Is it ok ok to go through your man phone even if you suspect he cheating?

Answer 1

no, its not ok. It is ok to ask him though

Answer 2

Is it ok... Yes and No.

Everybody is entitled to their own privacy and space. Thats double when it comes to computer emails, IM's and cell phone.
You have to maintain the integrity of his privacy... however, you do have the right to be informed. If you do take a peek at his cellphone.. dont tell him, dont even use what you find as a weapon. Just keep the results quiet and use another method to call him on his "cheating". But if he treats you like a queen, you have no reason to invade in privacy.

Answer 3

Well I had the same promblem. I went though my bf's cell phone . He had a girl's number and I got really upset. I called him and asked him if he was cheating on me . First he got upset because I looked through his phone . He told me she was just a freind and it turned out that it was the same girl he took me to her birthday party. I regret doing that . But the best way is to ask to ask your man if he's cheating or if he has girl's numbers in his phone . But most of all you should trust him and if for sure you know if he's cheating on you . Leave him and find someone else who will treat you right . Butr most of all you need to trust him. Being with someone you need to have trust.I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 4

This is very hard to answer. Does this man go through your personal things such as mail and anything he can get ahold of. It might be better to hire someone. I know that people do this. I have even had someone check my cell phone messages because they got the password to retrieve messages. I have had alot of peronal violating things happen to me, but they have always tried to make it seem like it's okay to do, or they have tried to turn it around and make it seem like i did something.

Answer 5

No its not, even if you were married you still shouldn't, I would never go through my wife’s things or a few of her drawers or in her night stand, might find something funny in there,

Its all about trust, if you think there is something to no trust him about then talk to him if he has nothing to hide he will just hand his phone over or the bill

Answer 6

girl i go threw my boyfriend phone all the time even in front of him and sometimes i see stuff that he may not have wanted me to see but the most important thing is that i know that he isn't cheating on me. we both flirt and may get calls those same persons and i like the fact that he knows he isn't doing anything wrong so he has nothing to hide so his phone is mine that's how you have to look at it.

Answer 7

I would be tempted to go through his phone but at the same time, what if you do find proof that he is cheating? Are you ready to deal with it?

Answer 8

If you have some sort of proof. I caught my EX going through my phone and she actually called some of the numbers asking if they knew me and how. Yeah that's why she's my EX

Answer 9

not a good idea. if you see a number you don't know you automatically start thinking the worse and it could be family or work then you have to deal with thinking of it all the time and driving yourself crazy cause you know he will be mad if you asked him who it was cause he would know you was checking his phone

Answer 10

Girl, I just did that the other day. I told him I did it, why? For sh*ts and giggles I guess but, he made me feel bad after wards. But if the opportunity presents itself take it! I would again, but this time I won't tell.

Answer 11

If you suspect then you need all the evidence that you can get when you confront him. So snoop away just don't get caught.