Family & Relationships - 20 September 2006

is it suppose to be a time like a calander date like why not suspect the obvious.

2006-09-20 10:42:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has recently asked for time alone, for time to think as we had an argument about our relationship and our future. I never realised that it could be such a big deal when I ask him a simple question like whether he sees in me in the future. He told me he feels under pressure and we had an argument about it as he told me he feels stressed out with everything in his life, including our relationship. He has not been in contact with me for the last 2 weeks, what should I do? I don't understand why men need time alone and time to think? Does he not love me anymore and does not want to be with me? I have been worrying that I might loose him. All of my friends keep telling me not to contact him but why has he been silent all this time? Please explain to me his behaviour.. Have I messed it up?

2006-09-20 10:42:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a freshman in high school, and the boy i like, i mean REALLY like, is a senior. He's also one of my really good friend's brother. We're really good friends, but could we ever be more then that? How do i tell him? How do i know if he feels the same about me? Thanks for th advice

2006-09-20 10:42:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 10:41:58 · 23 answers · asked by boho 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently bought a house after the divorce but now I am thinking about selling it. I am stay at home mom and can either stay at home for a few years in my new house or move back in with my mom and have a lot of money to invest and have a good time with. Plus if I move in with my mom I will have a lot more freedom since she is willing to babysit if I wanted to go on a date. What would you do?

2006-09-20 10:41:43 · 15 answers · asked by golden2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 10:41:15 · 6 answers · asked by marshay p 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy says he likes one year does that mean he still does the next and could he mean more than like?
My friend well his friend told my friend who told me that the first person liked me, and Ifor a whole year we've sort of forgot about it because I of course would said no to him but now I'm not sure if he still likes me cause well I'm not sure I just really need to know well I'am sure but...and could it be more than him just liking me?

2006-09-20 10:40:28 · 2 answers · asked by F9 2 in Friends

Ok, I've known this guy for 2 years, and I never liked him. I always found him annoying. Last year he asked me out, and I said no. Well anyway, I moved and went to a new school, and forgot all about him. But this year I moved back and going to the local school. School has been great so far, until my friend told me that the guy is in LOVE with me!!!! And he's been in love with me for 2 years. I was stunned, and a little appalled. I mean, at least he could've told me himself, instead of telling someone else to. Anyway, the weekend went by, and I went to school Monday. I was waiting for 1st period to start when HE walks into my classroom!!! Sits next to me and stares at me! I'm like............ooooook. Then at lunch I get to my table and I see HIM sitting there!!! I'm like WHAT?!? The following day he continues to follow me around/ stalk me. Well by today I was pretty fed up with his behavior.

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2006-09-20 10:40:07 · 18 answers · asked by Haisa J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 10:39:59 · 4 answers · asked by marshay p 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my good friend i stopped speaking to eachother, because he said that i'm on games. and then he said that he dosen't want me to call him so i didn't but then he called my house 2 o'clock in the morning and try to get me in trouble and said it was beause he was drunk. this all started because we were friends for a long time and we got feelings for eachother but i have a boyfriend. but i would admit that we did kiss and stuff a couple of times but he knows that i would leave my boyfriend for him and every time that i try to tell him that we should just keep it as friends and maybe after if me and my boyfriend breakes up i'll give us a chance he dose like if i sad something wrong. its been weeks know and we haven't spoken to eachother and i don't really miss him but i just think that we should talk. i'm just not ready to make the first move because i'm not in the mood for when i do call him he hangs up or says that he's to busy.

2006-09-20 10:39:43 · 5 answers · asked by babi 2 in Friends

my husband-to-be plans on giving my children a gift on our wedding day,my daughter is no problem,but what to you give 2 boys aged 9 and 5.My daughter is getting a necklace but the boys wouldnt like that...any ideas?

2006-09-20 10:39:05 · 23 answers · asked by archie 2 in Weddings

2006-09-20 10:38:51 · 11 answers · asked by ulises h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my crush alex found out that i like him any tips of what i should do now

2006-09-20 10:38:44 · 11 answers · asked by cierraslove 2 in Singles & Dating

i just found out the boy i thought about day and night...i would stare at his pic forever..the boy i love!...has a girlfriend. what to i do?

2006-09-20 10:38:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 10:38:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Prefferably,guys advice on this one. From their piont of view. 8th grade....I have Yahoo! Messenger. I heard from his 2 close friends(which I've know forever too) that he does, and he found out I liked him the same way. But nothing ever happens between us. We're just really good friends and I'm totally confused.

2006-09-20 10:38:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has recently asked for time alone, for time to think as we had an argument about our relationship and our future. I never realised that it could be such a big deal when I ask him a simple question like whether he sees in me in the future. He told me he feels under pressure. He has not been in contact with me for the last 2 weeks, what should I do? I don't understand why men need time alone and time to think? Does he not love me anymore and does not want to be with me? I have been worrying that I might loose him. All of my friends keep telling me not to contact him but why has he been silent all this time? Please explain to me his behaviour.. Have I messed it up?

2006-09-20 10:37:51 · 15 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

work out? are with your first love, or did it not work out at all? or did you fall in love so young , to realize it wasn't that true?

2006-09-20 10:37:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it i do one right thing which is be honest to my parents im gay and they dont like it they dont hold against me but they just look negative whenever i mention anything regarding it ?

what is the big deal about that thing called GAY ?

2006-09-20 10:37:04 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

whats the slutiest thing u have done at school

2006-09-20 10:36:54 · 11 answers · asked by fletch514 1 in Singles & Dating

i know it depends on who she is but if it were you which would it be...she said ok but im worried she said ok to soon to be not kidding or F**king with me...

2006-09-20 10:36:02 · 23 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been off and on for the most part of our relationship. I love the woman 2 death and would do anything 4 her just as i believe she would for me. We have had trust issues in the past about her lying to me about being on birth control. I put it in the past and kept moving. a few months ago she told me she was pregnant. We had been having unprotected sex while she was on birth control. i had a feeling she was lying but couldnt prove it. she swore up and down that she was taking he pills regularly and that she had just became pregnant while on birth control. i was still suspicious. At the first doctor appointment we found out that she was 3 1/4 months pregnant. I had a chance to speak with the doctor privately and when i told her about the previous situation she checked my x's history @ kaiser and saw she never had a perscription for the birth control. I was furious. My x said the doctor was lying? she lied to me everyday for a month and a half and now finally told the truth. help!

2006-09-20 10:35:54 · 10 answers · asked by dtaydeon5 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies your not 5 years old. I'm also tired of hearing that its a phase. Its stll immature. I know you want confidence but thats immature to just think about confidence. Some guys don't have confidence. Why would you hold that aganest him? Please have a mature mind and stop thinking about confidence 24/7. If the man is nice than thats what matters. NOT confidence. Ladies grow up.

2006-09-20 10:35:30 · 12 answers · asked by savannahfast 1 in Singles & Dating

He says he's trying to change. I don't want to act on the crush, but it is kinda lonely, and I would just like to say, "I have a crush."

2006-09-20 10:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you tell the guy you are with that you are not getting off w or do you fake it and save his feelings. and to the guys would you want to know or keep thinking your doing a good job

2006-09-20 10:34:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 10:33:55 · 6 answers · asked by GIGI 1 in Singles & Dating

She's always so mean to me and she yells at me and calls me cuss words constantly. We were just arguing because she promised me a $120 cell phone for my 14th birthday in 2 weeks, now she changed her mind like she always does when she promises me things so I kept bugging her and asking her why did she change her mind. Then she called me a ***** and told me to shut the **** up, then I kept aking her why and she said because if she doesn't have a cell phone what makes me think that she'll get me one. Then I said because I walk home from school by myself. Then I said that if she didn't spend her money at bingo every week then she would have enough money for one. Then she called me a ***** and told me to shut the **** up again. Then my brother started teasing me and messing with me. And I get so tired of her calling me out of my name and yelling at me and telling me to shut up. Why does she hate me so much?

2006-09-20 10:33:53 · 7 answers · asked by bbnicole104 2 in Family

Is it weird for a girl to be the one bringing touching up, especially before your going out...Like touching her A$$ and breasts? she seems like she isnt joking because she laid down the guidlines too...like pinch my nipp*** and ill cut you fingers off and stuff...and is it normal for her to be so upfront and sexual???

2006-09-20 10:33:48 · 22 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a muscular guy w/tattoos yet I'm a really nice guy. I think that I confuses some women. They see a bad boy But then find out that I'm not a complete a**hole and move on. Or they think I look like a harda** when they are looking for a nice guy and just don't give me the time of day. I'm getting to the point where I want to just drop the nice guy thing because it dosen't work!

2006-09-20 10:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by drakekse 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl but she doesn't believe in that girlfriends should be disciplined when they do something wrong. In the past I have always dated girls who believed in domestic discipline where if a woman gets an attitude or does something wrong the man has the right to spank her or give her corner time. In my experiences this is necessary because women seem to act like children sometimes and there needs to be some form of discipline to correct this behavior. I realize that when women's hormones aren't in check, they can get out of line sometimes. With g/f's in the past I could just give them "the look" and they knew I could back it up later so they cut out the attitude. This woman says she believes the man should be head of the household but in my experience, that and 3 dollars will get you a cup of coffee. Can a relationship really be healthy without domestic discipline? Should I give this girl a chance?

2006-09-20 10:33:08 · 42 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Singles & Dating