Even though my exboyfriend ended our relationship he would still say hi to me on msn. That has stopped now, but a few days ago he said hi to me after not talking to me for more than 4 months. I was helping my sis pack for Western university and I logged on msn and put "packing for Western" and he said hi to me right away. I was surprised cuz we haven't talked in like forever. Neways after the casual stuff he asked me if I was changing schools and going to Western but I said no and told him it was my sis. After that he didn't say anything so I asked him why he contacted me and he said that it was "cuz he hadn't seen me in awhile". I can't believe him, he dumped me like months ago and now when he thinks I'm going to another university he says hi. What's up with that? How can he have the nerve to still ask me what is going on in my life, and why does he even care?
2006-09-20 11:16:48 · 23 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way I put "packing for Western" as my msn quote, I did NOT start talking to him , he initiated the conversation.
2006-09-20 11:19:52 · update #1
By the way I put "packing for Western" as my msn quote, I did NOT start talking to him , he initiated the conversation.
2006-09-20 11:19:57 · update #2
Because he knows he effed up. He obviously still thinks about you or he wouldnt write ypou. Guys play way more games than us girls...No matter what age...Get used to it
2006-09-20 11:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by cynlord_07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because even though he broke up with you he still cares about you as a person just not as a girlfriend. SOme people still are friends after they break up. But if he's not like that he probaly just wants to still be on talking terms or something
2006-09-20 11:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by outlandishb13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
b/c even though peopel dump each other sometimes people have regret People still speak to each other b/c even though u are not together u can still remain friends and that sometimes helps heal the hurt or regret Sometimes people come back to you in life for many reasons you just have to find the reasons but don't hate him treat him like you want him to treat you even if things didn't work out in the past
2006-09-20 11:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by summer s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because is he just being human and trying to be nice to someone he used to care about. all break-ups don't need to end as enemys. grow up a little. get over it. just say hi back. what is the harm in that. you obviously still care for him. and maybe if you start back as friends, then if you both care about each other it might grow into a better relationship then it was before.
or just tell him you hate his guts and he needs to go fuc*k himself
2006-09-20 11:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he broke up with you, doesn't mean that he doesn't care. He just didn't want to be in a relationship with you or probably anyone. Take it as an innocent concern. Be nice and move on.
2006-09-20 11:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter. if he wants u back, if he's playing w/ ur feelings, if he just wants to be a caring friend..it doesn't matter. u need to let him go, obviously he hurt you badly.
don't answer when he writes you or calls you. make sure you are strong, confident, positive, Happy woman, and at that time u'll be able to speak to him w/ no problems. until then, don't talk to him much. good luck.
2006-09-20 11:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't find a date and bored tha's why he think of you. Ignore him and go on with your life. Have some pride and there are so many men. Show to him that he is a dirtbag, you can replace him with 12 good real caring MEN.
2006-09-20 11:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by SNOWMAN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Avoid this jerk. It sounds like he's sown a few wild oats without regard to your feelings, & the grass wasn't greener in the other pastures. Ignore him and find some man who will treat you right and with the respect and love you deserve.
2006-09-20 11:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because ya'll broke up doesn't mean that ya'll can't be friends. I'm sure that he's just been thinking about things lately and your just one of them. You should be happy about that, I would love it if my ex contacted me and watched to just hang out. Something may have happened in his life lately that's made him think of his friends and others in his life. He's just checkin on you.
2006-09-20 11:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by kountry_kandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you are still pist off about the break up.totally normal and you know what next time he talks to you decide whether or not you want to play this childish game anymore.if not stop all contacts and let it be.
2006-09-20 11:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋