Is it weird for a girl to be the one bringing touching up, especially before your going out...Like touching her A$$ and breasts? she seems like she isnt joking because she laid down the guidlines too...like pinch my nipp*** and ill cut you fingers off and stuff...and is it normal for her to be so upfront and sexual???
2006-09-20 10:33:48 · 22 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes 18 and im 16, i have already made it very clear im not in it for sex...but dont get me wrong she looks great
2006-09-20 10:38:20 · update #1
no im saying is it normal for a girl to say touching is ok...that soon
2006-09-20 10:42:02 · update #2
well she probably just wants to make sure that your not looking for something different from her just tell her that your not ready for that if your not ok i had that problem before
2006-09-20 10:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by If I Were A Boy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she sensed that there was more of a relationship at the time before you asked her out==she was just forwarning you that way you have the opportunity to know how she stands. Life changes and who knows what would happen in the future if you went out but that is where she stands for now. There is nothing wrong with that = it leaves no doubt.
2006-09-20 17:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by THTH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She doesn't want to waste her time with someone that only wants that. So she's letting you know upfront that if that's what your there for, dont waste your time. And this way it also saves her from the dreaded "why are you a tease" situation. All guys expect things from girls right off the bat so she's just letting you know where she stands.
2006-09-20 17:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is normal for her to be upfront, not that aggressive with it but upfront is good. Also setting the guidelines before hand lets the male know if he still wants to go on the date with her knowing what she will and won't allow.
2006-09-20 17:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a limit to the boundries you set up before you even go out. I wouldn't go out with this girl, I think she may accuse you of something and I would be afraid of that.
2006-09-20 17:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by goodbye 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She knows what she wants and what she does not want.
So I would say that she has been around the block once or twice and I think you should go out and have fun with her.
She might be really cool.
2006-09-20 17:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by Biker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"she laid down the guidlines too...like pinch my nipp*** and ill cut you fingers off and stuff...and is it normal for her to be so upfront and sexual???"
wow ... cut ur fingers off ? damn ... psychotic attack!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 17:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, apparently she's been touched inappropriately before and she wants to make sure you don't touch her inappropriately. Rules are important and good for her for setting them up-front.
2006-09-20 17:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was abused at some point. on the other hand, it might be better to be clear on the rules. none of that explaining to the cops that, "but she said yes." stuff.
2006-09-20 17:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
setting the ground rules for ya before ya go out on a date., that way if ya do something she doesn't like & get kicked in the nads, you'll know why
2006-09-20 17:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋