and now when he thinks I'm going to another university he says hi. What's up with that? How can he have the nerve to still ask me what is going on in my life, and why does he even care?

2006-09-20 11:16:48 · 23 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 11:15:21 · 7 answers · asked by lindsey f 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is 50, I am 25 and married with no children.

My wife and I own a house that we are happy with and its big enough for the two children we hope to have one day.

We are planning to try for our first baby soon and my mother has decided it would be a good idea to live together!

She has suggested several times that we sell our house and buy another one with a guest house or granny flat so she can live with us.

She said she could be our nanny for our future children!!

My mother is overbearing and needy because I am the only child and she hasn't been in a relationship for 10 years. She almost wants me to take care of her like a husband should.

There's no way this is going to happen! How do I get her to understand I am not going to have two wives?!

My wife said she wants to be a wife and mother without my mother trying to take over our household.

Am I horrible for not wanting to live with her?

Are you married and live with your parents or in-laws?

2006-09-20 11:14:43 · 8 answers · asked by HappyHippo 1 in Family

My bf dumped me cz he thought I was cheatin on him. his concept is that any guy I talk to after 12 midnite must be sleeping with me.With so less gals around, i get only guys to talk to and there is a guy who i would never even dream myself of getting hookd wth let alone whatever that follows but whom i like to chat with about intresting topics like business, politics who has free time only after 12. i go out in his car for a night ride but even though he is intrested in me, i nevr let him go further than saying what he likes about me. i hav always warnd the guy that i m NOT ROMANTCALLY interested in him and if he ever feels so, please not to contact me.i used to tell my bf abt ths guy and he warnd me to stay away frm the frnd.i had done so but sometimes, i went out wthout tellin my bf though i always kept the frnd alwys as a FRIEND and nothng else.my frnd knows how honest i m but few days ago my bf found out n stopped speaking wth me.i m pissed wth his mistrust in me but m sorry 4hidin

2006-09-20 11:14:24 · 21 answers · asked by Germane L 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a quiet kinda guy and we've been emailing each other back and forth for a couple of days. Day and Night.. We always keep our conversations to a friendly level, but how do I change that???

2006-09-20 11:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by Rodriguez #57 2 in Singles & Dating

Just about anything that does not involve girls please....anything fun?

2006-09-20 11:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by chillwillnumba1 2 in Weddings

2006-09-20 11:14:08 · 23 answers · asked by dinetria d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would like to know if we could annoy him back without getting in trouble.

2006-09-20 11:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hes 5 feet tall and weighs 95 lbs...what is so attractive about that?

http://static.flickr.com/84/247982637_7ee881faa8_o.jpg

2006-09-20 11:12:29 · 14 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

may I hear one!??

2006-09-20 11:12:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked him to the dance and he said he'll think about it. That was two weeks ago and the dance is Friday night. He hasn't said anything. Usually my friend would ask him, "Have you thought about it?" And would get the same old answer."I don't know". She didn't ask him today, but I'm worried if I ask him too many times I'll scare him away! Should I wait for him to tell me? Because he hasn't said anything to me unless I was the one who started the conversation. Or should I keep on asking 'till he comes up with an answer?

2006-09-20 11:10:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here goes:


I’m 15, this girl is 13: ITS only 2 years

A few months ago, me and this girl were really close, we would talk and flirt all the time, and this went on for a while, well eventually people started talking about us, being so close, and wondered if we were dating. She started backing off big time, and seemed like something was bothering her. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said idk maybe. I took it as a nice way of saying no. Well she told her friends she just doesn’t know, because I’ve liked many different girls b4, and she just want to see if I could stick with her for a while. Well months passed, and we got further and further away. I wondered why? Well she and her mom are REALLY close, so I asked her mom. Her mom said she was just really scared, because we have been friends since age 7. Well then she told her friends she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. It got to the point were I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I emailed her this about a month ago


can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

This is what she replied

hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later.





This is what I replied



hey!!. thanks for being honest with me. I really value our friendship too, and if you don’t feel comfortable, because of ruining the friendship if something were to happen, that is cool with me.




Now to me, that sounds like two things (1) she doesn’t want to ruin a friendship, cuz we’ve been friends since age 7 or (2) shes just letting me down easy. But now she is flirting with this other guy, like she used to do with me. But she seems more comfortable around me than she did before. But when she sees that I am not going out of my way to see her, she seems to talk to me more, and flirt a little more, almost like she don’t have me anymore. And sometimes, Ill catch her looking at me, and when I look she’ll look away. And then sometimes, her body language, she just seems sad, like she wants to tell me something, or likes me or IDK what, its just she seems different since we talked about it. But I mean b4 she really seemed to like me, and IDK why she just would have stopped. , I mean I’ve like many girls, just none like this, When I wake up sheds the first think I think about, and the last think when I go to sleep. I just cant let her go.
My question is do you think she was letting me down easy, or is just scared, and what should I do about it? And please don’t tell me I’m too young

2006-09-20 11:10:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 11:10:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Has no relationship with the child but he pays child support monthly. Has not seen the child in a very long time. The child would like to see him, but he has no interrest. I have been to court twice and spent $$$$ and been in and out of mediation. Not working. I think the best thing would be termination, but how?

2006-09-20 11:10:28 · 22 answers · asked by FarmersDghter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 11:10:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I lost my fiancee in a car wreck quite some time ago, not holding a candle or anything, but if it was me, I thought it would be nice to be remembered. Today is his birthday. Johnny was taken too soon at the age of 22. He would have been 37 today. He loved his family and friends, and could dance like no guy I've met since. Thanks for reading.

2006-09-20 11:10:22 · 14 answers · asked by M M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 11:09:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is still a minor,everyone says that he is old enough to get custody of her.She is in Louisiana,Could someone tell me how I could he could find her

2006-09-20 11:08:25 · 7 answers · asked by ash 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay this is the deal. I have been seeing someone for a while. He is a good person. Maybe I am getting way out of line. Me and my man talk everyday. He calls me everyday. Majority of the time he call me during the day when we are at world and see each other after work. Usually he invites me over. What I tripped about was that me and him were talking and what caught me off guard was he said sarcastically "You know you love me" but laughing. I pause for a quick second and just started laughing saying "Your too funny". I guess I have been out of commission for a while and dont know what the hell to do now. What do you think. Just playing and dont mean it or mean it but saying it like he is playing?

2006-09-20 11:08:20 · 15 answers · asked by Charlene G 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you even consider asking out a girl who has average looks but has a great personality and other great aspects about her? I just want to know if there are some guys out there that value a girl's inner beauty.

2006-09-20 11:07:44 · 18 answers · asked by LuvLucy 1 in Singles & Dating

for whatever

2006-09-20 11:07:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Know any good movies you can watch with your partner that are sexy and seductive with good love scenes and romance? No porn. (please dont' say 91/2 weeks or something). The kind that makes you all starry eyed in love and also wanna tear each other's clothes off.

2006-09-20 11:07:12 · 25 answers · asked by paintgirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 6'0, I weigh 180 pounds and am pretty muscular. Do I sound attractive?

2006-09-20 11:07:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just love children! But I just can retain their attention and interest. Its like I just come next to the boring persons to them... the more I 'try' to sound and look interesting, the more I find them scooting away. What should I do?
Please guys, share your experience with me how you have ever dealt with such a thing!

2006-09-20 11:06:53 · 8 answers · asked by sexy_blue7 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does size matter to guys that your smalll or tall? IS it true that mostly guys like small girls?

2006-09-20 11:06:40 · 10 answers · asked by Sami 3 in Singles & Dating

its really no use.. dont bother telling me "girl hes a cheat hes a slimeball he doesnt deserve you".. i know all of that.. but i still have flashbacks to our happy times and want him back SOOO bad... im ready to just forgive the cheating (which was mild) and take him back... still, i know i cant.. i keep checking his online profiles and looking at pictures, etc.. and everytime a memory sneaks into my head, i am in love with him all over again..

i packed up everything that reminded me of him, i waited three months now to be over it, and nothing has worked...

how do i stop this and get over it?

2006-09-20 11:06:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

breath?

2006-09-20 11:06:05 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends