I really like this girl but she doesn't believe in that girlfriends should be disciplined when they do something wrong. In the past I have always dated girls who believed in domestic discipline where if a woman gets an attitude or does something wrong the man has the right to spank her or give her corner time. In my experiences this is necessary because women seem to act like children sometimes and there needs to be some form of discipline to correct this behavior. I realize that when women's hormones aren't in check, they can get out of line sometimes. With g/f's in the past I could just give them "the look" and they knew I could back it up later so they cut out the attitude. This woman says she believes the man should be head of the household but in my experience, that and 3 dollars will get you a cup of coffee. Can a relationship really be healthy without domestic discipline? Should I give this girl a chance?
2006-09-20 10:33:08 · 42 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you dont belive in the same thing then the future of your ralationship is going nowhere. So the best thing to do is break up with her to find a healthier relationship
2006-09-20 10:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the more appropriate question is should a girl date a guy who believes he has the right to discipline her for her behavior. Would you agree that she has the right to discipline you when you get out of line and ask like an ***. I truly don't believe a relationship can be healthy with domestic discipline. This is commonly called spousal abuse and is against the law. If I could send this to your girlfriend I would tell her to get out of their so fast you could not see her leaving. Go see a counselor, you are sick.
2006-09-20 10:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by irongrama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What rock did YOU crawl out from under? Who do you think you are trying to discipline a female? This is 2006, and women got the vote almost a 100 years ago....HEEELLOOOOOO!!!
The girl shouldn't give YOU a chance!!!
Thanks for letting everyone know what a jerk you are!
2006-09-20 10:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_soul_woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to go with The girl. Reason No man can or shall discipline a girls Period unless she can do the same to you. Can she discipline you for any wrong doing that you have done??
2006-09-20 10:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get a dog. Women are well out of your understanding Mr. Taliban.
She disagrees with you because she's smart. The question is whether she give you a chance or kick your sorry misogynic butt to the curb.
2006-09-20 10:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...give me a minute to stop laughing ROFLMAO!!!!
Okay...you're a real hoot...either your post is a complete joke, or you're living in some past century or alternate universe.
Get with it dude...the only one needing a spanking and some corner time (and a SERIOUS attitude adjustment) is you...
*rolls eyes and walks off shaking head*
2006-09-20 10:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the real question should be.... should men continue thinking that they have to discipline women at all?
we are not animals ... never should a man raise his hand.... this has to be a joke.... this is 2006 and things have changed drastically.. get to the future.... i dont even know how some women even put up with you.
what a joke you are.
2006-09-20 10:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probably why ur dumb a_ss can't find a steady girl. U touch them and they out da door. Man, we ain't in no stone age so we ain't gotta put up with dat! There's plenty of guys out there that know how to treat a women.
2006-09-20 10:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE SOME DISTORTED NOTION THAT MARRIAGE SHOULD BE LIKE A PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP.
I CAN ONLY IMAGINE WHAT YOUR PARENTS WERE LIKE....
GOOD LUCK FINDING SOMEONE WHO WILL PUT UP WITH THAT.
WOULD HAVING A PARTNER THAT WAS YOUR EQUAL BE TOO EMASCULATING FOR YOU TO DEAL WITH?
IF YOU NEED TO REDUCE WOMEN TO A LEVEL YOU ARE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH, THEN YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR A WOMAN WITH NO SELF ESTEEM.
APPARENTLY, THIS GIRL HAS A GREAT DEAL OF SELF ESTEEM. IT WON'T BE LONG BEFORE SHE FINDS OUT HOW CONTROLLING AND NARCISSISTIC YOU ARE.
I AM SORRY THAT YOU TURNED OUT THIS WAY......
2006-09-20 10:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, you are totally living in the dark ages!! Women have attitudes as much as men do!!! you should find yourself a geisha!
A real woman wouldn't appreciate you anyway!!
2006-09-20 10:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋