He says he's trying to change. I don't want to act on the crush, but it is kinda lonely, and I would just like to say, "I have a crush."
2006-09-20 10:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The cheating has happened over a period of about 14 years. We have kids, and I love him, but if it were not for the kids, I'd probably go. I don't have hard feelings, just I'd go.
2006-09-20 10:40:48 · update #1
seriously girl, get rid of him!! he did it all ready, he'll keep doin it!! and also, u deserve better, women aint drugs, they dont need 2 be used! go get it on with that crush of urs girl!! and be proud of it, but get rid of him 1st. ;)
2006-09-20 10:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by hotpeper13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a happily married woman and I have two children and guess what....My husband is not their father. I learned that sometimes it is harder on the kids to stay with him because they see you miserable. What kind of example is this setting for the kids?? They need to be taught to be strong and independent, would yo want a man to treat your daughter like this?? Lead by example is what I have always been taught. After you take care of your current problem with your husband then I would pursue your crush. Don't put too much on your shoulders at once tackle it one at a time. Good luck
2006-09-20 10:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by max 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Humm, you could be opening up a can of worms for yourself.
If he has cheated that many times, why may I ask are you still with him.
your having a crush and then perhaps cheating yourself, will never solve the problem. Cant trust him, he is cheating and you know for sure, throw him out,Then proceed with a new life. Your ending up with his friend is only going to complicate matters even worse.
2006-09-20 10:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over the porn...period...its NOT CHEATING. I think any woman who thinks porn is cheating is just a DOWNRIGHT IDIOT, men are visually stimulated and we love to look at women. If you don't want us to look at other women wait until we die, that's the only way we will ever stop looking, Though since he has cheated and multiple times divorce his dumb ***,he doesn't deserve you, and find your happiness with someone else, possibly this friend.
2006-09-20 10:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by savage_haven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that its hard to deal with the man in your life cheating on you...do you still have feelings for him at all...do you care about him...and if you didnt have kids you wouldnt be with him then what are you doing with him...you should leave him for your self and not because you want to show you kids how to be treated...having your man cheat on you can hurt and be pain ful and if you think that there is something there still then maybe you shoudl talk to you husband that you are starting to want to stray away and find someone else...cheating on someone not only hurts the one you care for but hurts you as well and if you want to be with someone else then its always better to make a clean break first.....
2006-09-20 11:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by mytedominatrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to work things out with your husband, that I would advise not to. But If you feel that his promises are just that, then maybe you should think about moving on and be happy with someone who worships you and who you are. Respects you. How many times can your heart be broken? Good luck!
2006-09-20 10:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by flower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking at porn is no big deal, but why are you with him after he has cheated on you not once, not twice, but 6 times?
Who is the dunce here, him or you?
2006-09-20 10:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God almighty, you little ones - i'm havin' the devil's very own pastime protecting up with all your shenanigans! See the hardship you all get into whilst i'm no longer there to oversee complaints? Teddy, you're a devious, duplicitous youthful rogue whose behaviour is reprehensible in each and every way. simply by fact of this we like you. you are able to desire to stick on your heart or despite different physique section it is maximum appropriate you at present and take finished great evaluate regards to the placement with "Meg" mutually as nevertheless performing the suitable pal and confidante to "Hector". of course, you are able to desire to shop up all different ongoing flirtations with all people else on your circle - a) with the intention to maintain your concepts open; & b) with the intention to no longer offend any of your maturer pals who may be feeling a tad disgruntled. you're a rotten apple for specific, Ted, yet we gals do love a baddie. all people for apple bobbing? Woohoo!
2016-10-17 08:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would lay it down on the line and tell your husband to shape up or your going for a divorce.
2006-09-20 10:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you should is stop being a weak piss of crap and leave his ***. 6 times? are you crazy? leave him and find someone new and i promise you wont be lonley
2006-09-20 10:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by patrick b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋