okay there is this guy that i like but the problem is is that he's my best friend and i don't know what to tell him so what do i tell him do i tell him that i like him should i ask him out or what.
2006-09-20 10:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by ?HOTTIE? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be honest with him. Tell him very nicely but in an assertive tone so he doesn't think you are messing with him but are in fact serious about it. Do this when it's just the two of you somewhere. Will save the embarrassment if he doesn't feel the same about you.
Also, make it a point to tell him that as much as you like him, you don't want him to do it just because he is your friend and may feel bad saying no. Along the same lines, be mentally prepared to hear a no. Not saying that he will say it, but he MIGHT and you would do good being mentally prepared. On the other hand, if he says he feels the same, then all the best to both of you.
BTW, in case he says no, are you willing to continue friendship with him or would you feel too awkward? Keep that in mind also and it wouldn't hurt to mention that to him as well if he says no that you would still like to be friends as before.
2006-09-20 11:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay I have been there too! heres the thing you should tell him because if you dont the more you see him with other girls it will drive you crazy and then you will drive him crazy and could trash your friendship now in my case I told him and we got together and have been together since 1999 and have a beautiful frienship and relationship and we are expecting our first child
2006-09-20 19:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by panozzo_95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to think this out. sometimes going from friends to lovers doesn't work out too well and then if you break up, the friendship is never the same. don't make any quick decisions...make sure he feels the same way about you.
2006-09-20 18:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by italiana2683 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait until you think that it's time then just
tell him and say " Can I talk to you in private" then say " I know
this is kind of weird and all but i have a crush on you".
2006-09-20 17:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by crazyjayjay7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold his hand :) Do small things. Lead him on and have him ask you out if he likes you. if he doens't then it didn't work. But at least you didn't lose a friendship
2006-09-20 17:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Airzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mix the ideas of airzy and crazyjay :)
2006-09-20 18:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by kountry_kandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just grab his junk he'll get the idea
2006-09-20 17:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by jack B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋