Why are men such wimps, these days. They don't seem to have any backbone.?

Answer 1

We are mearly a bi-product of a generation of women that has taught us that male dominance and "machismo" is considered a negative attribute. Even though we have been raised on thousands of years of instinct to tell us otherwise. In an everchanging society. Or instincts as men are becoming less and less desirable. For example males in the work place. Equilty and equal opportunity have taught us that no matter what you size gender or whatever that even if you are the "dominate" candidate for a position you can not have it simply because a quota has to be filled to give everyone equal rights. Now I'm mearly speaking in generalities, (Not going into the whole race thing) People are comfortable living and functioning in a P.R. kind of world. Where we don't say what we mean or what with think for fear of others getting upset. Men harness and adopt all this to survive it todays society. Womans movements. A major stepping stone towards a world of femine males. "Don't fight", "Let the other kids win", "everything should be fair", "Don't kill the animals", "what? your no a vegatarian?!" are the many things that are ingrained in todays male population. So what do men do today? They channel male aggression through other means, Watching football, (Its safe... it doesn't hurt anybody they can live through the players) Playing violent video games, (Xbox, playstation the list goes on.) you see the instinct is there its just been supressed by a woman driven society. Yet todays woman are crying out for "REAL MEN". Some woman have given up all together and become lesbians. Life and time isn't without its sense of irony. Women wanted a drastic change but didn't know when to stop, now there men are becoming weak in so many ways. But for the few that realize and racognized what has happened we are still out here trying to be true to our male natural aggression and instincts unfortuantely all within the confines of a male suppressed society.

Answer 2

It's feminism. Feminists and the government both want weak, pathetic males-- they are so much easier to control that way. The government doesn't fear women at all, because... well, just because of their basic nature, but the gov't fears men so much, that they support a group of rabid lesbians that wish to make everyone into homosexuals-- the feminists want the hot women for themselves and they hate that men are (or were) everything feminists wish they were but can never be because the only penes they have are of the strap-on kind. We need to give boys strong male role models and removes the lesbians from every facet of the education system-- from pre-school to the collegiate level. Feminist man-hate has no place in any society and will be eliminated, hopefully before the government creates a world-wide police state, which is how the gov'ts of the world are using the foolish feminists that think they will be rewarded for their villainy and hatred against heterosexuals and masculine men.

Answer 3

Because half of them who have mommas who would still put them on the breast if they could. The mothers these days don't know when to let go and teach their son's the ropes on being a man or they like wimps themselves. Half of these guys will say something to a female but if a male says something they damn near run like bitches now really who the **** wants a ***** but a male dog.

Answer 4

Girl they really are, but they really just need prayer. Some men dont know who they are and they are very confused thats why half of them are on the down low or think they are a woman. Sad thats why its a must that you dont go looking for love and let God bring your husband because with him you will never go wrong.

Answer 5

long story short, i think it's an outcome of the cycle of crap we've succombed to..

i'm generalizing a lot here, but this is what i think is going on:

back in the day, men were considered more powerful than women. they started treating women badly, pushing them down. women fought back (feminist movement...for equal rights, opportunity, pay, etc). but Along with that came Sexual "equality"...the "right" to be JUST as pigheaded, rude, obnoxious, irresponsible, and have multiple partners!! we started thinking, "hey, if men can have more than one partner and not care, why can't we?" instead of trying to fight for Honesty, Respect, and Monogamy (what we kinda want from the "perfect man" we marry, right???!)

so, when women started going to college, starting their own careers, they started pushing MEN down! making them feel unnecessary. but instead of fighting back, i see that men either

1) acting "pig-like" manly; trying to show off how "manly" they are by acting like jerks (when a Real Man is completely not like that); treating of women as objects, collecting as many as possible, or

2) succombing to the whims and wants of the women, sacrificing their "backbone" to make the modern woman happy.

either one is not gonna work out though... and u see how we're going in this cycle..wanting to revert BACK to the old days when men were honest, respectable, took care of the family, provided, the "breadmaker"...and women were honest, respectable, took care of the family, supported, the "nurturer". and even though roles are reversed in this day and age, it doesn't mean we still forget that Respect and Trust and Committment are the basis to any relationship! u gotta be able to respect a man, in order to trust and "obey" him! and u gotta be able to respect a woman, in order to trust and "support" her!

sigh... i know we all think "most" men are pigs..that's also wrong. just as men who generalize that most women are stupid gold diggers. we need to start thinking about changing and putting importance on Respect, Accountability, being the best Men and Women we can be.... =T until then, we are just "pigs" and "skanks".

Answer 6

That's kind of an over-generalization - a high percentage of men I know have lots of "backbone."

Answer 7

Men are being shown in a bad light in commercials, TV shows, and movies. Society is no longer showing respect for men. Men in response are losing their self respect.

Answer 8

Women carry on about how they wish their men were more sensitive. I know, I was one of them. Now my husband watches Steel Magnolias when I want to see the D-Backs score. All I can say is, be careful what you wish for. I love him to death, but sometimes I just want to yell "Strap on a pair!"

Answer 9

You're just talking to the wrong men.. I take that back.. boys.

Answer 10

Not all men are the same,you have not met ALL men.