I'm a muscular guy w/tattoos yet I'm a really nice guy. I think that I confuses some women. They see a bad boy But then find out that I'm not a complete a**hole and move on. Or they think I look like a harda** when they are looking for a nice guy and just don't give me the time of day. I'm getting to the point where I want to just drop the nice guy thing because it dosen't work!
2006-09-20 10:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by drakekse 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no keep it up.. a LOT of women are looking Exactly for that. u gotta come off as a Charming "bad boy" though...! :) that is what i think women are attracted to when they go for the bad boy...the confidence, the "i dont' care what anyone says" attitude, the dashing, handsome, exciting badness...but at home they want a loving, caring, sweet guy.
u just have to be a nice guy w/ a backbone, have a good head on ur shoulders, have direction, and know how to charm a woman, treat her like a lady, and i say u got it in the bag! ;P
2006-09-20 10:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just finding the wrong women evidently. If a woman goes for you or does not go for you because of the way you look, then you don't need them. I usually find the ***holes in nice guy bodies..LOL. Plus, muscular and tattooed guys are sexy...hang in there.
2006-09-20 10:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think your place in the world is a place where you quit labeling yourself. If women are truly moving on because you are not an a s s h o l e then you are better off without them without a doubt anyway. You are in the same boat as lots of other people, you simply haven't found the right one yet, but that has nothing to do with labels and stereotypes. Perhaps you are pigeonholing yourself with them.
2006-09-20 10:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to be someone that you are not? That is something that I can't figure out? To tell you the truth, I like guys who are like that. But I am nothing like that, I am a school girl type who is shitless scared to get a tattoo and that is me. My guy has about 10 tattoos and he is a nice guy and everything, but he doesn't try to be someone that he is not. He is into drinking and smoking, but he doens't lie to me about those things and that is why I like him. Most people who see him think he is just a trouble maker and most of my friends don't think he is right for me, but he feels right to me. As long as you are who you are and not a lier. Just be yourself and I am pretty sure that the right women will arrive in your arms.
2006-09-20 10:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by goof ball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey who are you dating!? That sounds perfect to me! That look is a turn on to me but I don't necessarily want to attiude and personality that comes with it so your little combinations sounds really nice!
you'll find someone, I'm sure. Keep the nice guy in ya!
2006-09-20 10:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Rx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some girls who prefer the "bad boy" body and image, but I personally want a nice guy. His looks are entirely secondary as long as he is a good person who will respect me and love me for who I am.
2006-09-20 10:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't win with everyone - there is a special young lady out there for that's being mis-read as well. just be patient and wait - until she comes along have fun and learn ALLLL that you can to please her. GET ALL THE WHORING OUT NOW so when YOU meet your soulmate THERE WON'T BE ANY EXCUSES
2006-09-20 10:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Little Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being nice one day someone will see u for how sweet u are
2006-09-20 10:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be so nice if you really are a nice guy.
2006-09-20 10:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE YOURSELF AND ILL GUARANTEE U THERE WILL BE A GIRL WAITING FOR U. IT MIGHT NOT BE NOW, BUT DONT WORRY IT'LL COME. DONT CHANGE UNLESS U WANNA CHANGE. HOPE ALL GOES WELL W/U.
2006-09-20 10:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by soul.searcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋