Family & Relationships - 20 September 2006

I dont think that its is bad, but for some people they just dont deseve it.
I know a 19 year old girl who refuses to work becase she says that her mother does not want to work. If she works than her welfare check will be cut. Plus her mom wants her to stay in high school as long as possible and "take her time" so that she can get money. So practically everyone is lazy in living in luxury. She has Cable tv with all the premimum channels(imagine how expensive), all the latest video game systems, and super fast cable on her computer. Of course im jealous, becase in a way eventhough i am not poor, i still cant afford any of those things. While i working hard and going to school , all she does is play on her entertainment system. I just hope she dont get welfare forever.

2006-09-20 11:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Friends

I work in a nursing home as an aid, and I just wanted to remind everyone that, just because your relative is in a facility, all their needs are not automatically met. THe facility I wokr in has something like 45 residents. Many of them have needs such as, clothes that actually fit-old folks gain and loose weight too. Dentures and Eye glasses are another thing that nursing homes cannot provide. Then there are those who have no family who visits. They are stuck with facility blanekts and furnishings. Do you realize how much having a unique blanet or pictures on the walls can help; even those who are lost in a fog os dementia and alzeimers.

Ane especially, old ladies need bras too!!! Most of my residents have a drawer full, and none have clasps that work.

2006-09-20 11:05:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that because i am into body building that i am a narcissus?
i mean i like the way i look but i do not spend endless hours looking at myself. as a matter of fact the only time i am looking in a mirror is to shave.

2006-09-20 11:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by bgdadyp 5 in Singles & Dating

stepped in anything you wish you HADN'T stepped in?

2006-09-20 11:04:33 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I have recently been contacted by one of my ex-boyfriends that I have had feelings for 11 years. I have been in a very committed relationship for 6 years and never cheated on my boyfriend, but when my EX and I met for the first time in 11 years, we had strong feelings for eachother all over again. I never thought I would ever cheat on my boyfriend who has been amazing and has given me so much. He truly loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I have felt the same way for 6 years, but now I am not so sure. Am I feeling infatuation for my EX? Or is this real love that I had hidden for so long? My current boyfriend is my security, and I feel so comfortable with him. I don't want to lose him, but at the same time I never thought my Ex and I would have a chance and I want to be with him too.

2006-09-20 11:04:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 11:03:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my g/f chopped my right foot of with an axe,because i accidently stood on her pet elephant,what annoys me is that i bought a new pair of shoes yesterday,and i am now left with a right shoe i dont need ,if i take it back to shop do you think i will get a refund .or will they give me another left shoe

2006-09-20 11:03:01 · 7 answers · asked by jagtic 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

has any1 ever been raped and how and by who

2006-09-20 11:02:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Some friends you cry for
But You I would die for
And I love you too much to beg you to stay
You have your own plans
But it makes my heart sad
Watching my best friend walking away.
Love's never easy
And who knows what's fair
I guess I'm still feeling
What's no longer there
When hearts go to pieces
Love crumbles and falls
Like stones made of memories
From bridges and walls.
http://www.minibite.com/heartache/bridges.htm

2006-09-20 11:02:28 · 8 answers · asked by tiffany lover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she liked a boy who led her on and was a complete jerk to her. she called him big nose and foound out through a mutual friend of the two. She didnt think it would bother him but over the summer he turned out to have gotten a nose job. what do you think about this?

2006-09-20 11:02:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ihave no brothers or sisters. I have nothing except money, I'm sick of this Do help me pls............

2006-09-20 11:01:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy i like is really cute but first i don't know how to start a convo. with him, and i don't know how to make him know i walk this earth. when i was talking to my friend about him she told me some people say that he is not popular, but i have seen him talking to popular people, so my thought is he might be popular.i am not really popular. i say to myself that i should try to get him but sometimes i fell like giving up. the other thing that i'm a little freaked out about is, i don't want to look like an idot in front of him. also i don't want people to think that i'm a loser for talking to him or even asking him out (if i even get to that part). he even wears high tops and i have a pair (i didn't just suddenly get them because he has them) and i have been wearing them to school but did not even notice, at least i din't think he didn't. HELP!!!!!

(sometimes he looks at me for like 3 or 4 seconds, but then looks away)

2006-09-20 11:01:27 · 9 answers · asked by xxripapartmybleedingsoulxx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 10:59:59 · 8 answers · asked by magpie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 10:59:50 · 31 answers · asked by knzlt 2 in Family

I have 9 younger siblings. When they all lived at home we would go and see each one and bring a gift and have cake and everything. Now three of them are married (as am I) and living away from home. What should I do when their brithday comes up? Send them a card? A gift? An ecard? None of them have parties or anything. Also, should I do anything for their spouses birthday? This is just so confusing! We still visit the siblings that live at home on their birthdays and take a gift and everything. It seems weird to stop celebrating the other ones just because they are married.

2006-09-20 10:59:36 · 11 answers · asked by Maggie 6 in Family

2006-09-20 10:59:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I still love them but we disagree entirely on how children should be raised. Is it possible to be with someone and not take on the role of a stepmom? Can't I just be their friend and work on my own projects?

2006-09-20 10:59:10 · 13 answers · asked by roci 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I have sex with my girlfriend, I only last 3-5 mins how can I prolong it. She is on the pill and we dont use condoms

2006-09-20 10:58:42 · 14 answers · asked by jay j 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, I've got a year before I go but I was curious about this......do guys only want one night stands in college?

2006-09-20 10:58:36 · 15 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 10:58:12 · 13 answers · asked by demus04 1 in Family

2006-09-20 10:57:38 · 18 answers · asked by Niecy 2 in Singles & Dating

so hows your day been? I feel a little Blue......any cures, and please don`t cus or anything nasty.........I found a way to start again somehow, I don`t think about black in terms of grey......IN TERMS OF LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVVVVEEE

2006-09-20 10:57:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 10:57:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am amrried to a mid eastern man for 9 years. he went to visit his family back home for 2 months. i wanted to go, but i couldn't because of the business we have. he just got back and he seems different, he wants to move back home, whatever his plans are, i feel they will not be with me. we have no kids so it is easy for him. he doesn't seem happy to see me. i waited and counted the days he would come back. worked hard for him while he was gone. he came across some opportunities in business overseas, and now hw doesn't seem to care about what is here, me included. i don't know if he found another girl back there. if i try to ask questions he will be mad. there is no wat to confront or talk to him. i love him and i don't know what to do. please dont give me rude answers, this is serious. thank you

2006-09-20 10:57:00 · 14 answers · asked by mercedes1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 10:56:42 · 37 answers · asked by Andy29Pandy 2 in Weddings

3 months ago, she flirted with me but I didn't care. Now she doesn't talk to me as much to other guys. She hugs other guys, if asked, while months ago she gave me a hug. But today, she wanted to work with me in a pair ( I go to school), and she told me that I was going to her best friend. But she told that to another guy minutes ago. ??? What's going on? finally I heard her telling a guy that she doesn't want to be pregnant cuz she'll get in trouble and taht she doesn't want kids ever cuz she has lots of siblings. Can I take her?

2006-09-20 10:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no im a teen but somebody gave that as answer to a teen i must say i agree

2006-09-20 10:56:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started messing around with this guy and lately everytime we're doing it we can just look deeply into each others eyes. I've never been able to do that before. So we're doin our thang and he says we need some alone time just me and him. So he can kiss and caress my whole body. What do you think bout dat?

2006-09-20 10:55:22 · 15 answers · asked by Traviesa 3 in Singles & Dating

okay there is this guy that i like but the problem is is that he's my best friend and i don't know what to tell him so what do i tell him do i tell him that i like him should i ask him out or what.

2006-09-20 10:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by ?HOTTIE? 2 in Friends

try.

lets see what u come up with...

2006-09-20 10:55:02 · 22 answers · asked by Fed 2 in Singles & Dating