Ok, I've known this guy for 2 years, and I never liked him. I always found him annoying. Last year he asked me out, and I said no. Well anyway, I moved and went to a new school, and forgot all about him. But this year I moved back and going to the local school. School has been great so far, until my friend told me that the guy is in LOVE with me!!!! And he's been in love with me for 2 years. I was stunned, and a little appalled. I mean, at least he could've told me himself, instead of telling someone else to. Anyway, the weekend went by, and I went to school Monday. I was waiting for 1st period to start when HE walks into my classroom!!! Sits next to me and stares at me! I'm like............ooooook. Then at lunch I get to my table and I see HIM sitting there!!! I'm like WHAT?!? The following day he continues to follow me around/ stalk me. Well by today I was pretty fed up with his behavior.
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2006-09-20 10:40:07 · 18 answers · asked by Haisa J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was with 2 of my friends going into the cafeteria and I notice he is at my table waiting for me again, and I'm like GREAT! So we leave and go into the hallway to eat lunch. And then 5 minutes later he walks past us and then turns around (pretending to just notice me) and sits next to me. I get mad and walk away after 4 minutes. I talk to one of my best friends and complain about him. (I even told him I was a lesiban so he would get off my back!!!) Well my friend and me walked back to the group and HE was CRYING! My friend told him that I thought he was stalking me! Then the bell ringed! I felt so horrible!!! I felt like I had indirectly made a guy cry!
But I shouldn't feel bad right?
2006-09-20 10:43:05 · update #1
You need to take the bull by the horns so to speak. Talk to him. Tell him in a polite but firm way, that you are not interested in going out with him, and he is making you uncomfortable with all the attention he is giving you.
If this doesn't work, talk to a guidance councellor or a teacher.
(perhaps one of your friends has said you are interested, or he has approached them, and they were too kind to say you wouldn't be interested.)
2006-09-20 10:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Practical Suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why you just simply tell him to stop that behavior.. in a polite way. Telling him that you are not interested. You do not have to be nice to everyone. If he doesn't not like you.. then, why to pretend otherwise.
Good luck.
He did cried..eh? Well, life is hard, sometime everybody cries. Do not feel sorry, but next time, try to be straight since the beginning so, nobody fills himself with illusions.
2006-09-20 17:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by El mundo es ancho y ajeno 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if you said you didn't like him back, that should be enough for him to at least stop staring at you all the time, or telling someone else to tell you that he still loves you. Just try and avoid him. If he's really bothering you, take him aside and tell him you feel like he's invading your space a little too much. Don't be rude to him, though, just try and avoid him.
2006-09-20 17:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should not feel bad the guy seems like he is a little obsessed but he does need to understand that you need your space and after 2 years he should be trying to get over you not getting more obsessed. If it continues I would recommend you talk to the police and get a restraining order put on him.
2006-09-20 17:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him lately that you are just not interested? Turning down a date once doesn't mean he no longer has feelings for you. Do you want to even be friends with this guy? If not, tell him.
2006-09-20 17:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't neccessarily think that u should feel bad about anything, u weren't the 1 who said anything bad 2 him, ur friend did, he was stalking u and that made u feel uncomfortable and it should, if u don't like him anyway, but don't feel bad about what happened u could tell him how u feel about what he's doing and how u don't like it(in a nice way) and how he could stop, so don't feel bad:)
2006-09-20 17:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like a stalker to me! let him know how u truly feel and dont string him along. cut it off right now because it can become something alot more serious. do whatever you have to do to get the point across. good luck.
2006-09-20 17:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by dtaydeon5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot even string a proper sentence togeather,let alone sort your love life out,tell him to sod off so that you can study more.
2006-09-20 18:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never lie to people and never be cruel. You could have simply told him you're not interested. You were in the wrong and should apologize.
2006-09-20 17:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not like him and he is annoying then you shouldn't feel sorry for anything. He is crazy and if you don't do or say anything it will only get worse by the day
2006-09-20 17:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋