i know it depends on who she is but if it were you which would it be...she said ok but im worried she said ok to soon to be not kidding or F**king with me...
2006-09-20 10:36:02 · 23 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not that i dont trust her but we all know some of the time its a test to see if you respect them...i love her very much.....
2006-09-20 10:46:17 · update #1
start slow and touch her face. see how that goes then work your way down.
Be slow about it and see how she reacts.
If she says stop, then you had better stop.
But if she seems to get into it, go for it!!!
2006-09-20 10:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Biker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I told a guy it was ok for him to touch me, I would mean it. The respect test is whether or not he asks before doing anything, and if he does ask then he passes. If I didn't want him to touch me in a certain area or a certain way, I'd let him know up front so he wouldn't do something I didn't like.
2006-09-20 17:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when the time is right. Depends on how long you have been with the person and the maturity of the love.
Never rush....even if it's ok by her...who knows maybe your not ready and there is nothing wrong with that.
2006-09-20 17:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it's a tough one, if it's a test and you fail by touching her then you could say that well she gave you permission, the key thing here is that she gave you permission, but then she could expect you to be a gentleman and even though she gave you permission she perhaps expects you to resist and wait more. You'll know with time, as she may well throw herself onto you or not, but take it slow so that it will come naturally with ease and with time and everything will reveal itself. Goodluck!
2006-09-20 17:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she said OK and it was too soon for her to be saying that, why on earth would you want to continue the relationship--other than for the thrill of the touch?
2006-09-20 17:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happen to talking to your mate.Ask her why she said it is okay..Woman like honesty and if you tell her your concerns she might just surprize you and be honest back.Otherwise how the hell would we know if it's a test or not..Woman aren't all the same.
2006-09-20 17:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it really depends on the way you touch her and inless she's a complete mind gamer then don't worry.
2006-09-20 17:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by outlandishb13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if we can trust the guy, if we know he's not just in it for a piece of ***...but me personally, i like to get to know the guy first, i just don't want to sleep with anyone
2006-09-20 17:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by mary H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry, I don't do the "is it alright if I touch you here" garbage. If I want to touch, I touch. It's up to the girl to say "not so fast, big boy"
2006-09-20 17:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she says is ok to touch her, then find out what the limits are, with your hands.
Have fun !
2006-09-20 17:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋