I asked him to the dance and he said he'll think about it. That was two weeks ago and the dance is Friday night. He hasn't said anything. Usually my friend would ask him, "Have you thought about it?" And would get the same old answer."I don't know". She didn't ask him today, but I'm worried if I ask him too many times I'll scare him away! Should I wait for him to tell me? Because he hasn't said anything to me unless I was the one who started the conversation. Or should I keep on asking 'till he comes up with an answer?
2006-09-20 11:10:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would be patient and wait but of course it doesnt hurt to do what godess says...
2006-09-20 11:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by mytedominatrix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be direct and tell him, you need an answer one way or the other so you are able to make other arrangements!
HOWEVER - do be prepared for the 'N' word... it could happen, and if he isn't going to go with you, than you need to go get yourself another date =)
Chances are, in the back of his mind he is a hot commodity... and thinks something better will com along.. even though deep down he knows he wants to go with you... men are silly like that and they like to leave their options open... right up to the day they get married LMAO (and maybe even after that.. but that is a whole other topic lol)
I wish you the best and hope you have a great time.... PS Tomorrow is Thursday.....that is ONE day until the dance.... you have given him enough time.. however don't have your friend ask him - do it yourself =)
There is also no shame in going alone or with some girlfriends, in fact once you get there, dates always dispurse and mingle with their friends anyways....
2006-09-20 18:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ goddessofraine ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you wait till the night of the dance and when you have him in the heat of the moment go and grab him by the hand and drag him to the dance floor.... otherwise all the rest is just you being a nag...
2006-09-20 18:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy says "I'll think about it", he is not interested. Don't waste your time. Even if you get a "yes" answer, it's only because nothing better came up. Don't sell yourself short. He is going to play with you. Don't give him that satisfaction. Ask somebody else or go with other girls.
2006-09-20 18:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Wondering myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, i hate to say it, but he's had 2 weeks to think about it, and still hasn't replied, he's probably not going. But, don't let him know you care, find you a back up date just so he'll make up his mind, and then if he says no, then you still get to go.
hurry, times running out!
2006-09-20 18:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by aswingerof2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't think of these things until the last minute. He may need a bit of prodding; so just tell him you need to know so that you can make other plans if he doesn't want to go.
That might light his little flame, if there is one.
2006-09-20 18:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't remember you - but let it be stop asking maybe he doesn't know how to dance- just wait till the dance
2006-09-20 18:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should move on and find another date, if he said he'll think about it the first time u answered it then u should have said never mind. get off of him and find somone who can make up their minds.
2006-09-20 18:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
His answer is I don't know , He doesn't want to and he is not telling you a straight answer.. its been 2 weeks, give it up.
2006-09-20 18:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask some one else some times you have to crap or get off the pot
2006-09-20 18:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋